CA$H - The Aligned Sequence to Wealth - Day 1

Sam. Hello, gorgeous human beings, and welcome to the Invisible Offer, the Cash program. I am kind of freaking out. I am so excited. Oh, my gosh. I have so much energy in my mind. This is going to be epic. I cannot believe some of you. It is like 2 o' clock in the morning. You are in Portugal. You are in. I have seen someone from Yorkshire, from Paris. There are people all over the place. I am freaking out. I am so excited. I have got people close to me. Quebec, Ontario, people from all over the place. This is incredible. Gosh, this is huge. Thank you for being here. There's so much that we're going to cover in these six modules and I'm so excited that we get lifetime access to this together so that if there's anything that is ever missing or feels that needs to be added to this, I can add to it. We can just trust the process of what these next six modules have in store for us. So I'm going to take you through a really exciting process. We're going to be going live through Zoom like this. Every time the live stream gets shared into the Facebook group. So you always have the choice, whether you come on here live with us on Zoom and then you get to see all the other participants, or if you want to go onto the Facebook Live, which you can also do. The replays will always be available inside of the group, so it's very easy to navigate. And if there's ever any changes made or any important things, we will always email you or any announcements will be pinned to the top of the group. Now you're going to see a lot of moderators inside of the group. You're going to see a lot of, you know, people. Emmanuelle, Alpha Team. Vanessa, Alpha Team. Stephanie, Alpha team. Cheryl, Alpha Team. Cam, Alpha Team. Tammy, Alpha Team. You're going to see a lot of Alpha team. The best account to connect with if you have a question is the Alpha Femme team. Even though there are different people with different accounts, the best one to make sure you get an answer there is the directly. I have a team member that manages my account as well. So those are two best accounts to make sure that you get your questions answered. If you need anything, you tag the Alpha Femme team or you message them the Alpha Femme Team. Same for me. But it should be pretty easy. Everything we're doing here is pretty simple. Everything will always be easy to find inside of the groups and the guide sections. My team's always navigating everything, putting everything inside the guide section. So if you're not there Live. Anything you need will be in the guide section or pin to the announcements. The top of the group should be relatively easy. You've noticed in my world we try to make it as streamlined as possible. It's easier for all of us. Ok. I have so much love for this process that I'm going to take you through. And the kinds of things that I've manifested in my life, they don't make much sense. I have manifested the most extraordinary things beyond what I ever thought would be possible. And I've manifested for myself and I've also manifested for other people. I've manifested for the world myself. There's so many different incredible things that have happened for me through my actions and also through my surrender. And I want to really walk you through both of those energetics throughout this program. So we're going to be talking about feminine and masculine energetics. We're going to be talking about leaning in and leaning back. We're going to be talking about giving and receiving, doing and being. All the dualities of dynamics that really create a powerful energetic pole. Because what I've come to realize on this journey to manifestation is it's a lot more logical than I thought and at the same time it's so much less logical than I thought in the sense where it's like, it makes so much sense, it's irrefutable and it makes no sense at all. And so I've got to give up all at the same time. And my hope is that throughout this program you get this on all the levels. I want you to get it so that you can start playing a much more fun, expansive game. There really is no reason why I would have the things that I have other than I understood these concepts and I embody them every day because I had no, I had nothing that you didn't have to get started. You know, there was no audience to get started with. I, I didn't get chosen by someone and get put on a stage. I wasn't gifted a huge audience. I didn't get an opportunity to speak somewhere that gave me a bunch of followers. I didn't write a best selling book, I didn't get featured anywhere important that put me on the map. Like I literally just did what I'm going to teach you right now. But the biggest deal, the biggest thing, the most important piece of the puzzle for me is I made a decision that this could work for me. And I didn't, I didn't tell myself how long it needed to work in. I didn't give Myself, a timeline. I really just decided this can work for me, and I'm going to have the time of my life finding out how it all unfolds. It became the writing of the greatest story of my life. Instead of needing it to happen a certain way, which was how I had always done. Manifestation, what do you want? And by when? And that never worked for me. So I'm going to teach you the way that I manifest and the way that I create in my life that is maybe completely different from everything that you've ever tried on before. You can completely adore it, take on the whole thing, and change your life with it. You can pick it apart, take what you love the most about it, and run with what you love the most. Or you can just learn my way and go, huh, interesting. Whatever you feel is best for you. But what I want to show you is how I got to understand what I got to understand. So I had a big question in my mind that really kind of drove me a little berserk. I wondered, why is it that two people who do the exact same strategy don't have the same outcome in life? Why is it that two people from the exact same family don't turn out the same? Why is it that doing things does not always generate the same result? How is it that the top players of a sport don't always win? How is it that the best of some things still fail? How is it that you can guarantee results on something and still for other people, for some people, it won't work? Why is that? And so a big reason I asked myself this question is because most of the things in life I was expected to be able to do, I wasn't really capable of doing basic things like being able to just remember stuff by heart just doesn't work for me if there's no emotional connection for me, I don't remember. And this was very difficult for me in school, especially when I was trying to memorize things like how many provinces there are in Quebec and what are they called? Or like, what are the kinds of forests? Or what are the kinds of things? And I was trying to remember by heart, like, okay, there's Quebec, Ontario, British Columbia. And I only know those because we go to Ontario from our family holidays. I live in Quebec and British Columbia sounds like British Britain, which is where my mom's from. And the rest don't know. It wasn't until I traveled to those parts of Canada that I was like, oh, now this province matters to me. I knew people who could tell me the 50 something states up by heart. And I was like. And it wasn't until I traveled to most of them that I could name them. I couldn't remember things by heart if there was no heart. I couldn't just memorize things. But there were so many good strategies. I would be sitting down with a tutor that would explain to me, you just have to know it by heart just to practice, just so it will work. But the other kids got it. So what was wrong with me? One of my favorite quotes is by Einstein. It's like, everyone is a genius, but if everyone is judged by their ability to climb a tree, you know, then what are the people that can't climb the tree? Like, the fish grow up thinking they're stupid. And it's like, I was a fish being told if I didn't climb a tree, I was stupid. And it's like, there comes a time where it's like, if you don't question these things, you just decide that people are right about you, that you're not capable, that you're going to end up having less than everyone else in life, that you just don't get it, that you're not good enough and that you don't have it. And there are certain things that we are inherently taught which is like, it takes money to make money. I remember the first time I heard that, I was like, well, that's a problem. What if I don't have any? Like, that's it. The journey ends here. Please evacuate the train. You are going nowhere. Like, that doesn't feel like that's not fair. Takes money to make money. Great. So there's things that we've been told that kind of put us in a box where it's like, well, if that's true, then my goose is cooked. If that is the truth, then I'm done. And there were so many things I was told on my journey to, through entrepreneurship that it was like, well, I don't have that. Some of the things were like, it takes $100,000 or it takes a hundred thousand names on an email list in order to be a millionaire. I don't even have an email list. How am I ever going to do that? What do you even put in an email? I wouldn't even know what to say. What do you do with these hundred thousand people on your email list? What do you even say to them? Hello? And then what? Like, what do you even send to these people? You have to have a website. What do you say in the website? What do you say? You say Hi, I just started a business five minutes ago and I was told I needed a website. So here it is. I was told you needed to run ads. To what? To a free thing. What's my free thing? Well, you have to build it. What? What is it about? Well, you should sign up for my 10 million dollar program and I'm going to tell you how to make a free thing and write an email to 10,000, 100,000 people that you don't have so that they buy the thing that you haven't built yet. And my brain was like, oh no, this isn't going well for me. I already have failed. We haven't even started and I am getting an F at this assignment. It's not good. So why do those things work for so many people but not for me? Is there something wrong with me? No, it's that these are not actually what is happening. These are what certain people do when they have the energetics. Right? When they have the energetic piece figured out. These steps all make sense because for them, energetically, that is a sound way of doing it and it works. And for someone else, if energetically, that is not a sound way of doing it, it doesn't work. Even if the strategy is like fail safe, like, you cannot fail at this. Everyone succeeds. Not me, because I can't. I still to this day don't have a website where it's like, hi, let me introduce myself. Here's an about me section. Click here for information. Written about this program or about this program is just like the minute I go to write, my brain goes, same thing I used to do at the exam when I used to sit down for the exam. So I had to create a different way for myself because it was just not going to work the way everybody told me it needed to work and I really wanted it to work. So I started thinking about stuff. Because there's another truth in this is like, as much as I don't love to sit and write the sales page, I don't read the freaking sales page. If I don't read the sales page, but I still buy the things, then aren't there people in the world that don't need the sales page? If I'm one of them, If I don't read the sales page, why are you writing a sales page for me? So is it possible that there are people who need a little less than what I've been told they need? What do I need? So I started to break down the concept of like, what matters to me and what makes me follow Certain people, what makes me buy a certain way, what is the frequency, what is the energy? What is the vibe? What is it? And I've tried it on with so many different launch strategies and here's the crazy, wildest thing. They all work. I have done invisible offers like the one that you bought this time. I have done huge launches with a live stream explaining detail after detail after detail. I used to do sales calls. I have written posts upon post to explain the depths of what something means. And it all works because I take it through the energetics that I'm going to show you in this program. And what this means is that you're going to get to have the time of your life developing launch strategies. I'm going to talk to you about some of mine and why I think they worked really well. And so you'll be able to have a behind the scenes scenes understanding of how I got here. But ultimately, I think what's going to be fun is you're going to get to start playing with launch strategies not because someone did something and you're trying to copy it, but because you understand why something works and you get to be creative with what you want to try on. And what we might actually get to see in this industry is a bunch of exciting launch strategies where we're all getting really excited to see new things and new ways and we're not seeing the same thing over and over again. People are getting creative. We're actually having a good time. I don't know about you, but I had the time of my life. Selling this invisible offer like this was so fun for me and I knew I was going to deliver something next level. So there was never a fear that it would be inadequate in any way, shape or form. Like I knew I was going to be giving you next level. Next level, next level. That I knew. There was no question about that. And so I was able to show up and have the time of my life. Like this was so much fun to do and I didn't need to make it complicated. By the time we gave any real tangible information or even created the graphic for it, there was already almost 2000 or over 2000 people who had registered. 2000 people registered without a sales page, without all the things that people said we needed to do more like an energetic connection. So the first piece of the puzzle, the one we are going to talk about today is so CASH is an acronym. So C A S H. It's an acronym. I'm going to take you through it today. The first letter anyway, because we're going to be going through the four letters in manifestation and in sales. And the reason I want to really take you through both is because it's so important for me that you see how whether or not you're involved in the process or not, the sequence is so similar. There are some very small differences, and I'm going to be excited to take you through those and show you how those work. But ultimately, this is how I've manifested all the things. Whether I have been super hands on and I've made it work, or whether I've been super leaned back and watched it work. This is how it happens. So the first letter in the sequence is C. And in my world, that means context. So what context is, is an energetic bubble that holds all the things I think about, feel about, and do and be in my life. It's like I could do my hair or I could do my hair, because tonight's the launch of the Cash program. Can you see how the context would change the way I do my hair? I could eat a meal because I'm hungry and I'm starving, or I could eat a meal as the first meal I ever have. As my love of my life introduces me to his family. I eat very differently in those two contexts. There's the walk when I know there's a photographer taking a picture of me while I walk, and there's the walk where I really got to go to the bathroom. That's a different walk. The reason we do things the way we do things entirely changes the thing. And so for me, what I realized is as I created these contexts, these really big, energetic holding spaces for me to blossom in, I started to live my life at a whole other level. And I realized that depending on the things I'm working on in my life, I can stretch the context to hold many different things. So, for example, if I'm in the context currently of the Cash launch in my life, I'm going to be really connected to who I am when I'm buying and who I am when I'm selling in my life. And I'm going to notice how I show up when I'm buying. I'm going to notice how people sell to me, because the context of my life is now about sales and buying. But if I'm just trying to sell a program and the context of my life is limited to trying to sell a program, everything I do has such a smaller energetic surge. If my capacity is limited by, well, everything is in the context of selling my program. Everything is bouncing off the walls of this tiny little context. Everything is bouncing off the context of this tiny little thing, which is like, I'm trying to sell and I'm not. I'm trying to sell and I'm failing. Nobody bought. I made it. I made an offer. Nobody bought. I went live. Nobody bought. Oh, somebody bought. Okay. Nobody bought. Somebody bought. It's like a small little context. And we can live in a small context like that, but the failure rate is through the roof in a small context because it's like, yes or no about this context. If you have a small context about manifestation, like, I am manifesting $10,000 by Friday. Did you manifest $10,000 yet? No. How about now? No. How about now? No. How about now? No. How about now? No. How about now? No. That's it. Bouncing back and forth in the tiniest possible, tiniest possible, tiniest little context. This is what most of us do. I'm trying to manifest love. I want to manifest love. So I'm going to meet someone tonight. She manifest someone yet? You met someone yet? I've only been here for five minutes. I'm asking myself, is there a person here? Is it possible to fall in love tonight? I'm going to fall in love. Am I going to fall in love? Have I fallen in love? Not to. Not yet. Okay. Did you fall in love last night? No. Well, that was over fast. The smaller the context, the faster the failure. The more failure we accumulate, the more evidence we have that this ain't working. And then it would change the context even more. Then you have an even smaller context. I'm trying to manifest $10,000 while I believe I can't manifest $10,000 that takes this context and makes about this big. Did you manifest a thing you didn't think you can manifest? No. Are you looking for my ring? It is upstairs in the red bathroom in the thing with my clothes in it. So we are creating such tiny, tiny, little itty bitty little contexts. Bouncing and hitting up against them immediately because it's like, didn't work. Like, we're already complete, the assignment is over. I lost. And then we take that evidence and we put it in our pocket for later. So what we want to do is to learn to create a bigger context. So if you're like, instead of, I want to meet my. My relationship, my partner tonight. If your context is just a little bit bigger and your context is like, I'm aligning to meeting an incredible partner, a life partner in my life, and there's just no limit to tonight. You just don't use tonight. Will you marry me? If you're like, I am going to manifest the partner of my life, but there's no timeline. Do you need to check on it tonight? Maybe not. Maybe you don't have to check on it tonight. Maybe you get to be like, who knows? Maybe I planted a seed tonight. Who knows? Who knows? But who are you in life when you're beginning the manifestation process of a great relationship? Now, what if you made the context even juicier? Like, I am revving up for the greatest love affair of my life, and I am creating myself to be the version of me that will allow that to happen to me. So, like, you know how often in your life you're like, oh, I'm ready for love. Just, you know, I probably wouldn't want to get naked in front of anybody right now because I've got weight to lose, and I wouldn't want anybody to see me naked. But I'm manifesting real true love. I am manifesting 10,000 people in my program, except I don't have a team, and I'm terrified I'm going to fail everybody. And I'm scared every time I have one new client that I'm not going to give them enough. But send me 10,000 people. Did you get 10,000 people yet? No. How about now? No. How about now? No. So as you really get clear on the context of, like, how do I get to play in this? I'm getting ready for the greatest love affair of my life. If that's the context for my life, Am I going to calculate whether I met a person tonight at the restaurant? Does that even matter? It's like, I'm revving up for the greatest love affair of my life. Did you meet someone at the restaurant tonight? Nope. And it doesn't matter because I'm revving up for the greatest love affair of my life. When you make the context bigger, you get to fit more manifestation power into starts to become a greater, more powerful holding where the failure isn't immediate. If it didn't happen tonight, it hasn't changed a thing about my manifestation. And so a lot of times when it comes to sales, when we look at the flip side of, like, I'm selling this offer, I've told people who's ever done this, you have 24 hours or 48 hours to buy this. And then, let's say the price goes up. You have 24 hours or 48 hours only, and then you watch the clock. I said 24 hours. It's already been an hour. And there's way less people than I thought about it. And now even less. And I've. Unless. Oh my gosh. Oh no. Oh no. And your context is going instead of this is going to be amazing. And the price will go up eventually. What's the difference? What's the difference between price goes up in 24 hours and price will go up over time? One is a bigger context. The other part of this is the scarcity. And so I had to ask myself, with scarcity in life, do I actually enjoy it? Do I actually enjoy being sold to? Like, if I don't buy it now, I'm going to miss out. I realize there's a very fine line between fomo. Like I'm only buying this because I'm afraid I'm going to miss out versus excitement. Like I'm buying this now because it's. Now there's such a fine energetic line and we co create those lines as the, as the seller, as the manifester. Like we create those lines. I don't enjoy that line at all. If you tell me if you don't buy this right now, you're probably going to miss out. My immediate inner response system is if that's how it goes, then I probably wasn't meant to have it. That is my immediate response system. If there is a pressure, then I trust in the universe because I don't, I don't buy that way. I don't buy that way, I don't sell that way, I don't manifest that way. If it really is now or never, then I will do nothing about it because I'm not about to make a decision like that. So if it was meant to be, then it'll come. So the moment there's pressure, I stop using my human entirely. If there's pressure, I'm like, then I trust because I don't operate that way. You will lose a sale for me 100% of the time if you put pressure on me 100% of the time if you tell me if you don't buy this now, you lose it. I will not. And it doesn't matter with what. It doesn't matter whether it's been the house that I wanted, the car that I wanted, the ring that I wanted. It doesn't matter. You put pressure on me. I put it in the hands of God, I put it in the hands of the universe. If that's how it's going to be, then so be it. I release in all control. So where's the part where I get excited? Because there's a very different line where I get super excited. And that is in the line of eventually things could change. And that's just the truth of the matter. And there is no part in this whatsoever that's meant to pressure you. But I do need to tell you, because if I don't tell you and you come back later and you're disappointed because the price has changed or because you found out that there was only one, I don't want you to be mad at me. That is such a different frequency. I am telling you there's not a lot so that you're stressed and you buy it versus take as long as you want. I just want to be clear that everything might change. Like, everything I'm telling you now is only valid while I tell you now. And if it changes, it changes. If I really want it and the person is that squeaky clean in their energy, that might sway things for me. But the difference between those two things is this. You tell me yes or no right now or I'm taking the deal off the table versus you don't know what you want. I flip a coin in the air. And while the coin's in the air, you realize what you want. One feels manipulative. One feels divinely orchestrated. Like, what are the odds that I would fall in love with this thing if it's the only one? And it really is. This person isn't trying to tell me there's only one. Like, there really is only one. There's absolutely no pressure here, but they just do need me to know that if I come back tomorrow wanting this one ring, there's only. It's one of a kind. And so I can take all the time to think about it. I just need to be aware. Oh, I can feel the difference. And I trust that you can feel the difference. And when I started treating buyers like intelligent people, my entire world changed because I realized that the people who try to pretend they have nothing left to sell when they have tons left to sell think we are a little bit silly. They think they can put a big show on and say, now listen, I'm going to be really honest with you. I don't have much of these left. So if you don't go ahead and get one of these right now, they're gonna be gone. And they believe that they can get us. And I don't like that at all. I don't like to be gotten. I don't like to be sold to. But I love to buy. So what's the context of loving to Buy and not loving to be sold to truth, authenticity, integrity, Real, actual, genuine truth between people. So when you have an offer on your hands, you've got something that you want to sell, and you say, I want to put this as a low price to make it exciting, but I want to change the price eventually. And I'm going to feel it in my body when it's time for me to raise the price. Then instead of telling people, in 24 hours, I'm going to raise the price. How many people have realized after 20? You said, in 24 hours I raised the price. And then you realize at 24 hours, you wish you hadn't said that because you wish you could keep the price going a little longer. And you're like, can I go back on my word? And then so many people do this. We had said it would be 24 hours, but now we've changed our minds. That's not great for business either. Then people never believe it when you say something's going to happen or is not going to happen. So for me, I can tell when I want to change the price. I can just feel it. It's like, okay, I'm ready now. I much prefer change the price without warning and tell you the price is going to change without warning than to try to get you to buy before you're ready. Because you've only got 24 hours. Plus, you do that, I guarantee you people will message you at 25 hours and be like, I'm so sorry. My phone froze. My cat ate my computer. I live in a continent where the clocks don't tell the same time as you. And I was sure that 24 hours from now meant 25 hours from now. And now I really would need you to honor that, pray. And then you'll be like, oh, no, they're catching their computer. I should give them the old price. It only makes sense to give them the old price they really wanted. It's not their fault it was their cat that ate it. So you won't even have the willpower to change the price when you know there's people on the edge of their seat wanting to pay you right now this price. So you've got to be so clear when you're ready to change that price. Context is everything. If I am selling Alpha, I'm selling the cash program. I'm going to be focusing on a bigger context. How I buy and how I sell, how people buy and how people sell everywhere. Like, I realized when my brother's wedding was happening and I was the one Buying all the things. I was the one paying for all the things. I was the one finding all the vendors. I was the one deciding with the bride, like, here's what we're doing and here's the ones. And, you know, I had hired a wedding planner to help us, and she was giving a few suggestions, and then I was checking which ones felt energetically aligned. Not one person reached out to me to sell me a thing during that process. And I spelled and I spent north of $100,000 on that wedding, everything said and done, because the goal was to create the most extraordinary experience. And then the island got broken down. We had to restore the island in the process. And so we had to, like, chop down trees and literally repave the entire island in time for the wedding. Like, it was a huge financial investment. And I bought like crazy. And not one person manipulated me. Not one person told me, if you don't buy my grass chopping services in the next 24 hours from right now, there will be no grass cutting for you. Nobody did that to me. And I bought. Nobody said to me, the price for the time being for the banquet will be $20,000. But if you don't let me know that you are ready to buy this right now, and I know that you want to buy it, I am going to change that price to $40,000 by tomorrow morning. Nobody said that. Nobody said, look, I'm gonna be really honest with you. I know that you want our specific cake, and it's a really good cake, and there's a lot of people who want our cake. So if you don't tell us today that we're the people that you want for the cake, we're gonna have to. We're gonna have to go with somebody else. So what are you doing? Nobody had to do that either. But I realized something very, very fabulous with all this is that my context for buying was what is the greatest, most fabulous thing to buy? And so my energy with every vendor was like, what's the best thing you have? And they were like, we love you. What do you want? Like, you tell us what you want, we're gonna make it work for you. When? What do you want? I'll. I'll. I'll come in on the weekend. I'll come in on my day off. I'll hire my cousin to do it if I need to, for everybody. I want. What do you want? The context was so big for my buying that everyone wanted to work with me, but no one was going to manipulate me. They were excited to have my business, which was such a different energy. I realized that there's a context in buying that matters. What kind of buyer are you? There's a context in selling that matters. People who treated this like a transaction. We sell this all the time. You need to make, you know, we've got the chairs that you want. They're good. They're very good. They're very sturdy chairs. Versus the people who are like, we have got the most magical. Okay, sold. Like, I could feel it in the energy. You are an energetic match for me to buy from you for a wedding. Like, that's it. You're the one, you know? Yes. We have a beautiful menu. Here are a few things that you can choose from these visits or like, oh, my gosh, let me show you some of the weddings we've done. Look at some of the pictures we have. You're hired. Obviously, you care. You even have had weddings. You care about your pictures. You care about the presentation. I love you. Also, I may use you for every single corporate event I ever do for the rest of my life. What's the context for why you buy? What's the context for why you sell? These things matter ginormously. Every single buyer that got or every single seller that got my business got my business because I felt they were an energetic match for the wedding. There were people that were very, very good at what they did, but they weren't an energetic match for the context I was buying in. It matters what the context is. When I'm selling femme fatale, it's not about sales. I don't care about that. When I'm in femme fatale, we have rose petals and flowers all over our house. We have romantic music playing all the time. Kevin and I prioritize our relationship like my life depends on it because feminine energy runs my life. If I were to focus on the launch of femme fatale, the context would be this big. But when I focus on the energetics of feminine energy, when I focus on being an energetic match for the people who are coming into my world, when I focus on living in alignment and integrity with my work, the context is so much bigger now in the manifestation process. It's the exact same thing when I'm afraid I'm not going to manifest what I want, which is how we, most of us undercover do this. The context is I need. I just need to find the right person for this. I need to find the right person for this. I need it to happen seamlessly because I really don't have time. How often have you tried to manifest miracles like that. So what's the context? If I'm trying to manifest a peaceful life and I'm going about it in a stressful energy, the context doesn't fit. I'm going to manifest the right workers when I am excited about the work that needs to get done, and I'm already in gratitude for the people I'm going to find. I hear people all the time. I can't find anybody. Everybody here has no work ethic. Nobody has a work ethic. It's a nightmare. And I'm like, I would hate to work for you. No wonder you're not an energetic match for the right people. Because the right people don't want to work with people who say that, like, you could work for anybody in the world. Who are you going to work for? The person who says, nobody has work ethic. I hate builders. They have no work ethic. You can't find any good ones? No. Let's reframe that. You can't find any good ones. And with very good reason. Do we have class when it comes to manifesting the things that we want? Are we a match for the greatest people? Have you ever, in the history of your life, turned down a client or turned down business because someone just was not okay? Like, I just don't want to work with you. Like, I just won't do that. You make my life hell. I don't want to. So when you're secret secretly trying to manifest something, a bag, a builder to come fix something in your house, the greatest whatever it is that you're trying to do, if your energy is an energetic mismatch for the best person, you will never cross paths with the best person because they deserve better than you. And when you are holding a really high frequency for a really big thing and you feel like there's not a lot of traffic in your life at that moment, it's because you're actually eradicating a lot of what's not an energetic match for manifestation. So, so often people. People do this all the time. I'm raising my prices, I'm raising my prices. And then the next day, 24 hours later, they're like, oh, my gosh. But now there's so many less people coming into my life. Maybe I shouldn't have done that. And I'm like, but wasn't the goal that all the people who weren't a match for this price point to not be messaging you and asking you what your prices are if they can't afford it? Oh, yeah. So what if instead you were like, I love how I already feel, how the universe has started to filter people for me. I can already feel the difference. And all the energy that's coming my way, I can already feel the energy has changed. It's a pure energy. The people that are coming to me are, like, chosen. I can feel it. We don't want to do that. We want to say, oh, no, I changed my prices. And now there's so many less people who have no advice from me. Which creates a context, a little bitty little context. We've got to make a stronger, more sturdy storyline for our lives. And so every single little context has a bigger context. And the joy of my life has been to stretch that context even bigger over and over again. And so I remember starting with personal development and hearing personal development and getting, I need to get better or I need to be different now, now. Because if I don't get better now, today, then I failed the assignment. If I'm not a better human being by the time this course ends, I failed because my context is about this big. When instead I started looking at my life like, I am a masterpiece in the making. Like, this could take me my lifetime. That's awesome. I am building the autobiography of my life. Like, this is one of the chapters. This is one of the seasons of the longest standing series of the world. Like the Kardashian series. Season one does not look the same as the Kardashians season 14. Like, for those of you who actually watched that show from the beginning, I still remember when all the sisters worked in a store in Miami and fought because of who was working what roster. By the end of it, they're wearing dresses worth, I don't know how much money at the Met gala. Like, how did that happen? We're talking about billionaires. Yes. They had a store called Dash in Miami and they fought over who worked weekends and nights. Like, the evolution is so intense. But if you were to stop Kardashians at season one and say, are these people going to become billionaire? Is one of these going to become a billionaire? The resounding episode would have been. Or the resounding answer would have been no. Because the context that we had about these people, what they were capable of on episode one, was about to speak. We didn't understand where social media was going. We didn't understand where, you know, fashion was going. We didn't understand where trends were going. We didn't understand anything of where anything was going. So we had this much context. You have this Much context on your life right now. And you're operating like this month matters so much. This month is like everything. But you do. You do even more than this month, I'm sure. Because if you're anything like me, you do something like this. It's the 5th of the month. And by the 5th of the month last month we had already done this much. And so this is going to be a small month, like tiniest little context and face of the world. You say things like I had said in January that I was going to meet the person of my dreams by the summer and it's June and I'm not in a relationship. And so clearly it's not happening. What are we holding on to? What's the vision? So what I have loved is to be like, how big can I stretch this? Like how actually huge can I, can I stretch this and say, like, how much of my life can I fit into this context? Because if I say that the biggest overarching context of my life is evolution and growth over a lifetime as opposed to personal development, that if I haven't changed by the end of this program, I failed, can you see the difference in how much space there is for me to succeed in that and how I can continue to grow? The energy of what I want as opposed to success or failure in an instant Evolution and growth over a lifetime is a context that I'm going to get better in all the time. If selling a program is not so much about just selling a program, but more so about my ability to hold the context of the program over an entire month, I am so much more of a force for that. And I'm not just looking at that I make a sale today. I'm also looking at the context of my life. This can be in the smallest little things. Like you will notice, you'll be like, I want to grow a million dollar a year business, or I want to grow a six figure a year business. But you literally have to have conversations with yourself like, really need to do something about my business this week. That's like you saying, I really need to do something about my kids this month. Like being a mother is a context. Being a parent as a context, you don't just not be a mother this week. You know what I mean? It's like you're, this is happening. And so in your business, though you may notice that you do have, you have this context. It's like, I need to work on my business, I need to do more in my business. I need to do something about my business. Being in a relationship, you might say, like, well, I got to work on my relationship and I want to be more connected to my partner. But you wouldn't say something like, oh, I've got to, like, talk to my partner. Like, there's a context when you are something that's very different than when you do something. And so the smallest contexts are the ones that are defined by what we do, and the bigger contexts are the ones that are defined by who we are. If my context is held by who I am, the sky isn't even the limit. If really, like, I am selling a program based on feminine energetics, and my entire life is being guided in alignment with that program, there's no question to what I'm going to do. But if literally, I've got to remind myself like, oh, yeah, I've got to think about selling that program and I've got to think about doing that program. I've got to figure out what I've got to do and what I've got to say. And I'm not sure what I've got to do and what I've got to say in order to sell this program, but I feel like I've got to do and say something because the program isn't selling. We want to stretch bigger than that because you're going to notice that the people that you feel really drawn to hold a big context in their lives, you're going to want to buy the hair products from the person who holds a context that's really big around hair care. You probably won't want to buy the hair products from the person who sells a million things plus hair products unless it's for convenience. But if it's based on desire, you will buy from the person who holds the strongest context. If you're choosing, you know where to get married, you're going to choose a place to get married that holds the strongest context for your wedding. You won't choose the restaurant that's going to put you in while there's a million other things going on. And you can't even hold the whole place just for your wedding, there's a million other things going on all at once. You're going to want what is the venue that really knows how to hold the context of a wedding. And so the context gets deepened every single day. And for a lot of us in the sales process, this kind of looks like your brand. Your brand is your context. If I look at your brand and I can't tell what your context is, I'm going to Take a minute before I decide whether or not you're the person I buy this from. Now, you can have multidimensional context, but that means you need an even bigger context. And so what does that mean? That means I can sell femme fatale and I can sell cash because I'm alpha femme. Alpha femme is an even bigger context than cash. It's an even bigger context than femme fatale. Alpha femme is she who leads herself in every single area. And let me talk to you about this area. And let me talk to you about this area. My context is she who leads herself in all areas of my life. And then I can bring it and break it down into smaller contexts which are still bigger than most people's context. Because for me, the context of sales conversation isn't just teaching people sales and isn't about whether or not people buy. That's an itty bitty bit of context for me when I speak about sales. It's literally like the living and breathing of us beings that operate with money as a currency, that every single thing we do is buying and selling. Everything is a sales conversation. When you're having a conversation with your 5 year old around bedtime, someone's making a sale. When you're in bed with your partner and someone's in the mood, one of you is making a sale, everything's a sales conversation. Everything's an enrollment conversation. Here's why it should be a yes. Here's my rebuttal about that. Like, everything is a sales conversation. And so for me, it's so important to master the art of this. Because everything's a sales conversation. My place or your place? Sales conversation. Tonight or tomorrow night? Sales conversation. A bigger package, a smaller package. Sales conversation. Three months or six months? Sales conversation. Where for dinner? Sales conversation. Bedtime now or in 15 minutes? Sales conversation. The Nike shoes or the no name shoes? Sales conversation. But mom, it matters. You don't understand. Sales conversation. I can do my homework this weekend. I'll have time. Sales conversation. Sales conversation. Sales conversation. So when I stretch that sales conversation beyond just are people buying from me tonight? I hold a context that magnetizes people. Like I want to learn sales from a person who understands the greater context of sales. And as you stretch that context in your life, things start to change. So when people say things like you've got to be positive, like the law of attraction is about positivity, to some extent I can understand, but I don't think that's what it is. I think that law of attraction is based on context. So If I hold the context that I am an energetic match for miracles and that is a context for my life, I hold that belief as an overarching truth that changes the way I show up in my life. Any miracle could happen to me right now. Any miracle could happen right now. When I least expect it, something right now could happen. And I believe that every second of my life for real, you could surface level, call me a positive person. But if you did the energetics and you really did the work, what you'd realize is I live my life holding a context that's an energetic match for miracles. Those are two entirely different things. When I live my life in the context of success and failure manifest immediately for me. And I decide whether I'm a success or a failure based on the immediate manifestation of success and failure in my life. And my context is a little bit of context. You could see or say that I am a negative person or a pessimistic person. It was like, well, didn't work. Told you. I told you it wouldn't work. See? Told you. Told you. Now what did I tell you? It's like, would you give it five minutes? I know, look, just evidence, right? So negative. Am I. Am I negative? Or do I have a needy bitty little context now? Why do people choose smaller context rather than big context? It makes no sense. If you can choose to be like, sky isn't even the limit. I am an energetic match for miracles at any moment in my life, or you can be a match for told you so, why would you choose the smaller context? The only reason is because we are not good at holding the void. The space in between where you don't have an answer is the hardest thing on earth to hold, and we suck at it. You're heartbroken because you broke up with the wrong person. You know this is the wrong person. And every fiber of your being, you know this is the wrong person. For days you've been together and you've been telling yourself, I just wish I had the courage to leave this person. But then you leave this person and now you have a void, a void between this relationship ending and the next one starting. And your mind starts to tell you that you're going to be alone forever. Your mind starts to tell you it shouldn't hurt this bad. And if it doesn't go away, you're going to have to call the person back because you've made a mistake. Call them back quick. You can't breathe. We don't know how long pain lasts. And so we try to make it go away really fast. And for that, we shrink the context. Because if we can get a fast answer, we do not need to hold the void. So people play with tiny context so that they do not need to hold the gap. The gap is where all the power is. That space between what you want but you don't have it yet, and what you want but you believe it's coming. Your ability to stand in that gap and stay in the context makes you the most powerful person in the room every single time, whether you're selling or whether you're manifesting. It's your ability to actually say, I want this and it's coming even though I don't have it that makes you so powerful. Because what most people do is, I want this. It's not here yet. I was right. It wasn't coming that fast. When you see people who need to be right right now, it's because it's safer for them to have an answer fast, even if the answer is bad. People do this all the time. If you don't know if you love me, then we're done. I guess we're done. Whoa. Do I not have any space at all to even formulate an answer? No. If you needed to think about it, clearly, you don't love me. Is that really true, though? Or is that you can't actually hold fear for any longer than 12 seconds? You know, I gave the person the link and they didn't use it. And so, well, you know, they're just not going to buy it. Would you relax? Do you sometimes get a link and then say, oh, yes, gotta do that, and then go do a bunch of other things and completely forget about the link? Yes, all the time. Relax. We think that if people wanted us, they'd want us right now. They'd think if people wanted to buy something, they'd buy it right now. We. We think things that are so not right because that's not even the way we do things. You have had someone tell you. Tell me now. If you want to fix this between us, tell me right now or it's over. And you've said to yourself, well, I can't tell you that right now, so I guess it's over. If you don't have the emotional space for me to have the emotional space, then I guess we're done. People limit everything. The ultimatum right now. We do this with money. We do this with outcomes, manifestations, everything. If you don't blah, blah, blah right now, then you blah, blah, blah. When you're able to hold Energy when no one else can, you're the strongest person in the room. When you can hold a maybe without making it a no just so that you're not heartbroken, you're the strongest person in the room. And not just that, but what you do while you're waiting. I will talk more about that tomorrow. The next piece so context matters on multiple dimensions, and you're going to get to notice during the course of this program how big you manage to make this context. If you're manifesting something in your life, are you focusing only on that manifestation in a certain amount of time? Because if you are, that is the smallest possible context. If you are manifesting something, that is exactly something, but you've at least taken the time equation off, you've got a little bit of a bigger context. If you're wanting something that's really big and amazing and you've taken the time limit off, you've made it an even bigger context. If you've said you want something, you haven't attached it to time. And on top of that, you even consider the impact that having that might do you even strengthen the context? How big can the context be? Can you set yourself up in a way that your whole life represents what you're anchoring in? Like, I am manifesting love, and so I am going to be the kindest to myself that I have ever been in all my life because I want to be an energetic match for the love I want to receive. I am going to cuddle myself at night because I know one day the person I love will be cuddling me. I am going to make myself coffee in the morning, bring myself coffee back to bed, and imagine what it feels like to receive that every day. I am going to live myself. I am going to give myself the greatest love story because I am an energetic match for the greatest love affair of all times. I am going to love my body or work on my body so that the next person that enters my life, I am like, let's get naked instead of oh no, you arrived at the wrong time. I need to lose five pounds before you are allowed to hold my hand. Like, let me love me. I am ready for the greatest love affair of my life. I want boundless, limitless love. What's in the way for me? Let me love me. Let me create the most sacred relationship with myself. Like, I'm going to have the greatest love affair of my life. So what? How do I stretch that context right now instead of limiting it to did I meet the person at the bar Tonight, which is the tiniest context. If I'm manifesting money, I'm manifesting wealth. It's like I need this amount by this time or else I've failed. It's the smallest manifestation concept there is and yet that's how most people are manifesting. Write on a piece of paper how much you want and when you want it by or. I am growing my wealth, I am learning and I am evolving evolution and growth over my entire lifetime. And I will become wealthy in every way I know. And I'm going to notice that and celebrate that all in my life. And I'm going to put myself in rooms where people celebrate wealth for what it is. Wealth of love, wealth of health, wealth of money, wealth of all things. And I'm going to work on any part of me that feels limited in any way. Like I'm setting myself free from any shackles around that like I am fully self expressed. I'm choosing programs and things that are going to help me. This is one piece of the puzzle. This program is one piece of the puzzle. And I'm always going to remember this will define my life like before and after this there will be a shift, but I will continue to evolve past this as opposed to this. Doesn't change me for sure. I'm doomed if a six module program by Melanie Ann Layer doesn't change me or fix me. I was destined to be broke for the rest. Evolution and growth over a lifetime. What's the bigger possible context? How am I going to spend my money every day until the rest of this program? How am I going to offer sales every day until the rest of this program? How am I going to hold an energetic match for money every day until the rest of this program and beyond? Can I hold this in my awareness? Can I stay connected to the bigger vision? Can I stay connected to the bigger purpose beyond this program? For some of you, it's going to be hard for even for six days to stay in the vibe. You're going to notice, you're going to be really pumped up. There's going to be so many people. You'll be like, day one is amazing. I can't wait. I'll be there tomorrow and then tomorrow I'll be like, well watch replay. And then on the third day you'll be like, oh, watch replay. A lot of people will drop off before this is even over. Never mind being able to continue it for a month or a year or a lifetime. My energy around the things I desire is huge. I hold the strongest, biggest, boldest sexiest context there is for all the things that I desire. And I know how to hold the void. I could hold the void if I only got the thing I wanted. When I was 80, I would hold the context and I would write the book about the roller coaster of what it feels like to hold the void between now and then. I can hold anything for however long it takes. And sometimes it happens like that. Because when it comes to context, it could come overnight, or it could take forever, but either way, I'm in. I don't need it to happen now in order to get validation. I'm holding a context for my lifetime. I will live the greatest love affair of my life. I will be set free financially. And then I will teach the world what I have learned. I will speak with more purpose and intention than I've ever heard anyone speak. I will connect people all over the globe, even people who are learning in a different language than the one I am speaking. I will raise the standard for how women treat themselves. I will normalize Big money in the hands of women. I will. What's the context? Huge context. Huge. We play tiny little games and we get disappointed immediately when we don't get what we asked for yesterday. We're bigger than that. We're stronger than that. We're more capable than that. And the void, if we don't have a context, feels like the abyss. Like you're floating in nothing. Like there's nothing to anchor you to the void. Like, what's happening? How come nothing's happening? Why don't I know what's going on? We're so bad with that. But with a big context, we understand what's going on is that we're just in a void. So you have a homework for the first module. I want you to look at this both ways. If you are simply taking this program to learn how to manifest, then simply in the manifestations and the things that you desire, I'm going to have you look at what you've actually been asking for. For real. What have you been asking for? You may notice that it feels more humble to ask for small things, but it also limits the manifestation sequence. It also limits your threshold for pain. It also limits the void. It limits all kinds of stuff. So you got to also decide whether you're in here to play the humble manifestor, or if you're in here for like, the sky isn't even the limit. Because if you allow yourself to hold everything you've ever wanted, you will receive everything you've ever wanted. It's just easier to manifest when you dream big. As wild as it sounds, it's actually easier to make this work if you're willing to go big because it's easier to hold a bigger context than a smaller one. So you're going to look at what is your context for manifesting what have you been asking for and when you haven't received real, like, this is for you. You can post it in the group if you want. But like, I really want you to be honest with your side. This didn't work for real Z's, like real truth. You say you want something, how long do you really give yourself for it to happen or not? And then when it happens, or do you celebrate or do you immediately give yourself another goal? And when you don't get it, what do you tell yourself? How often have you told yourself, this doesn't work for me? I knew it. See, I shouldn't have even thought about it. I knew. So notice that. And if you want to play an even bigger game, ask yourself, what is the biggest possible context I could hold for this manifestation? Like, I am manifesting that people for my pro. People buy my program. I'm manifesting that people are buying my program. What's your program about? Sales. What's a bigger context for sales? Buying. What's a bigger context than even buying money? What's even bigger context than money? Alignment, Freedom. Leadership. Having everything you've always wanted. Okay, hang on a minute. I've been holding an itty bitty little context. See how big you can stretch that context and see how big you could hold your energy in comparison to where you've been holding it. If you've been doing this for actual sales, you're going to do the same thing. If it's like I am trying to sell a program on, it's a mainstream one these days. Becoming an entrepreneur. Money. But I want to. I want to do one about becoming an entrepreneur. Okay. But nobody's buying it. So how do you live being an entrepreneur? Well, stress. Because I'm constantly thinking about the fact that people don't buy my programs. What's it like being an entrepreneur? I love being an entrepreneur. I am. I am stretching the context. Like I am creating the life of being the greatest entrepreneur. And then people want to buy my program on how to be an entrepreneur. What's even bigger than entrepreneurship? Freedom, Wealth. Being paid every day. What's an even bigger context than that? Living a life of our dreams. Becoming everything we've met we wanted to be in this lifetime. Okay, am I An energetic match for that. Do I even hold that as a context for my life? Or am I trying to juggle all of my life, trying to push through being an entrepreneur? Curious about why people don't want to buy an entrepreneur program? For me, how big is your context? My context around relationship is huge. My context around money is huge. My context around sales is huge. Branding, marketing, advertising, every single thing fits under alpha femme. She who leads herself the vision of my life, the old lady. I'll be at the end of my life when I look back and I say, thank you for that ride. You really went for it. How big is your context and how strong can you hold on to it and for how long, even if it looks like it's not working? This is so important because in the sales sequence, if you can't set up a powerful context for your audience to feel before you've even started talking about your sales, if they can't feel that that's a part of you before you start selling, you're starting behind. If you already know that I am all about love and connection with my partner, that I have the most extraordinary relationship because I live a family first business and I'm open about my love and my relationship, and I'm constantly bringing that to the table even though I've never sold one thing about it. On the day that I launch a relationship program, you will be more drawn to me because the context was set. If out of nowhere I launch relationship program and there's no context, it's going to take time. It's going to be like, I don't know, like, let me, let me try to figure out how you fit into the equation. For me, as the person that's going to teach me this, I want to learn this stuff. But do I want to learn it from you? So everything that matters to you, being a part of your brand matters because you're setting the ground. You're preparing the foundation for whatever you end up launching in the future. Whatever it is that your business is about, your context matters. If you want to talk about customer experience, but you don't ever think about it in your business, the sale of that program will fall much flatter than if you lead with conversations about customer experience first. If you bring that to your audience even before you're selling anything about it, we set the context first. You're ready for love. Then create the foundation for an extraordinary relationship. Whatever it is that you're wanting to manifest, create the foundation. That's the context. So by the time you say universe I'm ready. There's a. There's a loading dock, there's an address, there's a place of shipment. Because we are asking for things all over the place that we're not prepared to receive. The context shows the people, the universe. I am ready for you to land here. It is the most important thing. And a lot of us wait for evidence that this works before we set the context. Once I meet someone, I'm going to start making time in my schedule for a relationship. Once I sell this program, then I'll believe that people will buy it. Once I have evidence, then. And that is the tiniest possible context on the planet. And it has an energetic match. So I live my life with the biggest possible context I lead myself. This is a journey of evolution and growth over a lifetime. Every single thing that's important to me has a leading edge context in my life. And I will dedicate an entire month of my life to bring one entire context forward while still holding all the other contexts together. And that stretches my energy. But because I have so many balls in the air, I am able to navigate the void with everything that I have. Because while one ball's in the air, I'm holding another context. And while the other balls in the air, I'm holding another context. If I'm not good with the void, I can only focus on something I can hold. And this is where we see people who are like, I wish I could have a relationship, but I'm so focused on my business that I don't have space. That's like, I am not willing to create a void with the thing I have. I believe that if I were to let go for one second of my business to bring in a second ball in the juggling, that in the moment where I would let go for a minute, I would break my business. So I've got to hold it like, this is my business, But I also want a relationship. Okay, so throw the. Throw the business. No, but you want to manifest a partner. Yes. And when the partner comes, then I will throw the ball. Doesn't work like that. You've got to be able to throw the ball before a second ball comes. No, still not void. Trust. What if. What if. What if I let go and it breaks? What if I let go and you gotta be able to trust. You gotta practice. Like, let's go take a vacation. Take two days off. Take a night for yourself. Take yourself to the movie. There's no partner yet. I know. You gotta trust. And then it's like, okay, I figured it out my relationship, none of my business. Ha. I overruled the system. Fantastic. What about your family? Okay, you want to write a book, you want to grow your online presence, you want to go to the gym three times a week, you want to grow your brand. I'm stuck. I don't know what to do until you're willing to go. There's my career and then my partner and my kids and then I'm also going on vacation. Amazing. I have some self care and a massage on a Friday afternoon and this is great. Until you're ready to do that, you're stuck. So there's got to be a void. You've got to be able to, like, trust in the cycling of your energy that you can hold the relationship and your family and your properties and your travel and the money and the things and there's a vibe and you're in the zone. And like, when you can do that, the only difference is you don't need to hold it all, but you actually believe it all comes together. For that, you have to be a master of the void, because the void is what makes a person able to juggle the trust that in midair. I've seen people juggle five balls, ten balls. I'm like, how do you do that? I'm sometimes like, how do you even. How do you. How does your brain function with the timing of the things? It's all energetics. It's all energetics and support, right? Because you're going to hire a team, you're going to do all kinds of things, but at first you start with a few things and then you learn to trust the void and trust the void more and trust the void more. Next thing you know, you've got all of this moving in your favor, but it's got to start with a bigger context. If you think about it, the context is how high you're willing to throw the ball. If you're going to only juggle like this. You can't juggle two balls at a time, three balls at a time. You can only if it's. If it's this far from your hands because you're afraid to drop it, you can only have a certain amount. The way people juggle when they've got multiple balls in the air is they'll literally throw so high because they trust in the timing. They trust in, like, if I throw this five feet in the air, then I have more time for another ball and another ball. So I've got to be willing to let it go high and pick it up low. I've got to be willing to put more void. More space, more airtime, less control. Oh, my God. Gosh. But with a bigger context, there's more space and there's more void, but there's more you can do. The context holds more. If you want to be certain and you want to just hold on to everything you've got, you will not be able to navigate with the void. But if you trust in literally the science of life, you understand that the bigger the context, the more space, the more things you can bring into your life. And what I love the most is that contexts support each other. So when I believe the happier I am, the more money I make, and there's space for my joy and there's space for my wealth, as these balls are in the air, they're complementary. As the joy lands and I catch it, I'm in the zone. And when the. When the wealth lands, I'm in the zone, and it's like there's space for everything, and it's all connected. When I believe the greater my relationship is, the greater my business works, And I believe the happier I am, the more my relationship works, and the more my relationship works, the more wealth I create, and the more. The more wealth I create, the more my name is known on the Internet, and the more that my name is known on the Internet, the more my branding is fun and exciting for me to create more of. There's now even a connection and a synergy in everything I'm doing. The reason why for everything actually comes together in the most profound way, and the gravity starts to hold my plans together. But I need to be able to trust in the void. So sit with yourself and create a context that's bigger than the one you've been holding. See if you can stretch it. If you need help, like, see if. See, ask. Notice people in the group, what they say. Like, plug into what other people are saying. Plug into what other people are doing. Like, if you give yourself. I failed this based on. You couldn't come up with it Tonight you're getting exactly my point. If you're already worried. I don't get this program. I don't get it. I don't understand. I'm gonna fail this assignment. Notice how hard you are on yourself and how fast. Trust in the bigness of the space and time that we have on this planet right now. It's quite spectacular. What is the biggest context you can come up with for the things that you desire? And what's even bigger than that and what could you do that would hold that context? What could you do for yourself to hold that context? Like, for example, you know, I am selling a program about sales. I'm going to notice every single purchase I make and every single thing I sell. I'm going to notice how I feel and how they feel. That's a bigger context. See if you can even attach something to that. I want to manifest a relationship. What's the biggest context I can possibly do is like, I want to fall in love with myself more than I ever have in my entire life. And what I'm going to do is I'm going to take myself on a date. Can you imagine the difference between the person who's so worried about selling their relationship program that they're literally on a couch staring at their phone, versus the person who's so excited about selling their relationship program that they're out there making content, if you know what I mean. Which one are you most drawn to? The one that lives in alignment with the context. The context is the bubble, the overarching energy that holds everything. The bigger the context, the bigger the void. That's why we have to work on our emotional intelligence and our personal power. Because the void is scary place to be. But when you have a big context, you anchor it. This was day one. We've gone over time, and that's perfect. This will have been almost 90 minutes, but it needed it, and I'm happy about it. I love you. I'm excited for you. I love where this conversation is going. Like, my excitement for this entire thing is through the roof. If you fear that you didn't get it yet, don't worry. This builds on itself. More clarity will come. Everything's going to be okay. Notice how fast you pull the plug on yourself. How fast you determine whether or not you got it. How fast you decide you belong or you don't. How fast you decided this was right or wrong. Let yourself be in the void. If this isn't clear, if it is clear, do the homework and have fun in it. If it isn't, hold yourself in the void until it becomes clear. You got this? I got you. Have fun. I will see you tomorrow for the next part of the Cash program. Thank you for being here. I'll see you tomorrow. It.