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Why you shouldn't initiate texts or calls to a guy?

Name: Why you shouldn't initiate texts or calls to a guy?
Uploaded: 2024-04-18T13:15:54+00:00
Duration: 58 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short monologue (Anwar White) advising women not to initiate texts or calls to men during early courtship. Uses an anecdote about a woman texting a man…

18 Apr 2024 · 1 min

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Short monologue (Anwar White) advising women not to initiate texts or calls to men during early courtship. Uses an anecdote about a woman texting a man on vacation to argue women should give men space, allow men to pursue, and that initiating contact reduces male "testosterone" and undermines bonding and falling in love. Emphasizes letting men reach out after events like vacations or holidays.

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Thais said, I texted a guy I was interested in. He's on vacay and he hasn't responded yet. Am I being ghosted? Well, first, we shouldn't be initiating text messages with guys. Let them. Let them reach out to you. Yeah, different people have different relationships with their vacations. This is the same with holidays, but as well as vacations. Give a little grace to that. Right? And let's see if he. If he reaches out to you after he comes back from vacation. But, ladies, please stop initiating these text messages and these calls. You're literally pursuing men. Don't do that. It's one of the better ways to evaluate whether a man is in his masculine energy. And if he is interested in you, if he pursues you, please understand that a man will never fall in love with you if he's not pursuing you. So every time you initiate a call or a text early on in the courtship, you are literally making it harder for that man to be your boyfriend.
Literally, when you do this, his testosterone is going to start to go down.
You will not rise. And his testosterone needs to be at a higher level if he is going to be bonded to you, connect with you, fall in love with you.
Just FYI.