Anwar White explains why fewer men approach women now and what changed after MeToo and the pandemic. He coaches women on how to signal openness: remove headphones, smile, stand confident, project main character energy.
A Majesty said, single for two years, men never approach me, even when I'm done up. Why? Variety of reasons, but the why doesn't matter. That's not the goal. You don't want guys to approach you.
No shade. We're not at like a seventh, eighth grade junior high dance.
And to be honest with you, these guys are not approaching people in the same way that they did because we're in a post. Me too environment. Post pandemic. Maybe in 96 these guys were, you know.
Approaching you much more. They're not going to do it anymore. I don't want women to think something's wrong with you just because guys are approaching. There's a cultural shift happening. Yeah. And so what. What it means is that you're going to have to give the green light, right? You're gonna. If you got your, your AirPods on and you reading a book and you're on your phone, you're. You don't look like you want to be messed with. You don't want to be talked to. Put that shit away, girl. Look around. Smile. Feel yourself. Shoulders back. Eight cups out. No shade, right? Have fun. Live in your best life, girl. Get into your main character energy.
That's what it looks like. These are some of the things that I help my clients get into so that they can have interactions in real life.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
