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Why should you stop pushing the guy away?

Name: Why should you stop pushing the guy away?
Uploaded: 2024-03-13T12:39:02+00:00
Duration: 45 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) advising women to stop pushing potential partners away as a test of commitment. The speaker argues that using…

13 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) advising women to stop pushing potential partners away as a test of commitment. The speaker argues that using obstacles to test men repels healthy men—only unhealthy pursuers ("stalkers" or "thieves") chase—so women should stop creating tests and "be cool."

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Justice said, I pushed this guy away. How do I get him to chase me again? You don't. You need to stop pushing guys away. That's a defense mechanism. Women will do this because they think that they're too much. And so you try to put these guys through these, you know, American Ninja Warrior.
Obstacle courses to see if he's strong enough to be with you. Stop doing that.
Be cool. You don't need to do that. Yeah, because regular guys that are healthy and normal, they will never come back. That's why I say you can't get regular, like, healthy guys to chase you. Healthy men don't chase.
Yeah. Stalkers chase.
Thieves chase.
Criminals chase.