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Why should you never ask a man to do something for you?

Name: Why should you never ask a man to do something for you?
Uploaded: 2024-05-28T13:01:48+00:00
Duration: 29 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) responding to a viewer question about whether it's wrong to ask a man to pay for hair, nails, or similar expenses…

28 May 2024 · 0 min

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Short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) responding to a viewer question about whether it's wrong to ask a man to pay for hair, nails, or similar expenses. The speaker argues that expecting or asking a man to pay is a turn-off, that having to ask means the man never wanted to give (so the connection isn't there), and that asking is framed as begging which surrenders personal power; the speaker also warns against transactional/sugar-baby-style relationships in courtship.

Virtuous Naj says is it wrong to ask a man I'm dating to pay for my hair and nails etc is that a turn off for men? It's a turn off if you expect it but here's the thing if you have to ask for it he never wanted to give it to you. The connection isn't there.
That's number that's number two. Number three is.
When you ask a man to do something you're begging him to do it and you lose your power.
Yeah.
There are a lot of people on the Internet that will talk to you about sugar baby relationships and transactional relationships in the courtship. You do not want to do that. That's going to be an immediate turn off.
Because he's not your man and that may be the responsibility of your actual man but if you're expecting someone to do that for you and he there's no commitment there why would he do that? That's like giving money to charity right Like.