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Name: You are not broken! #dating #datingexpert #shorts #datingcoach #datingcoach #datinghack #datingadvi
Uploaded: 2023-01-12T04:02:10+00:00
Duration: 59 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White giving dating advice about how to present past childhood pain to potential partners. The speaker emphasizes that…

12 Jan 2023 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White giving dating advice about how to present past childhood pain to potential partners. The speaker emphasizes that men do not judge the details of one’s childhood but pay attention to one’s relationship to that pain: tell your story briefly and from an emotional distance, avoid dwelling on shame or insecurity, and reframe yourself as a success story. The clip closes with reassurance (“you are not broken”) and a call-to-action to seek therapy or contact the speaker for help.

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Hello, my loves. I just wanted to come on here and just let you know that, you know, men really don't have any idea about your childhood and what was. What it was like. And they're not there to judge you about it. Right? All men care about is your relationship to your pain, not the pain itself. So if you can tell your story quickly and from an emotional distance, men won't think twice about it. But if you dwell on your pain and your shame and insecurity, then you've made your pain like a really big deal, which gets them thinking, is she ready for something serious? You are not broken. You can reframe yourself as a success story. It's all about your relationship with your pain and getting that healing. And if you need help with that, talk to a therapist or reach out to me. Much love.