Why should you not want to be approached by men, especially in public places?

Taji said, men never approach me. I smile and try to be approachable, but it doesn't happen. What do I do? Well, first of all, you don't want men to approach you. I know that sounds really crazy. Especially in, like, public spaces. Like, if you're at the mall, if you're getting gas, if you're at a Walmart, the guys that approach you are going to be wildly unserious and are just trying to play you to just try to get a number to sleep with you. The guys that you want to engage with are guys that are in more intimate spaces that have, like, an invisible velvet rope. So, like, conferences, museums, house gatherings, certain events where not everybody can get into, those are the people that you want to start having and meet. Because here's the thing. When you're in those sorts of spaces, it's not about being approached. It's all mingling because you're all in the same space. Yeah. And there's a level of familiarity there that doesn't feel like this rando is coming up to me.