The GodZone - Day 8

Melanie leads a spiritual talk on reaching the God Zone, a state of clarity where you co-create with divine source. She covers detachment from outcomes, universal laws of abundance, and balancing giving and receiving to overcome fear and resistance.
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Welcome to the God Zone. I'm so happy to see you again for another live module. I have a question for you. I want to dive into your discussion that you had with yourself in the God Zone yesterday. So what are some of the breakthroughs that happened for you, having had that moment to kind of deepen and go in with yourself and ask yourself, like, would I ever quit? Or really just feeling all by yourself alone in the God Zone? Were the comparisons different? How did you feel when you actually saw yourself as the only person in the God Zone was you and God in the God Zone? My little girl was asking me not to give up. She showed up in the mirror. Ooh, that's beautiful. There was no comparison. And there was the answer to not quit. It was very clear. Everything was obvious. I'm all in. I felt limitless. Seeing what I never knew I really wanted. But of course, no resistance. Do not quit. Inspired, brave, supported. I felt at home. There was no quitting ever. Felt stillness and no fear at all. Realized I'm not showing up how I want to. A lot of shoulds when things that came up and scared me. God took me by the hand. Oh, that gave me a chill. Definitely never quit. It's so peaceful in the God Zone. There's no question. Of course we're going for it. I can create from the space of the God Zone and not create from the past. Made me smile like, of course I won't give up. There was plenty in the God Zone. Time, money, support, love, ideas, faith. Oh, my gosh, Francis. I love that I want to stay there. I felt it's time for my vision to expand again. Oh, my goodness. I love that I felt more connected to faith than ever. It was so clear, fresh, beautiful. My dream became real. Realizing there was never a reason to quit. I still have to experience and listen to day six and most of day seven. So I didn't make it to the homework. No problem. I felt so suspended in air, like a genie. It felt right. At peace, just right. I realized how much I had lost myself through others. And I reclaimed myself. It's not an option to quit. I felt safe and expansive. I said, never, ever. It was in a beautiful forest. I realized that I've been operating in the God Zone for a long while. Falling out sometimes, but always getting myself back. I love it there. I felt some fear, then asked if it was in. If I was in faith, how would I love through this? And it was incredible. I love that it wouldn't be in my heart if I didn't have the capacity to bring it to life. God has my back. There's no other place. The desires of my heart are meant to come to fruition in this lifetime. I won't quit. I have in the past. And God doesn't believe in fear and I believe in him. So why would I fear everything? In the God Zone, it was so intimate, sitting on God's lap, discussing visions that of what's to come. The innocent me in the God Zone didn't know what quitting even was. Yes, she knew. It's a human concept. But to her, didn't that actually exist? There's only walking. Oh, where did this go? There's only walking the path of the stars. Nothing else. I love that I had so many huge insights, things I've already built and just stopped using. I've been beyond creative. So many downloads. This is amazing. I'll never quit and I will love more. I felt God in me. Possibility felt like certainty. So, Alpha Femme team, if we can print this and put it in the group, just take the scrap transcript and put it in the group so that you guys can read all of these. Because this is the. The magic of the God Zone when you're in it. The purity of the answers and the speed at which they come. It's God's own magic, God's own answers, God's own speed. It's as if it's a totally different experience. We get clouded sometimes in comparison. We get clouded in fear and lack and we just can't see clearly. But in the God Zone, where everything's at our fingertips, it's like the clarity of the question and the answer just comes so fast and so easily. So what I'm excited for today, we're going to dive into some more universal laws in the context of the God Zone and we're going to start looking at how do we now really go and source our life from the God Zone. Now there, this is such an interesting thing and there's so many different opinions about what I'm going to share with you today. Having taught this now for over a decade, it really does happen that some people just absolutely love it and then it also happens other people that they resist it. And for those of you who've done identity work to kind of bridge this and connect this, it's like for some people this is going to validate you and what you believe and for other people it feels like it invalidates either your pain or your struggles. And so why it's so important to listen to this in the God Zone is that there is no invalidating or validating God. Like there is no validating or invalidating. The universe, first of all, does not need that. Second of all, can't be validated or invalidated. It just is. Strongest frequency on earth is the frequency of truth. There's absolutely nothing you can do to validate or invalidate God. Like it's pointless to even consider that. But as a human, when we're trying to figure out whether we're allowed to feel sadness or we're allowed to have an off day, or we're allowed to be imperfect, or is it bad that sometimes I'm this or is it bad that sometimes I do that and am I wrong and is my life going to be hard because of that and is it my fault? When we're seeing life like that, we can listen to universal law in the God zone and somehow make it about our life. So I really want to make sure when you're listening to this that you stretch your mind beyond just your, your own thoughts and into the God zone and see this more as a universal concept, more than just does this validate or invalidate me? So I want to talk about one of the things we often hear about when we're talking about manifestation or, or any kind of co creation with divine source. We talk about being able to detach. Do you remember? Have you ever heard anybody ever tell you you've got to be able to be detached from the outcome? The first time I ever heard this, my whole body was invalidated by it because I was like, how do you not be attached to food? How do you not be attached to sleep? I'm going to sleep in the front seat of my car and I'm just going to be detached. Looks like I'm sleeping in my car tonight. Detachment, like, that's so crazy. Like how, how do you do that? That's so privileged. Obviously if you've got everything in the world, you can be detached. But what if you're struggling? How do you be detached? And so this was one of my greatest revelations in the God Zone. Because the thing is, when we are in a space where we don't have what we think we need, or when we don't have what we desire, we see lack very fast. Even when you have all kinds of other stuff, you could take all that other stuff completely for granted and only focus on the one thing you don't have. And the most beautiful example of that is the small child in the grocery store that really, really wants fruit roll ups you know when it's like, you have a roof over your head, a beautiful bedroom, your parents that love you, you, Christmas just passed. You got all the gifts on your list, but you want Fruit Roll Ups in your lunch. And you're gonna lose your ever loving in the middle of the grocery aisle because you don't get Fruit Roll Ups. Like, the lack is real and they can't give it up, but the Fruit Roll Ups with the Fruit Roll Ups with the Fruit Roll up with the Fruit Roll Ups with the Fruit Roll Ups. You already get the cash register, but the Fruit Roll Ups with the Fruit Roll Ups, you're halfway home, why did I get the Fruit Roll Ups? Like, oh, my God, what is happening? The attachment to the thing you don't have blinds you from the abundance of the things that you do have. And this is one of the most human experiences there is. So detachment doesn't work in the way where you try not to think about the thing that you want. In the same way trying to not visualize a pink elephant will only just make you see a pink elephant. You can't say, let me not think about time. You'll think about time. You can't say, let me not think about my heartbreak. You'll think about the heartbreak. You can't say, let me not think about money. So I understood abundance in a whole new way when I started really working on this. And the biggest breakthrough I got is the reason there's so much abundance on this planet is so that it's easy to have detachment. You could focus on anything, and the desires of our heart are equal and different. You care as much about having financial freedom as you do about having a purpose and a reason for living as you do about feeling love as you do, about feeling surrounded by friendships, as you do about. You have, like, a range of things that are of equal importance in your life, that you have an abundance of desires. You have an abundance of things you can look at and love and fall in love with. But when we are feeling lack of something, we forget all those other things. We only focus on the things that we don't have, and we wait for them to come to fruition. And because a lot of people learn these teachings conceptually, but they don't actually do anything with them. We've got a lot of people conceptualizing detachment, thinking they're detached, when in fact, they've never been more attached in their life. It's like if I. I need a pair of socks, but my only socks I have need to go in the wash So I take my pair of socks and I put them in the washing machine. And then I proceed to sit in front of the washing machine and watch the spinning cycle and wait for the socks to be washed. And I say I'm completely detached from how long this takes. Not detached. I'm glued to the washing machine. I have made peace that it's going to take 30 minutes. I'm just waiting. This is how most people experience detachment. I am detached. I've made peace with the fact that I might wait. I'm just waiting. That's not detachment. Detachment doesn't look like I'm navigating my feelings around it, but I'm still waiting for it, as a matter of fact. Attachment to something that isn't there yet is one of the biggest wasters of time in our life. When you spend time thinking about something that isn't there yet, you are giving your time away entirely. While I'm waiting for paint to dry only I'm waiting for socks to wash. While I'm waiting for a payment to come in. While I'm waiting for a from a response. The three little dots that keep showing up on my phone of the person who's taking forever to answer me and I'm nervous about what's going to come through While I'm on hold with the bank. While I'm on hold. While I'm waiting. While I'm waiting my life is passing. And the reason, if we really were to tap deep into the subconscious truth of why we wait, it's because we fear. Because when you put cookies in the oven, you don't just watch the cookies like this, but when you put something that you very much know should not be on broil in the oven, but you're in a hurry and you want to heat it up fast. And you know this stuff goes from cold to burnt in three seconds. You were watching that thing I list because you know you're going to see it when it's done. You got to take it out fast. There's fear when you know things take a certain time to cook. You go do something else. You put the cookies in the oven, you put the bread in the oven. You go and you go around your house and you do other things. When it's on broil and there's no exact time frame, and you gotta watch it. You watch that thing like a hawk. In our lives, we sometimes operate as though everything's on broil. The heat is at its maximum, and if we miss it by a second, it's gonna go Wrong. And we don't, we don't say that, though. We, we. We masquerade it in a different way. Broil. You know, the setting where all the heat comes from the top and it just browns the top. Like if I wanted to put a pastry in the oven and I just wanted a crisp, golden brown top, well, that'll go black this fast. If I keep it in literally 20 seconds too long. Top of oven, when the heat's just coming from the top and it's supposed to gently brown the top, melt the cheese, well, that goes wrong real fast because the heat's so high, because the intensity is so high. And so a lot of times you're thinking your life is like that, that if you take your eye off the ball for a second, it's going to fail. And when we feel that, there's a lot less faith. If I think to myself, I don't. I'm not speaking to my. If I don't speak to my friend, if I don't call my friend, she'll stop being my friend. If I don't hear from my partner, there's probably something wrong. If I haven't heard back from the bank, it's probably bad news. If I don't. If I haven't received a payment link or the. The payment from the person who said that they would pay, then they probably won't. If I don't get the thing now, it's probably not happening. So if you have ever had that experience in any kind of way, if it's not happening now, it's probably not happening. If I'm not hearing from it, there's probably something wrong. If you know that in your nervous system, in your body, that that tends to happen. If I'm not understanding this right now, I'm missing out on the whole program. If I don't get a client from this launch that I just did right now, I probably messed up the launch. If nobody responds right now to my offer, probably nobody else, nobody is going to. If it's not there, it probably won't, right? So this whole thing of if it's not, it probably won't. It's all attachment. And with attachment, there's very little faith. Because I'm saying if I don't have evidence at warp speed, my faith is gone. So what I love to do and what has really changed my life is to focus on the abundance of all the other things in my life while something else is in the God zone. So when I put my faith in the God zone, when I Say for example, there's a client that's spinning around my world. This client is really considering a really big move with me. And if I had no faith, then I could really just follow up and check in and ask and, and, and tell them all the reasons why I think they should do this and tell them everything I see and try to make myself more valuable and try to make it. But if I have faith, then I have full love, full knowing of my power, full knowing of what I could bring to the table, full knowing of that, whether it's to this person or another person. And this is another part of detachment. I don't have space for a hundred people. So if I have this belief, like this perfect client, I have maybe room for one or two more. So let me just open that up in my heart and my spirit. And when the right time comes for that person, they're going to reach out to me. If I'm not attached to it being that person, it could be somebody else. So let me just detach myself from who, but let me really get clear on what I want it to feel like, who I am, be so clear about my gifts, what I can give. A lot of the times when we are in lack we think about what we might not receive. I never think of what I will not receive. I think of what I would give if it were to happen. Get so clear, here's what I would give if it would happen. I get so clear on the value that would be for the person and then I focus on something else. I don't say to myself, so now I'm detached from it. I'll just check in every day to see if there's something. Not detachment. I won't say to myself, okay, well, that client maybe won't come in, but how else could I go and make that amount somewhere else in my business? That's also not detachment. I would give faith to that situation and then go out on a date with Kevin because that is faith that God's taking care of everything else. I'm clear on the value. I'm clear on the worth. I'm clear on the perfect match. In my opinion, I put it in the hands of God and I trust either this person or someone else. And then I go about my life. And I want to give you a really real example of how this happened for me. There was something that was happening in my life that was a non stop stress for me. And because it felt like the timeline was really long and it could go on for years, my mind told me it was going to go on for years and I probably wasn't going to get resolution. So the first thing I thought about in the morning when I woke up was do we have any news? Do we have any advancement? Because this is, this is going to be a part of my life forever. So do we have advancement? Do we have advancement? Even if I tried to detach, the first thing in my mind in the morning was this. And usually there was something. So I expected it because eventually I asked so often and I expected it so often. There was always a message in the inbox and every morning more frustrating than the next. And I spent time thinking about what I could, I wish I could say, which I would never say, but what I wish I could say. And then waiting for the next message to come. And waiting for the next message to come. Waiting for the next message to come. One day I made peace with what was happening. I don't know how it happened, but it did. And I said to myself whether, because we were at the, we were at the deadline, the deadline was coming. And I said to myself, either we're going to receive it or I will create it. Because I have faith in me. I have faith in me and my co creation with God in my business. So I said either this will be fixed externally or I will fix it. And because I had so much faith in me, the day that I said that I generated whatever I needed, I made, had a million dollar day. And so in that moment it was like, well, there's peace. And then the next day, all of a sudden was Kevin's birthday. I was not thinking about it because I had already made peace with it, that I would fix it. Because money came through for me. I had peace. I rented the most beautiful hotel room, I filled it with balloons. All we talked about was the future and life and love and magic. I was entirely in the God zone with Kevin. His birthday, Christmas that was coming, all the things we were shopping for diamonds in the moment. I was wearing the most beautiful tennis bracelet on my wrist and we were talking about beauty. And all of a sudden a notification came. Boing. And just like magic, the thing I had been resisting that I thought was never going to come, that I'd been battling for, for years, Bing fell into the account in that moment and it hit me. I only really detached once. I knew for a fact that it was done. And it was done because I did it. So I learned a very big lesson in detachment in that moment. Because it wasn't just about faith at this point. It was I had more faith in what I could create with Alpha femme than what God could create on his own. And when I stopped attaching because I had came through in exponential wealth, I often talk about if money went where it was needed, there would be no poverty on the planet. Money goes where there's faith, because where there's faith, there's power. So what we really are looking to do here is to find ways to be completely in love with our life in so many different areas and to let ourselves fully surrender to different life experiences while something else is cooking in the God zone. What does abundance really mean? It means that there are so many things you could be focusing on that it would be absolutely ludicrous to focus on the only one thing that's still cooking. It means there's so many things you can be looking at in abundance, in gratitude, in love, that it's completely wild that we would spend any second whatsoever thinking about the one thing we're meant to be having faith in and just put it, put it in the God zone. So there is such a thing as being too attached to an outcome, I believe, and, and creating a situation where we're so attached that it needs to not happen just so we can see we can survive not having it. I remember being so attached to not going bankrupt, so attached to the fear of bankruptcy, that I got the breakthrough after I did go bankrupt. I needed to go bankrupt to let go of my attachment to never going bankrupt. I would have lived my entire life attached to not going bankrupt. There's things in your life you've got to live just so you can figure out what it's like to no longer fear it. So in no situation is it ever in our favor to be attached to the outcome. So in universal law, this would be the law of non resistance. You know how they say when you what you resist persists? So the law of non resistance is the law of detachment and it's the law of abundance. It means you focus on all the things that are already working so much that you're distracted by the one thing that's still cooking in the Godzone. You're not distracting yourself like bypassing. You're distracting yourself like, why focus on the cookies in the oven when I know they're baking? Why watch the socks wash in the washing machine when I know they're going through a cycle? Why waste my time waiting for something I have faith is happening, just looking, watching somewhere? I have little faith if I'm spending all my time watching it. There's a part of Me that fears it's going to go wrong. So why this is so powerful is because we were talking about thief of time. Fear is a thief of time. Worry is a thief of time. Attachment is a thief of time. Because attachment is worry and fear. What if it doesn't happen? What if it doesn't work? What if it goes wrong? What if I miss something? What if, what if, what if, what if, what if, what if it's inverted faith? Not what if it works, but what if it doesn't? So can you imagine what would happen in your life if all the time you spent thinking about what's not there yet you were actually creating during those times? So anytime you were waiting for a text message, or waiting for the bank to call back, or waiting for a client to sign up, or waiting for a friend to get back to you, or waiting for if during all those little pockets of time you were actually actively thinking about things that you love, actively giving thanks to something you have, actively imagining and planting seeds in the God zone for something else to have faith in. Can you see that you would probably be creating so much more in your life than if you spend time thinking about something that's on God's own time and just waiting for it to come to fruition? So people ask all the time, like, how do you have so much time? How do you get it all done? The amount of time I spend thinking about things I've given to God has shrunk dramatically. I used to overthink everything, even tiny things. Like how often have you written a message to someone and then deleted it? It's like all that time you spent writing it and you deleted the thing. And then have you ever spent all this time writing a message to someone, then deleted it and then still ended up telling them anyway? How much time does that take? Overthinking. Yeah, but what if I say it wrong? What if it doesn't land? What if they don't like it? What if they think I'm too pushy? What if they think this? What if I say it wrong? What if it doesn't work? What if it doesn't work out? What if, well, that could have been handled 10 times within the time that you've worried. What if it doesn't work? And then in the same breath, why don't I have enough time to do the things I want? I don't know. Let's think about it. So what we really want to get to is the point where we are taking action. We are praying in thank you. We're we're really in the creation of our lives. And when there's any kind of fear whatsoever, the fear is being given faith. Instead, you're revert, you're reversing it. You're saying, okay, wait, I'm afraid of this right now. What would it look like if I were in faith? And you turn it around and you don't spend time fearing, because fearing's outside the God zone. So you're just saying, how do I put this in the God zone? How do I put this in the God zone? That happens so fast. Plus, all you need to do is put yourself in the God zone and you'll have the answer within three seconds flat. Because the craziest thing about the visualization I helped you create yesterday is that the answers came so fast, you didn't need to think it was like, there. So put yourself in the God zone and then ask yourself, how do I bring this in the God zone? The answer will take three seconds flat. But while you're out of the God zone asking yourself, how? Well, nobody knows how to do that. You only know how to bring things in the God zone from inside the God zone. So you get yourself there and then you ask the question. So the first piece of this is the non attachment. And saying, like, I am. I am attached because I'm attached of love. Like I love, I care, I can desire. But when it's attachment out of fear of loss, attachment out of fear of failure, then I'm resisting fear, I'm resisting pain, I'm resisting failure. So it's such a sneaky thing. But the energetics of it are off. When I desire, there's no resistance. When I fear loss, there's resistance to pain. So you want to be able to feel it in your body. When there's resistance and I feel like sometimes it's easier for me to understand resistance than fear because we don't like to say we're afraid. And fear sometimes feels like you should be able to understand what you're fearing in your mind. But resistance feels like. Have you ever experienced resistance in your body that you could not conceptualize in your mind? Like, I don't know what is going on, but I just feel like, no, I just feel like. I just feel like. I just feel like, nope, I want to leave, I want to go, I want to. So that's a lot of body wisdom, resistance. So you can ask yourself, if I'm in resistance, if I were to put this in the God zone and act in full faith, what would I be doing? Because faith and resistance are also opposite. And it's not about saying, oh, I resist this. How do I be in faith of this? It's saying, I'm in resistance. What does faith look like right now? Because the goal is not to manipulate ourselves by saying, well, I'm afraid, so let me be in faith of it, and then I'll do it. It's not like that. I'm in resistance of this. What would faith look like in my life right now? And you'll immediately find the path of least resistance, which will open you up to ask the right questions in the God Zone. So, first part of this homework for today is to notice in your body and in your mind when you're feeling fear or resistance, and either ask yourself, when you're in fear, if I were in faith, what would I be doing instead? Or if you feel your body in resistance, ask, if I were to tap into. If I were to tap into faith, what would I be focusing on right now? Not necessarily as an opposite to what you're resisting, just in general. So I could say I'm. I'm resisting this conversation. If I were in faith right now, I'd listen with detachment and see if something lands for me that I can get, make sense of. Or I might say, I'm in resistance right now, and if I were to act in full faith, I would close it, come back to it later, and trust that everything I need will be there when I reopen this. Because I'm in a state of resistance right now. You ask yourself, ask yourself in the God Zone, go into the space, into your fullness, where you're not comparing yourself to everybody else who seems to get it, to everybody else who seems to love it, to the comments section that's saying, I've got the greatest breakthrough. This is everything I ever needed. While you're going, you want to bring yourself into the God Zone, where it's only you and God. And you say, if I were in faith right now, what would I do? I feel the resistance in my body. If I were in full faith right now, what would I do? And you'll get the answer. I would sit in stillness. I would detach from the outcome, detach from the need to understand it, detach from the need to belong with everyone else that's getting it. And I would learn on my own speed, read. Or I would give myself a break. I would have a nap, a rest, and I would come back to it with a different mind because I'm not listening right now. And you'd follow Your own intuition without making yourself wrong. And for some of us, intuition is the mind for, you know, depending on your human design, whether it's sacral response, whether it's an emotional response, like you just follow your guidance. So the ne. So this would be the law of the non resistance or the law of attachment. Now the next one I want to talk to you about, and I think that this is such an important piece of the puzzle is the law of giving and receiving. So one of the most common ways I had ever heard of giving and receiving in my life was give and take. It was very rare I'd ever heard anyone say giving and receiving, even in the songs. It's a game of give and take. It's a game of give and take. And I realized that a lot of people took from me in my life and I didn't really like that. So I preferred to give so people didn't take. When I really started to study the laws and they. I heard it for the first time. Giving and receiving. I had a full body release because that is so different. I resisted taking so much. I only made myself available for giving. So in universal law there's equilibrium and harmony, not necessarily balance as we would think of it of two equal things. But sometimes balance is weird, you know, like in order to balance this, I wouldn't hold it in the middle. I have to take into consideration this is heavier and I have to hold it somewhere not quite in the middle for it to balance. Like it's not quite. There's way less on this side than the other side. Balance doesn't always look like what you'd think it does. That perfect weight scale with even on each side, that's not really what balance looks like. So when you're thinking about harmony and you're thinking about what does it take for it to come together in this beautiful harmonization? Giving and receiving. How do you give to a non receiver? How does that work? And what's the experience of that? You try to give, they say no, no, no, no, no. Okay, well that just ended. And how do you receive from a. Well, that doesn't really happen either. So in order for there to be harmony on the planet, we need to be in equal power of giving and receiving. We need to give and receive in the God zone. Do you feel you are a better giver or do you feel you are a better receiver if you had to choose one? Okay, got a. We've got a. Got a harmony. So if you're a better receiver, chances are you're afraid that you'll give the wrong thing, that you'll give too much, or that you won't give enough, or that you'll give so much that you'll end up with not enough yourself. And if you're a better giver, chances are you're afraid you're not going to respond properly. You're going to be awkward when someone gives to you. You're going to look like someone who just takes advantage of people. People are going to give to you when they don't want to, and you're going to look weak and you're going to look like a taker. So either way, there's a misconception of the frequency. But in the God zone, there has to be harmony in the same way where you cannot give God a prayer in the God Zone, you cannot give the universe a prayer and not be a receiver. What's the point? Or you can't expect to receive a prayer received from the God zone, but never give the request. That also does not work. So one of the things I've mostly realized, especially in spaces like this, is that until our giving and receiving is in harmony, we have a very hard time believing we matter. So when you think about showing up live on social media and giving a live stream or giving a post, and the feeling inside is resistance, it's probably because you imagine it won't be received. And when you imagine people taking the free stuff you're giving and you feel resistance, it's because there's a feeling that people are going to take more than you want to give. So in order for us to feel like we matter in any space, there has to be harmony in giving and receiving. In your romantic relationship, if it feels like you're always the one giving and you're not receiving in return, there's a, there's. There's an issue with the harmony in the relationship. If it feels like you don't want to give, you're open to receiving, but you don't want to give anymore. Something happened and you're just feeling like, no, there's probably a disharmony in the relationship. If in your life you're open to receiving financially, but you don't want to give anymore, you don't want to spend anymore. You're now in a, in a moment of like, hoard the money and please send me loads of money, there's probably a discord and there's an issue with the harmony in your finances. If in your business you are trying to give, trying to give, trying to give. Live streams Free coaching, free help, free support, free samples, but no one's buying. There's probably an issue in the harmony. So when I really started to focus on this, the balance between giving and receiving, I opened the floodgates in a way that I cannot explain. There is such a harmony for me in my life and in. In Alpha femme with giving and receiving. A lot of people say, I give so much. I give so much. I give so much. But maybe that's in comparison to how much they receive. They think if I were to receive this much and give as much as Melanie's giving, I would not be in harmony. But when you look at how much I'm receiving, well, how much I'm giving makes sense in alignment with what I'm giving and receiving. Some people would think the other way. They would say, you're not giving enough, you're receiving so much, you should give more. But most of the people who tell me that are in complete disharmony with their finances. So you've got to find your harmony in the God zone. And it. It is so simple to find because you. You feel harmony where you feel no resistance. There is a moment where your body says, stop over giving. You're over giving, and you still go and you still do it out of fear of not being liked, of not being loved, of not being respected, of things not working out. There's times where people want to give to you, and you're saying no when you're resisting it, even though you've been praying for it. So we really want to create a harmony for your giving and receiving in the God zone. And this can start with just how you show up in a space like this. So I gave everyone here an opportunity to give this program to someone else. Everyone who purchased it could give this to someone else. I'm curious. Did you have people you tried to give it to not receive it? A lot of the times when you try to give something to someone.
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They didn't ask for it, they don't know how to receive it. That's not what I need. That's not what I've asked for. It's either too good to be true. I don't think I need that. I don't think I would use that. I don't think I would want that. How often in your life has God tried, the universe, tried to give you something, and you've said no for whatever reason? And then on the flip side, have you given it to some people who have been like, oh, my gosh, I am so grateful this is the greatest gift of my life. I wanted this, or I don't know what this is, but I love it and I'm so happy that I'm here. Those people just received so much. Now, are there some of you that just didn't even offer it because you didn't know who to give it to and you were afraid you'd be rejected? What if I give it and someone's like, I don't want it? What if I give it and people think I'm weird? What if I give it and I don't know who to give it to? What if I give it to the wrong person? What if. So giving is not as simple as you'd think. And neither is receiving. There are. There are a few things we're willing to give and receive in this world, and there's a lot of things outside of that that we're not willing to give or receive. But we want an abundant, limitless life, and we put limits on so many things in the giving and receiving in the God zone. One of the biggest ways that we limit in the God zone is we give for human reasons, not for God's own reasons. So who here gave knowing they were giving the greatest gift of all times? Who here felt they were afraid someone would think there was an ulterior motive to your giving? This happens. So when you do things in the God zone, there's a clear path. When you do things outside of the God zone, there's dissonance. There's a feeling, what if, what if, what if. What if it doesn't land? What if it doesn't matter? What if it doesn't? What if it. So let's talk about your presence in this group. I was talking about this with the women in my AFE next yesterday, and I was talking about how we get to decide how we show up in a group, Whether we just receive from the group or whether we give as much as we receive. And one of the people I was sharing this with said to me, but I'm afraid that if I give, you'll think I'm trying to take. Have you ever had that fear if I give it a look like I'm trying to take? So let's say, for example, you were to show up in this group and be like, I want to teach one of my most favorite things, or I want to give someone. I want to give the whole group a piece of advice, or I want to give it the fear that it might look like you're trying to take something. If you go into the depths of your soul can you see where on the days where you fear someone will think you're trying to take, it's because somewhere deep down you are, there's a hope that what you give will be returned from the exact same place you gave it to. And I believe this is also something that we're taught as young kids. When we're taught given, you'll receive, we're taught to imagine that where we give, we're supposed to receive from directly. So this means if I give to you directly, you should give back to me directly. And I'm waiting for when I help a friend in need. Well, I would expect that when I'm in need later down the line, you'll be there for me because I gave to you tit for tat. If I'm there for my family, well, then when I'm in need, that my family should be there for me. And because we're taught to do it like this, we have this connection in our mind that anywhere where we give, we're probably going to receive from. And that sometimes stops us because it feels like we're giving with ulterior motive even when we're not. But deep inside there's a belief probably if I give, I'll receive from that space. And then what if it looks like I only did it to receive from that space? We get all tangled. So one of my favorite breakthroughs in giving and receiving is that I can give here and receive from here where I least expect it. But in order to give here and receive from here, something needs to happen. I have to stop thinking I have to deserve receiving from the people who give to me. I have to believe I deserve receiving in the God zone which holds all things. So have you ever felt like I believe I deserve receiving from you because I've gave you a bunch of. But if you try to give to me, I feel uncomfortable because I've not given you quite enough for you to give to me. Why do you want to help me? Why do you want to give to me? Why are you being so nice to me? I haven't given you enough yet. But you that I've bent over backwards for, for years, I'm still waiting for you to reciprocate to the level that I want. Here I feel uncomfortable receiving. I haven't given enough yet here. I haven't received enough. When is the. When is the reciprocity going to land? So when I started opening up my frequency and I realized I could give here and receive here and in the God Zone. All of that was connected. I started receiving from all kinds of different places and I started noticing the abundance around me because I could give a birthday celebration to Kevin with all the love in my heart and completely detached from anything other than him. And God could supply everything I ever thought I needed and more in the one moment. But if I would have said to myself, let me focus on something else so that God can come through, you think that would have worked? Probably not. And then I probably would have said, well, I tried. I tried to not think about it and it still didn't work. It's so different to try to not think about it versus to be completely in love with something else, distracted in the most beautiful way by it. The abundance that takes your breath away, that you're detached from the thing that causes you lack. That's detachment. Giving your energy, your love, your creation, your God zone energy here and receiving the God's own magic here. Giving your creation, giving your abundance, giving your love, giving your presence of mind, giving of yourself here and God giving back here. That's the ultimate faith. And I have seen this explained in such funny ways because it happens in funny ways, but people don't always know how to describe what's happening to them. Have you ever seen a post online of someone being like, how I made $20,000 from the bathtub, I took a day off and I made $50,000. And you're just like, it's not exactly what happened. And that's exactly what happened. What happened is a person completely surrendered to the love of their life, the peace they were feeling, the abundance they were experiencing, the gratitude in their spirit and everything they had in the washing machine finished washing. Boop. And it landed. The cycle had been going way before they got in the bath. It's just bing. The cycle ended while they were in the God zone in the bathtub. I could make a post that said while shopping for diamonds, I made a million dollars. I made $2 million within two separate days. And a million of it came through while I was shopping for diamonds. And people be like, I need to go buy diamonds. But what the real truth is is when I'm completely in love with my life and I'm detached, I'm detached because I'm attached to the God zone I'm in. I'm in presence with something else. There's space for God to come through because I'm. I only really detach when I have faith. And God only really comes through when I have faith. The universe can't work its magic While you've locked the gate. And that's what we do when we don't have faith. Okay, I'm gonna go do something else. Let me just lock the door here to make sure that nothing bad happens while I go do something else. And God can't come in. The universe is like up universal ups. Is that your door? But the gate is locked. You've got to be able to leave the gate open because you're in full faith that God, mother nature, the universe is in charge while you're distracted by the beauty of your life. But if you leave in distraction, if you're distracted by another problem while you leave the gate open for this problem, you tend to attract more problems. So your distraction has to be God's own distraction. How enamored with your life can you be? Anytime you feel like life is going by too fast, Anytime you feel like you're not achieving things at the speed you want, it's because you're spending more time thinking about lack than abundance. Because there are so many things you could be doing that would fill your day. It's just all the things you do in lack you don't remember, they disappear from your memory. If you think about every beautiful memory you have, if I could print in your mind every single beautiful memory you had and string them on a string, there would be a length of life that you feel is an accurate representation of how long you've been on earth. Because that's the amount of memories you have. When you have less and less memories, it makes no sense that that's supposed to equate. Like if when you're a kid and you're living your life to the fullest, between the ages of like, let's say 0 and 14, you have 14 years worth of memories of playing, of friends, of games, of successes, of good memories and hard memories. But you're, you're present with your life, for example, and then all of a sudden you start getting distracted and thinking about laundry and you start thinking about dishes and food and you start thinking about your neighbor and that one friend and your ex boyfriend and the thing that didn't work and this and that. And all of a sudden the amount of memories you have for the amount of years you've lived is skewed and it starts to feel like this year was not an accurate representation of the time. How is time going by so fast? Time in the God zone is remembered. How time outside of the God zone is lost. And the fact is we feel time based on how we remember it. This is why presence is so important. Every memory you have becomes an accurate representation of time. If you can say, oh yes, I remember last week on Tuesday, that's the day that we did this, and that's the day that happened. Instead of I don't remember last Tuesday at all. I don't remember Tuesday, I don't remember Wednesday or Friday or Saturday or Sunday. But I remember Monday and I remember Wednesday. So I have two days worth of memories to represent an entire week. Of course, that week went by this way. But when you're present in your life, when you are alive in the God Zone, your life is so much fuller. I have lived more life in the last decade than in 25 years before. And my memories are so abundant and they're so full. But I spend my time, most of my time, in the God Zone. Here's how it works. I am either living in gratitude, in love, in in presence, or I am thinking about what I'm creating, about what's coming next, about what's yet to come. And I'm planning in the God Zone. So even my memories of thinking and planning are God's own memories. Because I think of planning my 111 list, like what we do in Resolution Revolution. I think of doing that in front of the fire, remember the exact place I'm sitting. I remember exactly how I am and how beautiful the setting is. I remember how I did that. That's a memory for me. But when I think about my to do list for the day that I've got to rewrite three times because by the time I start it, there's no more time and I've got to reprioritize that list. I don't remember writing that. That disappears from my memories. So I want to give you a different kind of homework to add. On top of everything else, I want you to see if you can find the things in your life that are causing you to be really distracted right now. The things that make you think, what is wrong with dot dot? Why aren't people doing. Why isn't this all those things? And you're going to reframe them to if I were in the God Zone, if I were in faith, what action would I be taking? And then you're going to do something with your time that you can remember. So what this means, let's say, for example, I say to myself, I would love to have a hundred new people in AFE this year. This is what I desire. So if I'm in fate, if I'm in fear, then what Happens. Well, I don't really talk about it. I don't really post about it. I don't really celebrate what the incredible things are happening in the AFE because I don't want to bug people. Okay, but if I'm in full faith, what do I do? I talk about it. I celebrate the people in that space. I think about it in an incredible way. I talk about it, I think about it. Okay, so I'm going to do all of those things in faith. But then what if it doesn't work? Well, I'm not going to be around for that. Because I'll be playing chess with Kevin by the fire. Because I'll be taking a walk, looking at how beautiful my life is. Because I'll be on the phone to my sister and FaceTiming Frankie. Because I'll be doing something in the God Zone that sets my soul alive. I'll be grateful for my life while God finds the people who are meant to be in the place. I called from the God Zone and I want you to notice where your lack of faith is, where you want to do that, but there's a block. Well, yeah, I. I could. If I do that, though, what if? And just keep asking yourself, if I were in faith, what would I do about that? If I were in full faith, what would I do about that? This work is so powerful because what it does is you're constantly taking action without overthinking it. And in the time that it takes to cook in the God Zone, you're building memories and you're building a life you're obsessed with. You're building your self concept and your identity as a person who takes action on the things that you believe in and who trusts in God, Mother Nature, the universe. And this becomes the only thing that you are. You live in faith, you give in faith, you receive in faith, you give thanks, you're in gratitude. You say thank you. You create. You desire, you create. You take action. You go do something else. In the God Zone, there really is no time to sit and wonder what will happen if you fail. There really is no time to sit and think about the people who've done you wrong. There really is no time to sit and think about where reciprocity hasn't landed or where this hasn't worked. There's no time for that. Because the minute you feel resistance in your body, you ask yourself, what would I be doing if I would be doing it in faith right now? And the only people who don't want you to do this are people who you'll make them feel bad when they realize how great your life is when you start doing this. People like to gossip. They like to talk about bad things. They like to talk about the fact that they feel bad. And if you're not available for that because you're creating in the God Zone, it'll feel like they are. They've lost something. But the fact is, if you can lead by example and you can watch your life change, they'll watch your life change. And it won't be long before they're asking questions instead of telling you how you should be doing it. Every single person that I love and care about has altered at least a little since I've become who I've become. And if I let myself fear that people won't like me if I'm not a little more this and a little more that, I let the human take over and I always feel a little groggy. And for a little while after that, be the leader in the God Zone. Watch how people are maybe annoyed at first, but then eventually completely puzzled that you were able to keep doing this. Your quality of life will skyrocket. And how it will feel to be around you will be so different. Because you'll have faith in people like you have faith in God. You'll have faith in God like you have faith in people. You'll. You'll not be the person who's always waiting for other people to fail. I've often been asked, how is it that you are able to believe so much in people? Because I believe in God. And God is people. And why do so many people choose me? Because I believe in people. You choose the people who believe in you. So believe in people. Watch what starts to happen. Stop worrying about people. Create them in your mind in the greatest light. Create your value for them in your mind. And tell God, bring me the person that this value is a match for. Start creating in your thoughts and living in your life only scenarios that are of value in the godzone. And catch your thoughts. Don't be upset with yourself. Don't beat yourself up if you catch negative thoughts. Just be like, ah, look at that. I wouldn't have even noticed that had I not taken the godzone program. So grateful I can. I can sift. Grateful for the selection, the divine selection. I get to choose my thoughts. I didn't even know. I didn't even. I couldn't even tell the thoughts apart before this. I didn't even notice how often I created things I didn't want and then expected they would happen. And then talked about the fact that they happened and then complained about the fact that they happened with another person who also anticipated bad things would happen. And bad things happen. And then we commiserated about how the bad things happen. I get to choose my thoughts. God's own thoughts. Divine selection thoughts. So this is the, this is the biggest part of the homework, is to create in your mind. If you're gonna think, think in the God Zone. What do you desire? And then take action. And if you find yourself in resistance to the thing you said you wanted, ask yourself, if I was in faith, what would I be doing? You're gonna take action so much faster, it's gonna blow your socks right off. And while the thing you've asked for is cooking, go live. Take a bubble bath. Go for a walk. Call somebody you love. Learn a new joke, learn a new language. Read a couple of pages in a book. Turn one of my programs on. Go live. Make an offer on the Internet. Do something that creates your life. Create in thought and in action. Connect to the God Zone.
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Notice when you're not connected to the God Zone and just go right back into it. And I'd like to see how you feel just in one day of doing this. Enjoy the process. Because this is actually a life changing process. Don't feel the need to teach it too soon. Keep it for yourself at first. Internalize it, Practice it. Inward, inward, inward. And then come celebrate with us. If you want to feel like you belong in this group, ask yourself, how much am I receiving versus how much am I giving? Do I only receive the teachings? Am I reading everybody else's shares? But I haven't said anything yet. In the group, if you want to belong, harmonize your giving and receiving. In this group, if we don't know who you are and you know who we are, that is not harmonizing in the God Zone. Don't leave this space without us knowing who you were. Be here. Share. Give in the God Zone, your breakthroughs, what's going on for you, how you're feeling. Share. Be a part of the space. Thank you for your presence. I look forward for our next module. I'll see you so soon.
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