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Why you self sabotage in Dating! #datingadvice #datingtips #singleblackfemale #singleblackwoman #sin

Name: Why you self sabotage in Dating! #datingadvice #datingtips #singleblackfemale #singleblackwoman #sin
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:43:29.132393
Duration: 22 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue advising listeners (primarily women) that self-sabotage in dating functions as a (false) way to predict and control future…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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A short YouTube monologue advising listeners (primarily women) that self-sabotage in dating functions as a (false) way to predict and control future pain. The speaker emphasizes that relationships are imperfect and urges doing the work of conflict resolution and effective communication.

Hey, girl. I don't know who needs to hear this, but the reason why you self sabotage in dating is because it helps you predict what's going to happen, which gives you the illusion that you are in control of your future pain. But the gag is in relationships, dating and love, it's not perfect. And your work is making sure that you're able to resolve conflict and communicate effectively and well. Let's do the work, ladies.