Anwar White argues you should never ask for gifts and instead let others give freely. He addresses questions like how to get someone to pay your rent, then explains why asking is misguided before offering two pieces of advice.
Mariah said, should we ask for gifts or let them give them freely? Always let them give freely. Here's the thing. If you have to ask for a gift.
It'S not it, girl. That's not it.
Yeah. A lot of people come and ask me, how can I get him to pay my rent? How can I get him to get gifts?
Two things that I want to offer.
One, if he's already not doing that.
That might be a problem. Number two, if we're not giving the sort of energy that is inspiring him to do that, that's the work that we get to do. One of my clients in la, she's gagged because for the first time in her life, she's having all of these men that are inspir. Inspired to want to do for her, girl. They're both taking her to. They're both want to do Santa Barbara trip weekends. I'm not going to give any names, girl, because we keep it confidential and queued up in my program. But I think she's going to Santa Barbara this weekend and she goes. She's going to go to Santa Barbara next weekend. So if you see a beautiful black woman in Santa Barbara, she's probably one of my clients, girl, and she's having these men show up for her because she is truly in her feminine. She is truly just sharing her feelings and what she wants and showing appreciation and admiration for what these guys are doing for her, okay?
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
