This content was created by Anwar White. This content was uploaded by Anwar White. This is a YouTube video titled "Why won't having money attract wealthy men?" created on September 2, 2024. It features a monologue by a single speaker discussing the dynamics of wealth and dating, particularly focusing on how having money does not necessarily attract wealthy men and the importance of emotional readiness in relationships.
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Someone said Artistry by Chrissy I feel like you attract where you are, ladies get that money and you will attract wealthy men. That's not a hundred percent true. I know that we would like to think that, but that's not true. Because what happens for women when you make more money, your talent, your, your pool shrinks. But when men make more money, their pool expands. And oftentimes those men are, let's just put it in numbers here, going for five, six sevens. Because those women will probably give it up quicker. But if you're like an eight or nine in totality, you got everything going on for yourself. The men that are on your level oftentimes won't actually be going for you because. Because they don't need to, they can just get some without doing the work. And most people are wanting to do things based on convenience. So you have a lot of very like, you know, wealthy women of color out there that are single. I would actually propose that most of them are.
Money will not save you here. Money will not help you in dating. It'll distract you from dating because you can just focus on getting more of it, but it won't help you. The thing that I think is important, that I think money does, is it creates a level of security because many of us didn't grow up in very safe and secure environments, financially or otherwise. So it can help you with your level of safety, but it doesn't help you and actually getting into a deeply connected relationship. And the reason why I say that is when you are striving for money, you are, you're leveling up intellectually and you're probably leveling up physically. You're going, you're probably in oftentimes pretty good shape as well. But emotionally you might still be that 8 year old girl waiting for her dad to come back.
So money can't save that.
Only deeper work can.
So that you're ready to actually be vulnerable.
Let go of the abandonment and neglect wounds that might be permeating.
Having money won't attract a wealthy man.
Having money will allow you to be in spaces where wealthy men are though. So if that is your M.O. go to the F1 racing, go to Art Basel, go to Martha's Vineyard.
But it's not an automatic, I have money, I'm going to get a wealthy man. So I wanted to offer that.
