A short YouTube monologue (by Amber, uploaded by Anwar White) advising against being demure or "cute and mute" while dating. Amber urges listeners to speak up, set boundaries, and be openly vulnerable, arguing that men will respect women more when they have boundaries and that being demure leads to boredom and being overlooked.
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Glam Tam Tam said, Amber, you're very, very cutesy, very demure. I hope not. I hope I'm the least demure person out there. I don't want to be demure and I don't want you to be demure either.
If you're gonna be demure while dating, girl, you're gonna get ran over.
And ran through and not in a good way.
Don't be demure while dating.
Speak your peace, speak your truth, talk your ish and make sure that you're setting boundaries and you're being vulnerable all day every day when I tell you that men will respect you more when you have boundaries.
And the girls that are demure, they keep it cute and mute.
No shade. But if you're a nice girl and that's what Demir is giving.
You'Re going to be boring.
And you know what? He's going to find something more exciting because demure is not exciting. It's not intriguing. Yeah.