CA$H - The Aligned Sequence to Wealth - Day 2

Sam. Hello, gorgeous. Human beings of the Cash program yesterday was very fun. I have loved watching inside the group. Some of the context that you're setting. You're getting it. This is good. And if it's a little confusing and you're a little stressed about it, please don't be stressed about it. It's all going to come together. So most important thing yesterday that we talked about was setting the context and really seeing that the overarching context that we create for our lives, depending how big or how itty bitty the context is, changes our ability to stay connected and to be in the vibe and to be in the energy. So a lot of the time, the context sets the vibe of the dream, sets the vibe of the vision. And so the smaller I'm just jumping in. I hope that's okay. Hello. I love you. I'm happy you're here. I'm already in. Okay, we're in, we're in, we're in. So the context, the energy depends. Like, the less energy you have, the smaller the context it is. The bigger the energy you have, the bigger the context it is. And you can grow and stretch your context as you grow and stretch your energy. Your capacity to hold people, your capacity to hold conflict, your capacity to hold when something goes wrong. What's the word I want to say? Diversity. That's not the word at all. Your ability to hold disappointment. Yes. Duality. Hello. Why did I that word just exit my brain. Your ability to hold duality. Thank you. Your ability to hold all the things. Adversity. That's also a good one. Your ability to hold adversity, your ability to hold duality, your ability to hold conflict stretches your capacity to hold a bigger context. So even when I started my journey, I could not have imagined that one day words coming out of my mouth would be like, I am here to normalize big hands. Big hands. I am here to normalize big hands. That's what I'm doing. It's what I do now. I normalize big hands for women to normalize big money in the hands of women, to say things like, to restore gender equality around wealth for entrepreneurs. Like, we're completely in charge of our financial future. Yet still, even in entrepreneurship, there's more men that are making more money than women. If we want to see women also earning big money, it's a huge context. I don't even know that I would have known to think that when I first started the context of, like, healing generational wealth, the context of all people, because that's even Changed since Alpha femme. Now we hold all people. Although I'm a woman and I speak mostly the language of woman, people of all walks of life that come to me and say, I love what you teach. And although I don't resonate with everything because, you know, you're a woman speaking to mostly women, I can pick up so much learning from you. The context has grown also setting men free, setting men free from those gender limitations of the man should be the one that earns. For. For how many years have men, good men, been not chosen because they made less money? Like really good men and women said, I have to choose the one who can provide for me, even though my heart pines for you. Although you're the one who makes me dream, you're the one I think of. You're the one, you're the one. But I can't because my family is rich and they expect more from, for me and for my kids, or because I need to choose. I need to choose a man that has the money and if I'm going to have a good life. And so I'm choosing money over love. And so to set men free from that paradigm where you can be loved for who you are, not how much money you make. Like, these contexts have come, have shown up so big now, and they weren't that way before. Now I'm really, I'm really stretching the context for what I believe is possible. For me, for you, for us, that's an even bigger context. When I first started this, it was trying to set myself free for me, for you, for us, became bigger layers of context. So as I stretch my context, I stretch my power. I stretch my ability to hold my understanding of life, of people, of bigger, bigger, bigger context. And the thing with the context is that the bigger it is, the smaller everything else is. The little milestones and the little pit stops on the way to the big context, they're inevitable. It's like if my whole goal in life is to stop the next restroom stop, rest stop on the highway, I am looking like at every sign, like, is there going to be a restroom there? Is there a rest stop? I'm going to stop soon. Am I going to stop soon? But if my context is making it to across the country, I'm going to pass so many restaurants rest stops, it's hard to count. And even if I missed one and get the other one, because in a bigger context, there's gonna be rest stops all the way. But on a context where I need a rest stop right now, I need a rest Stop right now. I'm very stressed. And you're going to notice that when you need to go to the restroom, the time. The closer you get to the restroom, the more urgent your need to go to the restroom is, even if you've been able to hold it for two hours. The minute you get to be 10 minutes away, five minutes away, two minutes away, it's like your bladder knows. This is how we do with manifestation. You have this big dream and it's fine, and you're cool and you're chill, and then all of a sudden, you're real close to hitting it this month. And whatever is in charge of your bladder becomes in charge of your mind. And you're like, I need people to buy from me now. I need evidence right this second. Somebody needs to tell me. You've been waiting 10 years for the relationship of your dreams. You've been dating two weeks. You cannot handle another day without I love you. You need to know where you stand right now. Why? Why? Why the panic? Because the closer I get to the finish line, somehow this sense of extreme panic takes over my bladder, my mind, my heart. Like, I need an answer now. I need a restroom now. I need a snack now. I need whatever it was that I didn't need one hour ago that I was fine to wait two hours for. Now it's close. I need it now. So close. I can't not have it right now. We do this in the manifestation sequence. So the bigger context creates that everything on the way there is going to get crossed. Like you're going to cross a rest stop. It's going to happen. If your context is falling in love and having the greatest love affair of your life. Hearing I love you is part of that journey. You don't need to put pressure on that. There is no way it is inevitable that you are going to cross that bridge on the way to the greatest love affair of all times. You don't get the greatest love affair of all times without I love you. But if you switch the context to this tiny, little energetic context you're focusing on. Has he told me he loves me yet? Has she told me that she's ready to be just with me and she's not going to be seeing anybody else yet, Are they ready to commit now instead of continuing on that big context of the greatest love affair in my life and whenever they're ready and whenever, whenever it's time, what's meant to be will be. The greater the context, the more space, the more ease, the more flow, the smaller the Context. The more fear, the more restriction, the more checking in. And so this is really important to remember because the next step of the manifestation sequence and of the sales sequence is a which is alignment. Now, I hear this word utilized funny all the time. People be like, you've got to be in alignment with what you are in alignment. That's how you manifest. You're manifesting all the time. I'm manifesting all the time. You are in alignment always with what? I'm in alignment with being very stressed that I'm not going to hit my goal this month. Well, congratulations. You did it. You told yourself you were not going to probably hit the thing that you wanted to hit. And then you were in alignment with that belief until the end of the month came. And you did not, in fact achieve the goal that you wanted. And you are in complete alignment with your fear. Congratulations. You received the exact result that you have been manifesting this entire month. Congratulations. I am so afraid about this relationship not being the right relationship because what if my heart gets broken? You're going to align to that? Well, I mean, I'm going to think about it and stress about it and act weird about it. And then guess what? The relationship doesn't work out. And you were an energetic match. You stayed in alignment through the finish line. Congratulations. Congratulations. You stayed in alignment with the thing you didn't want and you got it. The booby prize goes to. We're always in alignment, but with what? This is not crooked. If it's in alignment with this. This is only in alignment if it's in alignment with this. Because this might look like alignment, but it's not. If it's with this, we think we're in alignment with what. So here's where we get into a little bit of a issue. So we create this big context. I desire to achieve a six figure year or a seven figure year. We're gonna go with seven figure year because I'm calibrating us all to millions in this moment. So if you've already done a seven figure year. Seven figure month. Okay, so we're calibrating to a seven figure year. So that is not actually a big context. As wild as that sounds, that is not a big context. Why? Because your brain is going to do this. In order to hit a seven figure year, I need to have at least $84,000 a month. And if I don't have an $84,000 a month, I probably won't have a 6, 7 fig. That's how fast you can destroy that context. It means it's tiny. A context that is big can't be destroyed with a train of thought. And the reason it's so important to stretch the context is because our trains of thought go all over the place based on all kinds of different things. You're having a bad day, you're going to unwind your train of thought and your context is gone. So you want to create something that's so big it can't be destroyed by a train of thought. So if you're thinking your context is huge, that you're aiming to be a millionaire, think again. I can destroy that thing in like 3.5 seconds. Like you need one or two pieces of evidence or lack of evidence and the whole thing's kapoop. Like you're like, oops, don't believe anymore if you, if you don't believe anymore like that it was not a strong context. And you will be shocked at how fast you stop believing in things when it's possible to destroy them with a train of thought. So if I say I am going to create more wealth than I could possibly imagine to create in my lifetime, I can't today even conceive the wealth I'm going to create. And I don't even need to know now because it's going to happen over the course of my lifetime. But on top of that, I'm going to celebrate every single extraordinary milestone around wealth because I am going to utilize all of those celebrations and the unrealistic, unreasonable wealth I create in my life to empower human beings and normalize big wealth in our hands. Like that is. That is what I'm going to do. Try to destroy that with a train of thought. You can even empower the context even more. Whether I succeed or fail with money in every moment, I will find the lessons that are necessary for me, for you, for us to calibrate to wealth faster and stronger than ever before. Every hiccup on the road, on the way to wealth for me will just be a stronger teaching factor for me to be able to empower more people no matter what their journey is around money, to become more financially aligned with limitless abundance over a lifetime and exponential wealth. Try to break that down with a train of thought. It's like I am literally bulletproofing my belief systems. Now. When you're surface level manifestation and you're learning from a book, you're going to read like you want to have a really positive thought. And this is a really positive thought. It's a really positive thought to say whether I Succeed or fail around money, I will always bring that back to a teaching which will empower me and you and us for the rest of time to make more wealth forever and ever. This is a very positive thought. The thing with a positive thought is that it has a very simple, energetic flip side, which is what people would call a negative thought, which is, who am I to think I can do that? I can't. And so that is how you dwindle a context. That's just a thought. So if you don't actually feel every fiber of every part that makes up your energetic context, if it's just a positive thought, it can be destroyed like this. I am going to do blah, blah, blah, blah. Who am I to think I can do that? I can't. It doesn't even need a train of thought. It just needs its vibrational opposite. It's not true. No, I can't. So if you don't build this up from truth, it's just a thought. This is why big context like this don't actually land for everybody. You may be listening to me say things like this and your body is not feeling like, yes, your body's feeling like. I don't think I have that big of a context. It's okay. It's okay. But you're going to find what the biggest context is that you can find that cannot be unraveled by a train of thought. And it's not just a thought that can be negated by its opposition. It's not just, I'm going to be wealthy. No, I won't. I am capable of doing big things in my life. No, I'm not. You've got to believe it. There's got to be. And this is the most important part in creating your context. The biggest context you feel is true. So let's say, for example, you don't believe in the seven figure year yet. I'm trying to calibrate you to it right now and you're like, no, but what if instead I said, I am becoming an energetic match for celebrations around wealth so that I can celebrate my way to however many riches I'm meant to have in my life. I'm going to make sure that it's a positive experience. And so every amount that comes into my life, I'm going to really connect to that amount in a positive way and in a celebratory way to truly be connected to the beauty of the experience around wealth I'm going to have in my lifetime. Can you get behind that? Does that feel true? And does that get dwindled with one little problem? No, you can stay super strong in that. So you want to find things to say that really anchor you. Like, I believe that that's true. And I can add to that and I can refine that. Your context will get bigger with time, It'll get stronger with time. You're going to change things about it. But right now, the goal is to look at the biggest context available now to know if you're in alignment with that context on a daily, weekly, minutely basis. You're going to notice if everything's in alignment except the but. So you might be like, I am so in alignment with this but. No, you're not. You cannot be full any fully in alignment except your butt. If you're in alignment, you're in alignment. You're either a straight line or the butt is not in alignment. You're doing the hula, you're doing the belly dance. You cannot be in alignment except for your butt. It doesn't work. So if you find yourself the minute you find the but, you're not in alignment. So here's how it usually go. This is how it usually goes. So I, I will create more wealth in my life than is ever than I can even imagine right now. So there's no point in me trying to imagine it because I am going to create more wealth than I can possibly imagine right now. But not just that. I'm going to celebrate all the parts of the wealth being created for me, for you, for us. Whether it's a positive experience or a difficult experience, I'm going to take all of that, create it into knowledge for me, for you, for us, so that we can normalize big money in our hands. Like, that's what I'm doing on this planet. But I'm not in alignment. The minute there's a but that's not in alignment, I'm not in alignment. You. I cannot tell you how many times I hear people tell me, no, I am in alignment. It's just. It's just the but is not. There can't be. It's just. There can't be a but. If there's. It's just. Or. But you're not. You're not in alignment. You're almost in alignment. But. So what happens when we're not in alignment? So now here's, here's how we really mess it up. This is like a work of art. But you're going to recognize yourself in this. So let's say I'm like, yeah, but I don't I don't have enough people who know me in the big scheme of things. When I'm looking at the big thought leaders out there, I'm. They have like a million followers, 3 million followers. I don't have that. How am I going to create more? I'm so grateful for the people that are in my life. But what I'm doing in this moment is I am taking myself so far out of vibrational alignment with every single word I'm saying that I am completely no longer in alignment. Now what I have is a positive thought and a very different feeling. This is misalignment. This is why positive thinking actually messes it up for most of us. Because we think, because we're thinking positive that we should be manifesting our things. But the thing is, if your positive thought gives you a negative but you're out of alignment, yes, of course the thought that's the context for your life is going to be positive. But if it's only just a positive thought, then a feeling that alters the thought immediately takes you out of alignment. So now here's how people do the worst thing we do. This is the worst thing. So. So now I say, okay, stop the but you are taking yourself so far to vibrational alignment. Like, stop it, stop it. And you say, okay, but how do I stop it? You are so far from your alignment now I feel like I need to yell at you, stop it. You're going too far. It's like you're playing hot and cold with the universe. You're playing hot and cold with God. You're saying, I have this huge context. And then you start walking in the wrong direction. The universe is like, cold, cold. And then you keep walking in the direction where the universe is saying, cold, cold. The next thing, you're in Antarctica and you're wondering why it's cold. There we go. So far out of energetic alignment with our goals. It's mind blowing. And we do this all the time. You will do things like, ok, I am launching this incredible program and it is going to be amazing and it is going to be the best thing in the world. And there are going to be 32 people who are going to buy it and they're going to be so excited about it. And my branding is amazing and I'm so in alignment and I love it and it's great and I'm launching it and I've launched it. Oh, my gosh. Nobody's bought it. It's been two minutes. I know, but I thought for sure somebody Would buy it right away. It's been four minutes. Oh, my gosh. What if they don't buy it? Okay, don't do that. Yeah, I know, but, like, how do I stop thinking it if they're not buying it? Just stop. Go do something else. I can't do something else. I've got to do something. Maybe I should make another post. Should I do another post? Maybe I should say something else about it. Okay, nobody's buying it for real. Maybe I should. I take it down. I should take the whole thing down. I knew I shouldn't have gone live in this energy. I was in the right energy. I need to take it down. You're in Antarctica right now. No, no, I'm still super positive. Like, I still believe in my product. I know. It's the best thing. Like, it's the best. I still believe. No, you don't. Okay, help me fix it. How do I stop doing this? Stop it. But how do I. How do I stop? Stop. But what do I. What do I. What do I do to stop it? Stop. But the thing is, now I really believe what I'm saying, that it's not going to work. I don't know how to bring myself back. Go back to the context. Am I allowed to take myself back to the context after I've, like, destroyed the context with my mind? Yes, because the stronger context is bigger than your mind. I'm allowed to just go back to the context? Yes. Can you please go back to the context? What's the context? I'm going to end up making more wealth in my life than I can even comprehend right now. Whether there are successes or failures in my life, I'm going to take all of those lessons anyway. For me, for you, for us to normalize. Big money in our hands. Can you stay there? Yes, but. Nope, nope, nope. You're. You're. No, no, but. If there's a but, you're out of alignment. Alignment is sensitive and fragile because the thing is, you're constantly looking for something to align to all the time. And the easiest thing to align to is the thing you most believe in. So unfortunately, when you most believe in the fact that you've messed up your launch, you're aligning to that because it's like a magnet. This is why we've got to work on our personal power with all of our might. Because the fact is, your personal power allows you to only align with the things that are in alignment with your context. And you can feel the difference. How do you feel the difference? You feel the difference when I believe that I am doing big things on this planet. That what I say matters, that what I do matters. That everything is going to be okay. That I cannot believe what's coming for me in my life. That I cannot begin to imagine the greatness that I'm going to create. That whether it's good, bad or ugly, it's going to pay off for me. And it's going to make sense in the long run. That every difficult thing that's ever happened to me has brought me here. And every difficult thing that might come in the future is going to take me there. That there's more celebrations than I could count. That this matters. That I matter. That I will leave a legacy behind if I am fully connected to that truth. I can feel it. I can feel it in my soul. I feel it in my body. I feel it in my heart. I feel it in my belly. I feel it in my throat. I feel it in my eyes. I feel it in my hair. I feel it in my face. I feel it in my legs, my toes. I feel it everywhere. I am locked and loaded. I'm in this vortex of power and I feel it. And when I'm not in it, I. I'm human. I've. I'm feeling and I'm thinking and I'm not in it. I know the zone. You know the zone. There's a zone where you're in it, and when you're not in it, you're not in it. And you cannot think your way back into the zone. You gotta choose your way back into the zone. I choose this context, although my thoughts could take me somewhere else. Your alignment is your thoughts, your feelings, and then potentially your actions are all in alignment with the thing you want. So if your thoughts are scary and your feelings are aligning with the scary things, you're gonna manifest something. Thoughts, feelings, compounded result. So when you're not in the zone, you've got to be careful. It's like your context is this beautiful incubation, like a bubble that compounds all the energy that you create inside of that context. If you stay in that, you stay in the context. You stay in that zone. That energy, that frequency you build on the thoughts and feelings that stay in the zone. And everything you say and you do and you be and you are is in alignment with that context. The amount of energy that you're creating creates a magnetism people cannot look away from. Creates a magnetism that pulls from the quantum field, creates. It's like you're buzzing. You're just all the tentacles that are meant to go tickle the quantum field for all the things that are meant for. You are being immediately drawn into this vortex, into this bubble, into this context that you are holding so strong. But the thing is, people don't protect their context. They think they can just think positive. But you can understand the difference between thinking positive and holding a context. Your thoughts alone don't create that zing. They don't create the Zone. And I see a lot of people in different industries master the Zone. The Zone is the place of, like, I am enamored with your vision. Apple has managed to get in the Zone. They're in the zone. Marvel movies are in the Zone. They have got it, like, they have got it locked and loaded. They're in the Zone. There's. There's things. It's just working. Certain concept concerts, artists, Adele. Adele gets in the zone with her music. There's something about. It's like, you listen to her music, you feel like you're living something. It's like, I'm confused. Did I. Did I have children? Am I on the phone with a person I haven't spoken to forever? My children are calling me on the phone. I feel like this is all happening to me, like I'm living this experience. We get completely brought into those fields, completely into the energy. We get completely brought into the Zone with them. They're in the Zone. They are so sure and so certain of the context they're holding. There is nothing that can deter from the Zone. You will see people who do this in life. You'd be like, you are up to something. I can't look away from you. I want to know what you're about to. I want to know everything. People don't protect their context in life. There are so many different levels of context. There's, I want to have a baby, and there's, I want to raise an incredible human being. I want to be part of the next evolution of womankind of mankind versus I want to have a baby. What happens once the baby is no longer a baby? I want to have kids. What about when they're teenagers? This is what our problem is in the world is everyone wants a baby. What are we doing with teenagers? What are we doing with young adults? What's the context to raise good people? People give up after we're cute. There's another level to this. You want to raise good humans. You want to be a part of a revolution of humanhood on the planet, or you want to have a cute thing that Poops and loves you more than anything in the world, unconditionally, until they find out you're human. Then you want to do something else with your life. What's the context for parenthood? What's the context for entrepreneurship? What's the context for wealth? What's the context for love? What's the context? How big is itty bitty little context? Back and forth, up and down, success and failure, trial and error, over and over again, trying, failing, starting something else, losing myself, finding myself over and over and over again. But if the context holds my life, if the context holds my celebrations and my failures, if the context holds my evolution over my life, there's so much space for me to evolve a context that's month to month. How many businesses here have a month to month context in their business? I had a great month of January and then a terrible month of February, and then I got in my head and so then March, I didn't work at all, and I didn't sell anything in April. And now, well, I'm starting to figure, like, I should probably get myself back because I'm done sabotaging myself and I'm deciding now that I'm going to have a great month of June. I know, except we're almost at the end of June and I'm realizing that I didn't have a good month. And so I'm giving up on June because it doesn't feel good. But we're going to have a great July and I'm going to decide by the 5th of July if it's a good month, and if by the 5th of July it isn't a good month, and I'll have a great August, and if August isn't great, it's fine. It's all about the fall. But if I. If I haven't turned it around by October, well, then the year's over. So 2023 is my year. If your context is a week, a month, a quarter, a year, you have the tiniest, itty bitty little context. What happens when life throws you a curveball? What happens when you get a cold or a virus that takes you out for a few weeks? Your month is over, your quarter's over. I thought this was going to be the best year ever. Everything's over. Your context is you need to lose five pounds by the weekend so that you can fit in your dress. Except you've just had a cupcake, so might as well eat the other 11 in the box because that ship has sailed after one cupcake. Five pounds not going to happen before the end of the week. So is the is the context, evolution and growth of my health evolution, growth with my wealth or it's success and failure. I did it. I didn't. I suck. I quit. We're so fast at quitting. When we don't feel good, when we don't succeed right away. And that's smaller context. So when you create a bigger context, you're going to have to be really in the zone because what makes it difficult now is that your focus is bigger, which makes your alignment complex. So a simple alignment is like, do I believe that I can lose five pounds by Saturday so I can fit in my dress nicer? Do I believe that I can do this? Yes, I believe. Okay, perfect. So now I accidentally ate a cupcake because I forgot I was doing that. I was distracted. There was cupcake. I just ate it. One bite. Do I still believe I can do it? No, we're done. Do I believe I can do it? Yes. Oh, my gosh. It was a cupcake and I didn't eat it. I'm Superwoman. I still believe. I totally believe. Are you offering me a piece of chocolate? Don't you know I'm on the quest of losing five pounds before Saturday? No, I am not going to eat it. I believe in me. I can do this. This is fantastic. It's so easy to know whether you are in alignment or not with a tiny little, tiny little context. Yes or no. Success or failure. You did or you didn't. It is so simple. Simple complex is like, do I still believe that I am prioritizing my health if I had a cupcake at this party? Yes. Oh, that's weird. Because if I was trying to lose five pounds by Saturday, then I would have said no. So how is it that I'm able to still stay in alignment with my health with one slip up? If it's a big context and if it's a small context, I've screwed everything up already. So now it's like I'm in alignment to a bigger picture. I've got to be in alignment with my spirit, in alignment with my soul, in alignment with like the big picture. Nobody does this. Nobody does this. Everyone is trying to be in alignment with the small thing which has everything to do with what they do and do not do, succeed and do not succeed at right now, Today, right now, the bigger picture is like, can I have temporary failures and still believe? Can things be difficult? And I still hold the vision, the context. Can I slip up and still hold an Even bigger vision for myself only when the context is huge. And so I have an overarching context of evolution and growth over a lifetime. And I have an overarching context of Alpha femme and within Alpha femme. Alpha femme holds my success and my failures, and it holds every part of me. Success and failures in love, success and failures in social media, success and failures in business, success and failures in money, success and failures in leadership, success and failures in all things. And every conversation I'm able to bring to the table, I'm able to bring because of the success and failures. And it's like my career is made up with many different programs. Some that I've run once and some that I've run over and over again. Some launches that blew my socks off, and some launches that were small. But the overarching context is that I was gonna do big things. And so I continue to do big things over and over again. And even when there's not a good thing, that doesn't change the fact that I'm doing big things. It just means that sometimes little things slip through. Being able to hold your alignment to your context will make you the strongest person in the room. Even if people have a context, they have a context in their mind. They don't know what it means to be in the zone with their context, to be in alignment with that context. And I've seen a lot of artists do this kind of thing. And I don't know if you have watched the JLO documentary, her halftime documentary, but for those of you who watched it, you'll remember maybe this scene I'm going to describe. There's a scene where JLO is talking to her crew, her dance crew, and she's trying to explain to them the vibe when they're dancing. And she's like, for me, it's not. I'm not just focusing on, does the camera have me? I am feeling like, am I? Do I feel you? And she starts dancing, and this one person starts dancing with her, and they're both dancing at the same time, and you can feel. It's called halftime. You can feel during her explanation as this person is totally vibing with what she's saying. He starts dancing with her, and they're both dancing, and their bodies, there's an energy. He is so connected to her while she's dancing and she's talking. They're not just dancing in sync, they are in sync. And she says, I'm not just saying, are we dancing at the same time? Do we look good? Does the camera got me Although I can do all of that because I'm holding all of it. She doesn't maybe know what she's talking about. Energetics. But I'm like this. When you are holding a vibration in the zone for your context, you're going to feel who's vibing with you. You're going to feel when the person at the bank is vibing with your vision or not. You're going to feel when the waiter at the restaurant is vibing with your night or not. You're going to feel when you've just manifested the greatest Uber driver of all time. And this is going to be a fun ride. You can feel the zone. You feel it when you sit at the hairdressing salon and the woman who's doing your hair in this moment is like, she's got you. And you feel it. You have no fear. You're just lean back versus the one where you sit down and you're like, oh, no, she is not. She's not picking up on my vibe at all. The person who's there in your. In your energy, the waiter that shows up in the greatest vibe of all time while you're poolside and you've just ordered a thing and he's got your back and his vibe is like, I'm gonna have a good day. The person that you meet that's going to take care of you for when you're buying a car or something and they've got the. They are in the zone. You're in the vibe for a good service and they're in the good vibe to give it. And you're like, I am buying a car today. I can feel it. There's the zone. When you are turned on by a person and they feel that you're turned on and you both connect in that one second, it's like it's on like Donkey Kong. Like, there is nothing stopping this. I am in the zone. You are in the zone. I feel you feel me. You feel me feel you. We are feeling this. We are feeling this. You feel this. I feel this. You feel this. We are feeling this. Like this is happening. There is a feeling. There is a zone where you feel people are in with me or they are not. And in the sales sequence, you will feel if people are with you or not. When I did the first live for the Invisible Offer, the amount of energy I had in my body was so high. It would have been so easy for me to turn the camera on and just be like, the invisible offer is back. But that would have been I'm in the zone, and I do not care that anybody else is in the zone with me. That's like JLO setting up the super bowl and not caring if the entire crew dances in the zone, it would have been a very different show. When you're bringing a sales conversation to the table and you're just excited, but you don't know how to connect people to the what you're saying, if they're not in it with you, it doesn't matter what you say. You didn't give them an experience. They didn't feel it with you. And so your context for your sale, your context for your offer, whatever industry you're in, it matters as much that what you offer is good, that the people you're speaking to are feeling you when you offer it. If they are not right there with you in the zone, you have a far different selling experience. And I'm you. If you were to rewatch the first invisible offer live, when I'm like, okay, I don't know how to put this. I don't know how to say this. It's like I am trying to control my uncontrollable desire to tell you what this offer is when I know I haven't set the context up enough. It was very difficult for me because I'd already done an invisible offer. I already knew, and I knew so many of you already knew what it was. And I knew if I talked about it, a lot of people would jump in. It was so hard for me to not be like, anchor yourself and set a context. Nobody just want to tell them because I'm freaking out. I know. Breathe. Breathe. If they don't feel as excited as you feel, it will not land the way you want it to you. There's got to be a feeling of like, are you feeling this? Me, too. Okay, here's what I want to tell you. We don't take the time to make sure people are in the zone with us before we have a sales conversation. And everything is a sales conversation when your child is jumping up and down all over the place like a jelly bean having the time of their freaking life. And you deliver bedtime, and you're shocked and appalled that they're not in alignment with your context. You didn't set the context. You literally ambushed the vibe. There will be no going to bed right now. There will be a discussion about how my energy is way too high for bedtime. I don't want to go to bed. I don't want to go to bed. I don't want to go to bed. There's got to be some sort of, like, let me tackle you kindly and hug you and tell you how much I love you and feel your heart rate go down to a reasonable rate. Let me watch your pupils go back to their regular size as you breathe like a normal human before I tell you that we're going to bed. But while you're at the peak of your magic and you're vibing high and all you care about is you, wish I was jumping on the couch with you, and I deliver in all of my adult matter of factness that it's bedtime, that's not going to go well because we're not vibing right now. We're going to have a disagreement right now. When you have a partner that is having the time of their life doing something, and you're annoyed by it, they're laughing loud, they're playing too many video games, they're horsing around with their friends, and you're annoyed with it. And you meet them in this heightened context, and you're in the super low context, and you deliver whatever it is that you deliver in that context, it doesn't land. You weren't in the zone together. You didn't wait to have the person look at you eye to eye, feel heart to heart and say, I'm feeling something. And give them a chance to go, oh. You literally went with whatever it is that you had to say. And they went, where did that come from? How often you hear this in your life? Where did that come from? I mean, it was perfectly aligned for me to say, you were just not ready for it. I just threw you a ball. You wouldn't even have a mint to catch. Like, we were not even on the same planet there. But I needed to tell you what I needed to tell you. And I didn't care whether we were in the zone or not. When your partner decides it's on like Donkey Kong, when you literally haven't had a conversation in two days and you feel like you just might as well be invisible, and next thing you've got, like, mad French kiss action. You're like, whoa, I am not in the zone with you right now. Like, I am not in the zone. Your partner clearly has not been creating a context for the energy to build for you to be in the zone, for this to be on like Donkey Kong. This was like, you've had a hard day. I've been busy. I just decided I'm in alignment with my desire. And you're like, no, not in the zone. There's an energy of we're in this together. And that energy matters in manifestation, whether you are responsible for an action or a surrender. If your action is surrender. And you'll hear this so often in your life that you got to lean back and you're like, how? Don't you understand? I lean back, all the balls fall. You're basically telling me, juggle, just stop catching the balls like that is called balls falling on the floor, not called juggling. There will be no result anywhere if I lean back. Only when you're in the zone does it work to lean back. You've got to believe and feel that it is true, that it's right to take a beat, to not say the thing you want to say right now. To give your kid an extra five minutes between hyper zone and your heartbeat is regulated, your pupils are no longer dilated. I would like to tell you it's bedtime. Five minutes. But when we don't want to wait, freaking out, we've got to get in the zone. It's an energy, it's a feeling, it's a vibe. Now the thing you're going to realize is you're going to start asking questions like, okay, but how do I do that? How do I do that? And anytime you ask yourself how you're doing that, you're not in the context. Because within the context, you know how to do everything. Outside of the context looking in, you forget, you're stressed, trying to fix things. You're in your brain, you're not in your context. When you're in the big vibe in the big context and you're vibing with yourself and the people and you're like so aware of everything, there's this hyper awareness, this superhuman quality that comes to you and you're going to notice. A lot of times this comes through in your life. Like, let's say your kids misbehave and you're alone at home versus your kids misbehave when you're at a party with a bunch of people. Somehow you're a lot wiser when you're surrounded by people because you're aware of everything. You're aware of you, of your kid, of the other kids, of the other parents. There's like this hyper connection to the context, which is, we're in public right now. What's your context when you're at home? Do you have one? Because sometimes this is the difference between personal power and circumstantial power, is I have a context. As long as there's a circumstance that asks for one. If I'm alone with my kids at home, there's no context. It's just like, whatever come, whatever comes. Or I want to have the greatest relationship with my kids now. And when they're old, I want us all to be able to look back and say, this was a great ride. And so my context when I'm at home with my kids is that one day I will have adults that will want to hang out with me. And so I'm learning how to parent so that they become good adults that I want to hang out with and that they want to hang out with me. And that's my context when I'm at home, that's a much bigger context. What's your context with your partner when you're at home? Because when you're in front of people, it might be like, oh, honey, would you blah, blah, blah. When you're at home, maybe you're rude, abrasive, not nice. What's the context for your relationship when no one's watching? So you're going to notice that really you have a stronger context while you're selling than when you're delivering or when you're behind the scenes. You could have a really strong context on a live stream for the whole world to watch. The minute you close the thing, you're like, I suck. I was so good on that Facebook Live and nobody bought. It's like, yeah, but what was the. Who's the person behind that live stream? Really? You gotta, you've got to literally stretch the context and the alignment of your life where you really just don't let yourself align with something that you don't want. You. It's, it's magnetic, it's a pull. It's the easiest thing on earth to go to the most, the path of least resistance. And unfortunately, we've been taught to be a little mean to ourselves, a little rude to ourselves, a little self deprecating. And so that's a lot of the times that's the path of least resistance. You will say, I just suck and you won't even think about it. You'll say, I'm no good anyway, for sure. Nobody's gonna buy it. Like, why would they buy from me anyway? There's like a million great other people to buy from. Clearly nobody's gonna buy from me. I don't know what I was thinking. Like, I don't, I don't even know. And you won't even have time to notice that you're saying it. And it'll be out of your mouth. What's a stronger context for you? When no one's watching, What's a stronger context? Because the thing is, we are very resistant to disappointment. And it's our biggest thing that we try to fight against. And so we will set ourselves up to anticipate failure in advance, just to not feel disappointed. The resistance is to allow the belief that everything you want is coming. That's the biggest resistance. If I believe that everything I want is coming and it doesn't, I'll be disappointed. But if I put a little bit of resistance there, like, no, I don't believe it, blah, blah, blah, then I will be surprised. And that will be great. Except you live the majority of your life sad instead of happy. So in order for us to rearrange the path of least resistance, in order for us to say there's the context, and the context creates a desire, and your job is to live in alignment with that desire. You've now created a path. If you learn to walk on that path, there's very little that you cannot do. But the moment you change what you believe to be true and you change your alignment, you change the path. And we tend to choose a path where the least resistance is to believe in the negative things. That when the negative thing comes, we're not disappointed. That's the path of least resistance. For most people. You only believe what you're sure about. I can make money with a job as long as I have a sturdy education. That's my path of least resistance. But what do you want? I want to change the world. I want to do great things. I want to invent something. I want to be an artist. I want to do this. But it doesn't matter. Because the thing I actually only believe in, that I can't be disappointed in, is that if I have a solid education and I get myself a solid job, then I'll be able to make X amount per year as long as I am well behaved at that job. But that's not what I want. No, but it's what feels true. So our job is to grow the context and be in the zone with the alignment. This is my path. This is my path. This is my path. This is my path. Yeah, but nope. Yeah, but nope. Yeah, but nope. This is my path. Not yeah, but no. Oh, no, I'm going in the wrong direction. Why am I doing that? Let me talk about the fact that I'm going in the wrong direction and maybe even try to figure out why I'm going in the Wrong direction. You don't need any of that. It's just like, nope. But what if it feels true? You need to change your context. If you can't stick by it, is it too big? Is it too small? What do you need to say that you can believe in? There will always be doubt. There will always be something to steer you in. Maybe I won't be disappointed if I think this, but then you. You make the path unclear. What is the biggest context you can believe in? That's true. And then can you be so in the Zone that you notice when you're out of alignment? We don't notice when we're out of alignment. One little thought that doesn't put me out of alignment. It's normal to say it's probably not gonna work. Nope. It's just. I mean, I know I'm saying this to you, but I'm not saying this to my clients. It's the same thing. I know I'm saying this to you now, but I didn't. I wasn't like that on the live. That's not how I said it. I know that right now I'm, like, a little bit negative and stuff, but, like, that's not the way I was when I was selling it. Like, people don't know that this is what I really think. Sure do. In the greater scheme of things, you're not holding the context. Can you already see? Like, can you already see why this hasn't worked as much as you wished it would have by now, with so much simplicity and no guilt or shame what so freaking ever? Can you just see already? Like, well, that explains it. This is, like, energetic mastery. The things that are available to you in this lifetime, they make no sense. And it's not that it's hard, but it's not easy. It takes mastery, but there's so much reward that the compound effect is extraordinary once you start to tap into it. So it's not, like, hard because it's bad, but it's like, are you in the zone? Can you stay there? Can you bring yourself back to that? And if you slip, do you go painting this huge story about you can't stay in the zone and you're not good enough and you're never going to be good enough to stay in the Zone, or do you just stop it and get back in the Zone? The Zone is a choice, not a thought process. You can think the context into existence, but past that, it's not about your mind anymore. I know, but the thing is. Stop. There are a million reasons every day for me to believe I'm going to fail. There's a million reasons every day for me to be sad. There's a million reasons for me every day to be disappointed in people and humanity and the way people respond, react. Gosh, people drive me crazy so often. I'm like, are you serious? Have you missed the point? Have you not listened to a word I've said? It drives me bananas. Nope. What's the context that I'm holding for me, for you, for us? I believe in people, in their power. It's okay. It's okay. What is the bigger vision? There's a million reasons a day. I could go in the wrong direction because someone said something that I can't handle, because someone is not nice, because someone broke my heart, because someone misunderstood me, because someone's judging me on the Internet. Because I woke up grumpy, because I woke up bloated, because for some reason, life isn't going the way I want. Because my gray streak is out of control, because I poked myself in the eye with my mascara, because I was stressed, because I stubbed my toe, because my. My thing, my insurance won't ensure the new thing that we purchased because blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. The human experience will be a constant distraction. But if the context is strong, it cannot be destroyed with a train of thought. The context has to be so big, it can't be destroyed by a train of thought. If it's only a positive thought, it will be destroyed by its flip side. Within one second, you don't feel good. The context is gone, just like that. So these are the two most important parts, and they're. Before you've done a thing. Do you hold a context and can you tell whether you're in the zone or not with it? Context and alignment. This is 99% of the sequence. In this sequence, if I do not say a word, people reach out on Instagram or Facebook or email and ask me how they can buy something from me. And they say things like, I don't even know what you sell, but when I look at your page, I just. When I read your words, I just. I don't. Is there. What are you offering right now? I don't even know where to buy or what to buy, but I feel like I need to buy something from you. I've. I have never worked with you before. I found you two minutes ago. Do you have a mastermind? I have no. How have I never met you before? Do you do private coaching? I want to get on the waitlist. I'm going to pay in full for three months of private coaching and $100,000 just like that. I met you two minutes ago. You're the one. I can feel it in every fiber of my being. And I. And I've not sold a thing. Then when I do sell something, literally, I. When we felt. When I felt the energy when I was ready on that first live call, and it was like, okay, we're in the zone. I feel them. I could feel it in my face. I could feel it in my heart. I could feel you in my body, the excitement that you were feeling. Like, we were locked and loaded. And I said it. There were sales coming in every four seconds for the first two hours. It made no sense. It was just, like. It was, like, immediate. At a point. There was 1400 views and 1000 sales. Like, 500 likes, 1000 sales. We were in the zone. We were in the zone. I was in the zone. You were in the zone. And I felt it. I have pushed myself to sell when I wasn't in the zone before, and it doesn't work the same way. People ask me, like, how? How? Because I did the same thing you did. I have beautiful graphics. I launched them. I did all the things. But did you feel that they were ready to buy when you launched it? What do you mean? People don't have a context. They don't have a zone to know. Like, my people and I were locked and loaded. My people and I, we've got this. My people and I were here together. I feel the energy. And one of my favorite analogies for this is like a rock star on a stage that's singing their song. They've sung the song 100 times before. They can hear the audience. The audience is singing, and they can feel it. And there is a moment where they feel so connected to the audience that they're willing to go like this. And they know the room will be just as loud as if they were singing. That's being in the zone. You've got to know that your people know this song. Like, they know. They know every lyric in order to move that microphone towards the audience. Because what a feeling it would be to be like, roll a sailor. Roll a. Roll a sh. Like, oh, snail la rala rala. Joking. I knew you didn't know that bit. Just wanted to check you. Anyway, change songs. Change songs. This is bad. Take me off the stage. So you have to know, like, I know this song by heart. You know this song by heart. We are in the zone. And that's why the connection to your audience and the connection to your people and the connection to your clients and the connection to human beings in sales is so important. And the same thing in manifestation, the connection to your desired experience, how you treat people, how you show up in a room, how you connect with people, your network, your presence, your vibrational alignment, who you are when you're asking for what you want, who you connect with. Every single thing goes into that context. So I saw something here. I have a question. What do we do with fear of death? Like, okay, so I'm just gonna. Like, I'm gonna stop it right away. So you're allowed to be afraid of whatever you want. There is no. You're not allowed to feel. What you're not allowed to do is to tell yourself a story that you are either undeserving or incapable of the things that you want. If you know for a fact you have focused on the fear of anything instead of just the Zone in the context, if you can understand this difference, it's going to change your relationship with yourself. It's like, I suck. I've tried a million times and it doesn't work. Something's wrong with me. All those things are destroying you. When the fact is I have a huge context. But I lost my alignment in the Zone, and I got distracted by fears. I got distracted by fear of dying or, you know, fear of a breakup or whatever it is. I got distracted by fear. It is not true that I am not capable. It's not true that I'm not going to achieve what I want. It is not true that this is evidence to show me that I can't do this. That's where we mess it up. You're going to have a human experience. Life is going to hit you and push you out of alignment. Sometimes you're going to be on a roll. It's going to be the greatest time of your life. You're going to be walking on sunshine, and someone you love with all your heart is going to throw a wrench in your plans and you'll be like. And things might suck for a little while, but what you could do that would make it so worse is to start making it mean that you're not good enough, you're not capable. And you manifested this because you're a blah, blah, blah, instead of just saying, I still believe in my context. I know exactly what my alignment is to this, and I know I'm not in the Zone, and that's why I'm not creating the thing Right now, if you can give yourself that grace, you're going to change your relationship with yourself. Yourself is the one that's going to make all of this happen. So if your relationship with yourself sucks, this is going to be hard. If every time something hard happens in your life, you make it your fault and you're not good enough and you're not deserving and you can't do it. Instead of, I'm not in alignment with my context, and you're not really just honest with yourself, because you can just pick the context back up as soon as you've got. As soon as you're back in the zone. But not if you beat yourself up and tell yourself you're no good and you're useless and you're worthless. And your parents were right and your siblings were right and the teacher in high school was right and everybody was always right about you and you suck and you. Blah, blah, blah. That's where it's. We take something that started going this way and then we compound. So the big piece of the puzzle is this. We add weight to a very light experience. The manifestation experience is a very light experience. As a matter of fact, it's light frequency. Like, literally, the lighter, the faster the speed of light, the speed of sound. The lighter the frequency, the faster it happens. It's like. And then the slower the frequency, the heavier the frequency, the more physical. Like the table or like me. When you add heaviness to your experience, you slow down the process every time you add a. But every time you add a doubt, you slow down the process. You're allowed to remove those things at any time. You're allowed to get yourself right back in the zone at any time. But we tend to punish ourselves and not let ourselves back in the zone. We need to prove ourselves. We need to apologize and prove ourselves. We don't let ourselves back in the zone. We protect our sadness and our anger. Because. Or else it's as if we didn't mean it, that we were sad and we were angry and we hold on to bad things that feel bad for so long because we need to. Because or else people will take advantage of us, and we can't have that. So we stay in the difficult stuff, and we brew in the difficult stuff and we create heaviness. Heaviness will always create resistance. Heaviness will always slow you down unless you're going downhill. You add weight to something that's going downhill. It will go downhill fast. You create weight with your downward spiral story, and it will shoot like snakes. And ladders just all the way down. The only time heaviness brings you inertia is on the way down. Everything you do to climb, you add weight to that. It will be harder when you're in your self sabotage mode. You add weight to that, you're going downhill fast. This is why it's so much easier to break something than it is to build it. Just add weight. Add weight and it's harder to build. Add weight and it's easier to slide. And that's one of our things that we do. We add evidence so that we do not feel disappointed. There's no way I'm going to hit this goal. I'm already behind schedule. This time last year we had done this. This time last month we had done this. She used to be my competition, now she's blowing me out of the water. We used to be peers, now she makes more to me. I don't have enough. You're either making your trek up way hard or you're making the way down real easy. So if you hold context that is bigger than the current moment, bigger than the pain that you're going through, bigger than the slip up, bigger than the problem, bigger than you, bigger than a dwindling train of thought, bigger than just an opposite. Bigger, bigger, bigger, bigger. And your work of your life is to know what it feels like to be in the zone of that context. And you're so dedicated to being in the zone to that context that it's almost impossible for you to miss it. When you're out of alignment, you feel it. You're either in the zone or you're not. Within seconds, you can feel it. And you no longer need to protect yourself by adding weight. You instead just go, nope. Back to the context as often as possible. And if by accident it happens that you go off track and you add a bunch of stuff onto it that you can forgive yourself fast, you're going to do more in this lifetime than you will ever imagine. You cannot begin to imagine today who you will be even in five years from now or ten years from now. You can't even imagine it. It is outside the realm of anything predictable that you have ever imagined in your life. And every up and down on the way to your ascension there will serve you, will make you deeper, stronger, better wiser and better equipped to help the people you need to be helping on the way there. And in good time, when you've got all the stories under your belt, you'll know why they all happen and you'll be able to Help people self actualize too, if that's what you choose to do. So your work for this piece of the puzzle. And we have tomorrow off and so we're meeting again on Saturday. Your meeting for this part of the puzzle is to have a really solid meeting with yourself. Like, no more bs, no more like, I'm not good enough. And I always knew I wasn't good enough. And my parents said I wasn't as good as my siblings and I was destined to not be. You know deep down that's not true or you wouldn't be here. You know deep down you're meant for big things or you would not be here. There is a part of you that is so clear that there's a big context inside of you. Sit down with that part and have a freaking meeting. What are we doing here? What's the biggest thing I can hold that feels true? And what does it feel to be in the zone with that vibe with yourself? Feel yourself connected to something bigger. Get in line with the bigness of who you are and feel it so that you know what it feels like to be in alignment with your context. And if you know what it feels like to be in alignment with that context, then you're going to know what it feels like to be out of alignment with that context. And you're 100 steps ahead if you can do that. I want you to feel this in your body. Let yourself feel it and stretch it and hold it and play with this as often as you can. And whatever you're doing in your life, even though they're regular things, see if you can do them while still holding the context. How did you wake up in the morning first thing in the morning when you're holding a big, big, big context and you're in the zone? How do you pour a coffee in the morning when you are in the freaking zone? What outfit do you choose? How do you smile at strangers? How did you put gas in your car? Is your car cleaner when you're in the zone? Like, just try it on and see how different everything is when you are connected to something bigger than the problem. Enjoy this. Even if you're afraid, even if you don't know how to try it. Your mind will try to override your greatness because it's afraid of being disappointed. It's the only reason. It's trying to protect you from thinking you can do this and finding out you can't. That's not an option right now. If there wasn't a part of you that knew you could do this, you wouldn't be here. Let's listen to that part. Let that part create a context. And the thing is, your job is not to help other people get in the zone. Your job is to get in the zone. That's it. If you're in the zone, when people see you, they'll be like, I wish I was more like that. And that will be enough to set something in motion in their body. Whether they come and learn from you or whether they just have an awakening of their own. When we're surrounded by people who are big, it reminds us that we've been playing small. Every time, Every time you've seen a woman, a man, a person, act in a way that feels like I am playing way small right now. My plants are watering themselves right now. That is that sound in the background. We have a terrarium in our house and the plants self water when they feel like it. I guess they were thirsty. They're in the zone. So get yourself there for yourself. And know that when you do it for you and you shine that light, it's like something in your body turns on. It's like we're all walking around either turned on or not. But when you're on, you remind people, hey, I have that light too. You don't need to go turn it on for them. People and their power. These plants are drinking. So we're going to let this go for today. But trust that you will never help another person light up more than being lit up. That is the number one way. Lead by example. Enjoy these feelings. Whatever they are, feel into them. I love you. You are beautiful. You smell nice. You're powerful. You're extraordinary. No more bs. Go build a context that's world class. And I will see you on Saturday. It Sam, it.