A short YouTube monologue by dating coach Anwar White urging listeners (women) to stop operating as compliant "daughters" and instead cultivate the behaviors of a "good woman"—assertiveness, independence, and boundary-setting—particularly to improve adult relationships and dating outcomes. The speaker frames this as part of his coaching program and references 15 years of dating-coach experience.
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Mo Ashley said. But they expect perfection from us. But here's what I want to offer all of you. And this is what I do on my program. So if you want to do this work, you definitely want to book a call with me.
Many of you are still.
Focused on being a daughter and not a woman.
Let me repeat myself. Where a lot of us are raised to be great daughters, but not great women. So what that means is a daughter, what does she do? She listens, she obeys.
She does what she's told.
She doesn't cause any trouble.
So oftentimes we will do that because that is what gave us the attention and the validation that we need. She gets good grades as an adult. She. She has a good job.
Stop being a good daughter.
That's not going to help you.
In life, but especially in dating.
We need to learn how to be a good woman. And I know it's so freaking ironic since I'm a gay man telling you this, but I'm sharing this with you Based on the 15 years of dating coaching that I've been doing. The quicker that you can get out of her shadow and be desperate for her love, the quicker that you can find true love in dating.
Because the things that you will need to do, a good daughter can't do.
The good daughter doesn't stress her mom out.
A good girlfriend stresses her man out.
That bonds him to her.
A good daughter obeys, doesn't talk back.
A good girlfriend does what she wants and speaks up first.
Maybe I'll do a video about this. It sounds like this is really hitting a lot of y'. All. I'm hoping that this is a good thing.
But this is the sort of work that we do in my program. We go much deeper. Yeah, girl, you know me. I can talk about Ds all day, every day, but we really want to do the work. This is what it sounds like.
So whatever your daughter ways are, you need to drop them and drop them immediately.
