You Can Olympic Date

Hey girl. So in my last video I talked about hyper focusing on one man and how women are conditioned to do it and how the new way and the better way is to actually date multiple men or Olympic date. And I got a lot of pushback. The girls wanted to fight me in the comments and just let me know that they can't do it. They can't date multiple men. And what I want to offer to you is that you can definitely do this right. But we have to think about it in a different way. When you think about dating multiple men, I think that so many of you are thinking that you have to give 100% to all of these men. And the reason why you're thinking this way is because we have been conditioned from our mothers and our grandmothers to think that we have to give 100% to each and every relationship that we have. But dating is not relationships. And sometimes I think we conflate them or we confuse them. Right. You don't owe these men anything when you're dating them and they don't owe you anything when you are dating them. Yeah, I hope that that makes sense because so many women are often auditioning to be these men's girlfriends. But that' not how dating is all about when we date. Well, it's actually an act of receiving, receiving all of the things that these men have to offer. And if receiving feels a little bit uncomfortable for you, then that I think is an indication that there's a little bit more inner work that might need to be done. So when we're thinking about dating multiple men, we're not going to give 100% to each and every one of our gold medalists, silver medalists and bronze medalists. We'll give 33% to each one of them until they can prove that they deserve more of our time and attention and heart space. Now, I know that all of this runs pretty counter and the opposite of how you've been conditioned and told and programmed how to date. But I've been a dating coach for over a decade now and this advice has been a game changer for so many of my clients, to the point where 90% of my clients are getting into the most amazing relationships of their life after my six month program. So if that's something that you're interested in, click the link in my bio and book a consultation call. I hope that this is really helpful for you.