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Why shouldn't you meet with an emotionally unavailable man?

Name: Why shouldn't you meet with an emotionally unavailable man?
Uploaded: 2024-03-20T13:05:40+00:00
Duration: 15 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short transcript excerpt from a YouTube video (Anwar White) addressing whether to "meet" emotionally unavailable/unstable men. The speaker rejects…

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Short transcript excerpt from a YouTube video (Anwar White) addressing whether to "meet" emotionally unavailable/unstable men. The speaker rejects matching or lowering oneself to a partner's dysfunctional emotional state, comparing it to not coddling a toddler’s tantrum; advice is to maintain standards and only engage if the other person improves.

T said. Hi. Anwar, let me ask my question first. Emotionally unstable men, meet them where they are. No or no, no. Girl.
Girl.
You gotta.
This question is, like, disturbing me a little bit. Why would we meet some. What? If you have a toddler who's throwing a tantrum, do you think that they can be saved at all?
No. They gotta do what they gotta do. Get their shit together and then you can engage with them. Yeah. So no, we don't meet. When you say meet them, it means lower yourself. Never that. We don't match energies in love. We stay where we're at. And if they meet us, great. If they can't.
We let them go, yeah?