What fraction of the speaker's clients get with non-Black men?

Name: Why Women of Color Don't Date Outside Their Race?
Uploaded: 2024-01-16T12:49:28+00:00
Duration: 1 min 12 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) addressing why many women of color—especially Black women—often do not date outside their race. The speaker…

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Why Women of Color Don't Date Outside Their Race?

16 Jan 2024 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) addressing why many women of color—especially Black women—often do not date outside their race. The speaker attributes this to a "toxic loyalty" programmed into Black women, psychological dynamics tied to emotionally/physically distant Black fathers that lead women to gravitate toward Black men to "heal" paternal voids, and perceptions that non-Black men are "not checking" for them (while arguing that non-Black men are interested but may not approach). The speaker advises different initiation strategies and reports an anecdotal outcome: about 20–25% of their clients end up with non-Black men.

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About 20–25% of the speaker's clients.

Rusta Nina said, why don't I see more women of color dating outside of their race?
Because there is a toxic loyalty out there with black women where they feel, and this is something that has been programmed, we got to stick with the black man. Right? We. And part of it is like it's this weird psychological BS where it's like, it's also because many of our black fathers were emotionally and physically distant that actually so many of us naturally gravitate to black men, thinking that we will heal some of those, those voids in our fatherly relationship. So that's something that happens as well, kind of in the background. Not a lot of people talk about.
But also they think that these other people are not checking for them, these non black men. But non black men are checking for black women. They just are not going to approach you, which means that you have to approach them differently. You have to have a. You have to have a different way of initiating.
With these non black men. Okay.
Yeah. I would say, you know, 20, 25% of my clients get with non black men. The rest get with black men. But the work in my program is being open minded enough to be able to be with someone who is not black. Yeah.