Short monologue-style dating advice arguing against partnering with complainers. The speaker recommends choosing calm, non-dramatic men (engineering/accounting types), warns that complainers require constant emotional labor, and values confident men who can dance.
Kylan said, do you want more children and more. I have three now. I was begging my. My husband for more. I wanted to adopt because we've done surrogacy for the past three children.
He's really nice. He's Canadian, so he doesn't say no, but he says, let's think about it. And that means no. Sometimes you have to translate these men, honey, you got to know your man, and you got to translate what means yes and what means no. So when he says, so, for example, when my husband says, okay, let's think about that, that's a no. When he comes in the house and I say, oh, how was your day? And he said, oh, it's okay. That means his day was horrible. He's not a complainer. Ladies don't get with men that are complainers.
Something. There are some things that I want you to think about when you are getting with a man. Number one, don't get with a man that is a complainer because you're gonna have to pay counselor to him all the time. Number two, get with a calm man. This is like the engineering, accounting types. You don't want to get with the actors and all that. That's drama. You in the theater all day, every day. Yeah. Roller coaster of emotions. You don't want that. And some people are like, that's boring. You want boring. Number three, get with a man who knows how to dance. That's a level of confidence that you don't, that most guys don't have. And that's the level of movement that you want.
Those are three tips. I just want to serve. Serve, y' all.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
