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Why you should never initiate contact first?

Name: Why you should never initiate contact first?
Uploaded: 2024-04-01T13:26:03+00:00
Duration: 51 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short transcript excerpt from a YouTube advice video by Anwar White (uploaded April 1, 2024). A listener asks whether to contact a coworker after a week…

1 Apr 2024 · 1 min

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Short transcript excerpt from a YouTube advice video by Anwar White (uploaded April 1, 2024). A listener asks whether to contact a coworker after a week of no contact; the speaker advises strongly against initiating contact—"Don't reach out first, don't reach out last. Don't reach out ever"—and frames healthy future relationships as effortless compared with roller-coaster romance.

Let me see what y' all are talking about. P said, this guy and I have gone no contact for a week. Should I hit him up first? We work together and not speaking. No. Why are if.
You will never go no contact with your future husband.
All of this, like, roller coaster love that is romanticized in the media and in movies.
Move on.
Being with your future partner will be so easy. You will never have to do this.
Yeah. Don't reach out first, don't reach out last. Don't reach out ever.
Yeah.
I'm saying this with love because I want you to think about this completely differently.
Okay?