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Why should you let the guy pursue you?

Name: Why should you let the guy pursue you?
Uploaded: 2024-01-26T15:03:42+00:00
Duration: 3 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short YouTube monologue arguing that during courtship a man’s active pursuit is a useful signal of readiness for a relationship: pursuit indicates a…

26 Jan 2024 · 0 min

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Short YouTube monologue arguing that during courtship a man’s active pursuit is a useful signal of readiness for a relationship: pursuit indicates a provider mindset and ‘true masculine energy.’ The speaker frames this as an observational test rather than a demand—if he pursues, proceed; if not, step away.

Springy spring said, wait, don't be entitled. But no. 50. 50.
When did I say this? Definitely no. 50. 50. In the courtship. You want him to show up for you and to pursue you in. In terms of entitlement. This isn't entitlement. Like, he has to do this. This is what we are observing. Right. Meaning? Because if he does this, we know that he is in a provider mindset and he's in his true masculine energy.
If that is not the case, he's not going to be ready for a relationship. Yeah. So we're not saying he has to do that. We're observing. And if he does it, great. If he doesn't, we know he's not ready and we're going to step away. But there isn't. We're not trying to control people here.