Anwar White argues women shouldn't ask male partners for money because it signals desperation and suggests the man either can't afford it or isn't right for you. He warns the behavior makes respectful men cynical and damages other women's chances with regular partners.
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Your mom says, I want him to spend money on me. I know he's into me. I need a tip on how to ask. No, girl. We don't ask men to spend money on us. That looks desperate, and that looks messy. If he's not already doing that, then his capacity to do that is not there. Either he doesn't have the money or he doesn't. You're not the one. So if you feel like you have to ask him for that, then it's not happening, and I think you should move on. Secondly.
He'S not your father.
So he doesn't have to do that. And I think the expectation of doing that actually will hurt your sisters in this dating game. Right, because the good guys are actually going to turn really jaded and bitter because they're going to think that, oh, my God, all these girls want to use me for is my money. And so you're. When you do that and you get to date however you want to, I just want to let you know that you're making it harder for your sisters out there that are looking for a regular degular guy.
That wants to show up but doesn't want to be used.
