A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) offering relationship advice: the speaker argues against always pursuing the most physically attractive partners (the "10"). Key points: be the inspiring partner in a relationship, avoid dating "pretty boys" because of their constant attention from others, and prioritize compatibility and emotional security over chasing attractiveness. The tone is conversational, direct, and cautionary.
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Kimberly said, I love your advice on not always going for the 10.
Yeah, honey, here's the thing. And people wanted me to talk about Simone Biles. I did not. Because I felt like a lot of people were just trying to get views and clicks for their takes on Simone Biles. And it just didn't feel authentic to me.
You want to be. You want to be the 10 in the relationship? I will just say that. Yeah. Because your man is going to want and need to do more than you in a relationship, and he needs to be inspired to do that.
Don't date the pretty boys, honey. The pretty boys will always think that they're a catch, just like the athletes will.
Because all of their lives they have been told that it will not stop.
Yeah.
Don'T date pretty boys.
Leave the pretty boys to the boys.
No, they'll always have. They'll always be the catch because they will always have hundreds of women chasing them. And even though you might be a very secure women, sometimes it will weigh on you, right? Because women will always approach pretty boys, always flirt with them. Even the most secure women will always feel like.
Will he leave me?
Am I saying get with Shrek? No.
But don't go for the 10 girl. I want you in terms of chemistry. I want you to have a solid 7 or an 8 girl, but have a 10 in compatibility. That's how I think about it.
