Short excerpt from a YouTube video by Anwar White offering dating/relationship advice: speakers warn against demanding behavior, particularly when in a 'feminine' relational stance, and recommend expressing feelings and preferences (using phrases like 'I would prefer if' or 'I would feel most comfortable if') to set boundaries while preserving connection.
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No, no, no. Said who pays the bill? Answer me. Well, if you talk to men this way, you will not have many dates. Honey, we ask questions and we're polite. We don't demand. When you're in your feminine energy, never demand.
Share feelings, share preferences and sit back and see what he does. When you try to control and when you're demanding, your masculine energy will actually create disconnection. This is such a great example of that. Like, if I hear something like that, like, it makes me not want to answer you. Yeah, and I know every other guy would be like that. That's why I would tell people, like when you're setting boundaries, talk about. I have two words I call foundational boundary words. Preference or comfortability. I would prefer if or I would feel most comfortable if. Yeah, I think it's such a great learning opportunity for everyone.