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Why should you understand and respect a guy's feelings?

Name: Why should you understand and respect a guy's feelings?
Uploaded: 2024-06-11T13:09:09+00:00
Duration: 16 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue (single speaker) arguing that people should acknowledge and respect a man's feelings in dating. The speaker stresses that men…

11 Jun 2024 · 0 min

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A short YouTube monologue (single speaker) arguing that people should acknowledge and respect a man's feelings in dating. The speaker stresses that men experience rejection frequently—claiming the typical experience of rejection for men is much greater ("multiply that times 10")—and that it's reasonable for a man to feel bothered when plans are canceled repeatedly.

Maria said canceled on a first date with the same guy twice because I was sick. He seemed bothered. Red flag.
No, he gets to be bothered.
He gets to be bothered. Just like if a guy canceled on you twice, you would be bothered, too.
The thing that I think people have to understand is that whatever level of rejection that you get while you're dating, I need you to multiply that times 10, and that is half the times that a man is rejected.
Yeah.
So a lot of women will play with these men, and he feels like you're playing with him, that you're not being respectful of his time, his energy, especially if these men are investing in you. Right. He's going to be feeling like he's being more played with.