Anwar White responds to a viewer question about overcoming dread when using dating apps. He advises treating apps lightly—like gambling in Las Vegas—expecting most matches are not 'the one', keeping interactions casual and avoiding heavy emotional investment.
Cindy Noir said, hey, Anwar, how do you get past the dread of sifting through people to find your match, girl? By realizing, like, these apps, girl, I think so many of us are taking them so seriously, and we're thinking that every situation is like.
Like the one. 99% of them are not the one. So when you're on the apps, ladies, I want you to think about it as if you're in Las Vegas and you're just gambling and they're just slots, honey.
No thought, girl. Just, oh, interesting, fun, interesting. See what happens. Hope I win. Didn't win. Hope I win. Didn't win. Hope I win. Okay. Got a little something. Yeah, girl. Pretend you're, like, on the strip.
A little bit of gambling here. A little bit of gambling here.
No hard investment whatsoever.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
