Short monologue advising women about why a man might suddenly pull away in dating. Speaker emphasizes accepting the fact he withdrew rather than obsessing over the reason, suggests waiting 3–5 days if separation is brief (may precede exclusivity), and notes that pulling away early (before ~6 physical dates) often indicates lack of interest.
Mia said, why would a super great guy pull away from you out of nowhere? Girl, it could be a variety of different reasons. And it sounds like you're driving yourself crazy trying to figure out the why. Our job is not to figure out the why. Our job is just to accept the what. And the what is that he pulled away. Now, if it's only been a day or two, girl, wait three to five days. Sometimes if you're like, been.
Like being courted by a guy and it's like right before exclusivity, sometimes he will pull away because he's got to get his mind, his intellect, his spirit ready to be exclusive with you and then he'll come back. Now the mistake that most women make is they're gonna get mad at him when he comes back and they're like, where were you? Da da da da da. Instead of, hey, hope you're doing well. I was worried about you. Alright.
But that's only if y' all are close to exclusivity. If you've had, let's say six or more physical dates, if you haven't and he's pulled away earlier than that, it means most of the time that he's not into it.
And we just have to accept that like 97% of these guys you won't even go out with a, on a third date with. These are like the dating statistics.
