A short monologue advocating a "main character" mentality for dating and self-confidence. The speaker (Anwar White) contrasts extroverted and shy partners, urges listeners (primarily women) to view themselves as the star—confident, desirable, and deserving of courtship—and argues that embodying this attitude increases attractiveness and dating success.
Tips on guys that are shy and not as extroverted as me. That's great, girl. We want the yin and the yang. Yeah, you think? Girl, do you think my partner is extroverted? Not at all. That's why it works. I gotta be the star, and most y' all need to be the star, but y' all are not actually.
Stepping into that role. Many of us are. And this is no shade. Many of us are playing the funny, chubby sidekick in these rom coms, and we're not being the main character in our own level lives. Like, one of the things that I learned, like, I've lived all over the world, and one of the things that I learned in Europe is like, oh, my God, I'm hot, number one. Number two, I'm the main character. And so in my head, and I'm sharing this with you because I want this to be your mentality as well. In my head, all I thought was, of course. Of course these guys want me. Of course these guys want to talk to me. Of course these guys want to court me. Of course these guys want to take me out. That's. That's what I need you to be giving. Yeah.
Here's the thing. When you have that, more people will be attracted to you and. And will. You'll radiate this confidence that I think is so important in. In dating, which many of us maybe aren't necessarily embodying. Okay.
You talked about guys that are shy. I'm not really going to give life to guys that are shy. Your guy, even if he's shy, he's going to get out of his shyness and make it happen for you. Your job is to focus on yourself and making sure that you are embodying this energy. Yeah.
