Dr. Aziz explains how self-consciousness works: your brain tags physical signs like blushing, looking away, or a shaky voice as threats. Your amygdala labels these internal cues as danger, triggering intense self-monitoring that amplifies anxiety. It's not reality, it's a neural bias.
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This is the essence of self-consciousness is we're observing everything about ourselves and it feels bad. This is why it feels bad because these observations are not neutral. Like if you were talking to someone, you might notice I'm a little hungry. Okay, that's probably a neutral observation. It's no big deal. These are very different than that. Every single one of these things that you're tracking is tagged to some part of your brain, specifically in your limbic system, your amygdala. as a threat. So you looking away is not neutral information. It's dangerous. Your voice being a little shaky is dangerous. I'm not saying it actually is dangerous. I'm saying that your part of your brain is tagging it that way. And that's why we're hyper-monitoring it.