Emily Williams tells the story of a client who manifested exactly what she wanted: a supportive partner and freedom from her job to focus on her business. But the client felt anxiety instead of relief because her body still identified as a hard-working breadwinner. The gap between what we manifest and who we think we are can sabotage us.
So I have a really important message today, and if you are hearing this and you're stumbling upon this video, it is meant for you. So 2 years ago, my client's husband told her that he wanted a divorce. He had met somebody else. During that time, she was in a job that she didn't love. She was starting a new business, and she told me her dream was to leave that job and go in her business full-time. Fast forward to today, I literally just caught up with her, and she told me she's engaged to someone new, super in love, about to get married in about a month. And her fiancé told her that she doesn't doesn't actually have to work and that he will support her as she goes all in on her business. And ironically, she actually just lost her job. And so she was sharing all of this because what's coming up for her is completely unexpected. She manifested this person and this opportunity. The job is now gone, and she said she wanted to go all in her business, but what's coming up for her is anxiety and fear and doubt and insecurity. And it's because her previous herself, her former identity, so attached to being the breadwinner, the hard worker. She's attached to struggle. And so when she has manifested something with ease and things are flowing, her body literally doesn't know what to do, and her mind is screaming at her that this is not safe and don't go in this direction. And it's so fascinating to me because we say we want all these things, and then when we receive them, it's like, I wanted apples, but not those apples. It's not perfect enough. It's not in alignment with the way that we thought it was gonna look. And And so if you are somebody who is questioning how you're being given the things that you want, if it's feeling like you're constantly receiving and then in the next breath you're nervous about it, you're feeling anxiety, you're pushing it away, I would just remind you that most likely it's not going to come in the way that you expect. And that's actually how it's supposed to be. It's a lesson in trust, a lesson in receiving, allowing things to be easier and allowing them to flow, and ultimately life giving you your identity upgrade. And so if you need this find her on a regular basis, save it. If you know somebody who needs this, send this to them. And follow me on Instagram, @EmilyWilliams, because this is the work we do here.
