A Costly Lesson in Client Meetings

16 May 2026 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker emphasizes the importance of being aware of all participants in a client kickoff meeting, maintaining a relaxed yet alert mindset, and giving appropriate attention to every stakeholder, not just the primary contact. The speaker recounts a specific incident where their team lost a six‑figure pitch because they focused solely on the main client liaison and unintentionally ignored two junior attendees. Although the junior participants were asked a few questions, they felt overlooked, ultimately voting against the speaker’s firm and causing the loss of the deal. The story serves as a cautionary lesson on inclusive engagement and stakeholder mapping in sales and client interactions.

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Being aware of those around you in a kickoff meeting, when you start to work with the clients, is really important. Understand who seems to have the say, the word, have that alertness, relaxed alertness with everything that's going on in that meeting. We lost a pitch one time, it was a 6-figure client. They loved what we're doing. They knew that we were technically solid. We gave all of our attention to this person because he's the one who's been working with us. There were 2 other people in the meeting, seemed to be junior. We did not ignore them. We asked a couple of questions, but this person, we learned later, they felt that we ignored them. We really didn't, but we did not give them as much attention as we should have and could have. So they voted against us as a vendor and we lost that deal.