This is a short single-speaker YouTube monologue (creator: Anwar White) offering dating/social interaction advice aimed at women. The speaker recounts an anecdote about clients in Atlanta and urges women to be more proactive — e.g., sit next to men at bars and "give him the green light" — arguing that many men avoid approaching women because of fear of rejection. The piece is motivational and prescriptive, encouraging women to choose and embody that social agency.
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That's right. Daniela said it. Everything you want is on the other side of fear.
One of my clients. So my clients often create accountability partners in the program. And so some of my clients in Atlanta went out this past weekend. And of course, they were talking to men, because that's what my girls do when they're in my program.
And they were talking to this guy. And by the way, ladies, if you are out and about, don't. Social distance. If you see a guy sitting at the bar, don't sit two seats away or a seat away. Sit next to that mofo. It's not 2020, girl.
Yeah. Act like you in the present. Present day. Yeah. This is an inception.
They were talking to her. They were talking to this guy, and he was saying, it's really hard to talk to women now.
It's there. This. This is what the men are saying when they're out and about. It's really hard to talk to women now because they're. They're getting rejected most of the time, and they don't want to bother women for the most part.
So you're scared to talk to some guy who's scared to talk to you. Y' all both can't be scared.
You get to give him the green light.
Yeah.
That's important here.
Yeah, girl. It's giving middle school dance. And you know what happened in middle school? Nobody got play.
So.
It'S your choice. But I want you to know that you have that power if you choose to embody it.
