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Why You Shouldn't Date People Who Are Separated?

Name: Why You Shouldn't Date People Who Are Separated?
Uploaded: 2024-01-16T12:49:47+00:00
Duration: 24 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube advice monologue (by Anwar White) responding to a question about dating someone who is separated but not yet divorced. The speaker…

16 Jan 2024 · 0 min

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A short YouTube advice monologue (by Anwar White) responding to a question about dating someone who is separated but not yet divorced. The speaker strongly advises against dating separated men, arguing from 13 years of experience that it rarely works, and uses a household metaphor (leaving pantry doors open / not putting the bread back) to illustrate unfinished business and likely ongoing availability.

Kendra said, what are your thoughts on dating someone that is separated but going through a divorce? Don't date men that are separated, please.
I've been doing this work for 13 years. It rarely works.
There's something that I tell my kids all the time, and what I tell them is.
Everything that you do, you need to complete. So when you make your lunch in the morning time, when you take the bread out of the pantry, you have to close the door. You have to put the bread back and you need to close the door. These men that are separated and not divorced have not put their bread back and have not closed the door. You don't want a man who does that because guess what? There won't be just one pantry door open for those men. There are going to be a lot of them. Okay.
Don't date a separated man.
He's not ready.