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Why should you wait at least until the fourth date to invest feelings?

Name: Why should you wait at least until the fourth date to invest feelings?
Uploaded: 2024-02-13T14:59:58+00:00
Duration: 37 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short advice excerpt urging someone not to invest deep feelings early in a relationship. The speaker explains as a rule of thumb that you learn only…

13 Feb 2024 · 1 min

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A short advice excerpt urging someone not to invest deep feelings early in a relationship. The speaker explains as a rule of thumb that you learn only about 3% of a person per week, so after two weeks you know ~6% and should not treat that as the whole person; recommends waiting at least to the fourth date before fully investing emotionally.

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Shantiqua said. I know you said, don't like a guy until the third date, but help. Oh, girl. Girl, what are you doing? What are you doing? Okay, here's the thing, girl. Here's what's gonna help you understand where you're at. You can only know 3% of a guy per week. So if you've only known him two weeks, you only know 6% of him. You cannot like a whole man. If you only know 6% of him. You get to like 6% of him, girl. And I'm not saying that you shouldn't, but what I am saying is that you can't make that the totality of who he is.