Anwar White argues that feeling desperate about being single reflects a broken dating market, not your worth. Only 10-15% of men are relationship ready, and modern dating is harder than it used to be because men and women's values have diverged so sharply.
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April 22, 2024.
Approximately 10–15% of men.
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Nicole said, I've been single for so long, I'm feeling desperate. Don't feel desperate, girl. Don't do that. So many people have been single for a long time. It actually is not a true reflection of you. It's more of a reflection of the market. I want to let you all know right now, this is the hardest dating has ever been, and it's going to get harder. And that's not some sort of scare tactic like some of these other dating coaches do. It feels like a civil war right now. A love civil war. It's never felt like this before now. I wasn't living back then when the civil war was happening, but there was always this patriarchal slavery that was happening. But now.
It'S becoming more of a civil war between men and women. Value systems are different. Men are becoming more conservative. Women are becoming more liberal. Right. You have sprinkle, sprinkle versus drizzle drizzle. You have 4B versus 5G girl. You got all of this back and forth going on where it's just like not speaking the same language, not speaking the same values, having disdain and hate for one another. I. I haven't seen it this bad in a. Ever. Yeah.
So if you feel like you want to sit out, totally get it and understand. There's still 10 to 15% of the guys out there that are relationship ready, but the most of them are not. But that's always been the case. The important thing that you need to do as you are navigating your dating life is to have a dating strategy. So if you have a dating strategy, or let's say if you don't have a dating strategy, put Nostrategy in the chat. Because one of the first things that I do with my clients is give them a dating strategy for both online and offline. And if you want help with that, I have a dating strategy starter course that you can check out if you're interested, but you don't have to. Yeah, but I want to hear.
Hashtag, no strategy. Do we have a strategy? Do we not have a strategy?