Anwar White advises a 23-year-old dating a 41-year-old to reconsider. Large age gaps often signal power and control issues, and the younger person's brain won't fully develop until around 25, making them vulnerable to manipulation.
Doreen said, I'm dating a 41 year old and I'm 23 years old. Any tips? I probably step away from it.
I always question men that are significantly older. Like, what it tells me is that he's looking for someone that he can control. And no shade, but your prefrontal cortex doesn't finish growing until you're 25.
And these older men know that. Yeah. And so what it tells me is that this guy.
Probably is not interested in the totality of who you are and is looking to control you in certain kind of ways. Now, this is probably not advice that you're going to hear from other people. They're going to try to be cute and say, love is love, and maybe love is love. But I want to talk about the majority of the cases. Right. So that you can feel safe and protected while you're dating.
So I'm, I'm cautious.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
