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Why you should never make men approach you?

Name: Why you should never make men approach you?
Uploaded: 2024-02-23T14:55:04+00:00
Duration: 3 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short excerpt from a YouTube monologue by Anwar White discussing gender dynamics and dating expectations. The speaker argues that it is not a woman’s…

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A short excerpt from a YouTube monologue by Anwar White discussing gender dynamics and dating expectations. The speaker argues that it is not a woman’s responsibility to make men approach her, criticizes centering one’s actions around men, and warns that trying to force men to act would amount to manipulation.

Said, how do I get men to actually approach me in person? It's not our job.
If there are people on this site that is telling you that it's your job to make men approach you, they're in the wrong business.
The fact that we are so focused on guys approaching us lets me know that we're not centering ourselves, we're centering these men, and we're focused on what they do, on what we versus who the hell we are. Yeah, we don't get men to do anything. They have to do that themselves. And even if you were to get men to do something, it would be based on manipulation.