Things will bother you. The skill isn't avoiding irritation but letting it go quickly instead of letting it take over your mind. Emotional intelligence helps you recognize what's bothering you, process it, and release it so you can keep moving.
You know, truth of the matter is, it's just gonna be some stuff that's just gonna bother you. It's just gonna get under your skin. It's gonna hit a nerve. It's gonna throw you off balance and impede your flow. But something bothering you is not the issue. The issue is when you let it keep bothering you. And that's why emotional intelligence is so important. You got to stay in flow. You gotta vibrate higher. You gotta get to the point in life where the things you used to trip over, you just step over now.
I was literally kicked off a Southwest flight before for being disrespectful.
