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Why shouldn't you move to social media?

Name: Why shouldn't you move to social media?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:44:26.059329
Duration: 1 min 5 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short monologue advising against moving romantic/early-stage conversations to social media (specifically Snapchat). The speaker recommends phone numbers…

7 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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Short monologue advising against moving romantic/early-stage conversations to social media (specifically Snapchat). The speaker recommends phone numbers, texts, calls, and in-person dates for one-to-one, intentional connection and warns social apps make interactions diffuse and entertainment-like.

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Ashley said, should I be bold and ask for his snap? No, girl, don't ask for, don't ask men for their numbers, girl. That's messy. I'm not coming for you. If he wants to, he will. Meaning like if he wants to connect, he'll ask for your snap. But like no, shade don't do snap. Snap is whack. Like if he really wants to be with you, hang out with you, you guys need to exchange numbers, okay? So you can chat so that there can be access, that you're going to have full on real conversations and that it can become a one to one focused conversation. If he's connecting with you on snap, he's connecting with you and a variety of other people. Don't, don't move to social media to have conversations with men. Have them via text, phone calls and physical dates. So that's always one to one. If not, you're going to be one of many things in his feed and just entertainment and it's going to be harder for him to be intentional. Okay?