A short monologue (by Anwar White) advising that calling a man "adorable" or "cute" can be perceived as patronizing or insulting. The speaker notes his personal indifference but warns listeners that such language "matters" and can be taken as an insult by men.
K. Self care said amore. You are so delightfully adorable. Thank you. Can I just say something?
Please understand that if you call a guy adorable or cute, he's going to take it as an insult. I don't take this as an insult because I'm not checking for you and you're not checking for me, so I don't care. But I want to let you all know what you say and how you talk to a guy matters. Right? He doesn't want to hear he's cute. He doesn't want to hear he's adorable. He's going to take that as patronizing. Yeah. So something to clock.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
