Anwar White argues you don't need to have your life together before dating. If you've got about half of it figured out, you're ready to start. Waiting for perfection kills relatability and keeps you isolated from the people who could help you grow.
Alicia said, is your program for people who have it together. I was looking at your questions.
Here is what I want to offer to you all. Nobody has it together. And if you're waiting to be perfect or to have it together, you will never date. What I think is really important is to understand that if you have half your shit together, you're ready to date. Because you have to understand that a quarter of your shit is going to get together while you're dating, and the other quarter of your shit is going to get together while you're in the relationship. So many of us perfectionists, AKA people who have grown up in a household with overly critical mothers who never felt good enough, are going to feel like they have to be perfect to date. And you don't have to do that. That ultimately, if you. You get to do that if you want. But here's what I want to offer to you. When you're perfect, it's going to be hard for other people to actually relate to you. They'll admire you, but they won't be able to relate to you.
You want to be comfortable in your humanness. That's how people can deeply relate to you.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
