Short monologue by a single speaker (Anwar White) discussing why some men are 'scared' to make moves in romantic contexts — fear of losing or ruining a developing relationship and respecting boundaries. The speaker contrasts men who rush physical intimacy with those 'relationship-ready' who delay physical affection to build trust and a future commitment.
Chapters
Someone asked why? Scared. Scared because he doesn't want to lose you.
Scared. Right. Scared because he doesn't want to mess up. He doesn't want to be outside of your boundaries. Scared because.
He doesn't want to ruin this. Right. I was talking about this earlier in the live. A lot of these guys were. Will be scared to make a move on you because he doesn't want to make you uncomfortable. He doesn't want to ruin this amazing thing that he had that y' all have going on.
But a lot of women out there will feel offended if he doesn't make a move. Right.
I would feel a little bit offended when the guy's trying to make a move during or after the first date. In my experience, those guys aren't.
Relationship ready. Most of the time. They're more physical. A guy that is, like, ready to be a husband is, like, not focused on getting it in.
Not kissing, not hugging, because he knows that he's gonna take.
However much time it takes.
To get to know you, to relationship you, to marry you. He's not in a rush.