Short video advice from relationship coach Anwar White advising against rekindling relationships with ex-partners. The speaker argues that exes who return after a breakup are unlikely to be suitable partners or even healthy friends, stresses firm boundaries, and gives a statistic about breakups led by women.
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Kara said, my ex and I broke up, and he said he didn't want a relationship with me. Now he's back and trying again. Don't. Don't take him back. As someone who gets people into relationships every week, let me tell you something. Your future husband. It will never be on and off. It will always be on. Yeah. And guess what, ladies? They will always come back. 70% of breakups happen from women, and they will always, always come back. Always come back. Your job with your boundaries is to make sure that you never let them come back. Yeah. Not even friends. Can I be friends with him? No. No. Because the same thing that broke y' all up is the same reason why he's not going to be a great friend for you. And people don't think that. They think, oh, it's going to be less commitment as a friend. No. You should have the same similar requirements for a boyfriend than you have with a friend. Yeah.