Currency - Module 4 Deepening

Sam, Before I jump in and greet you all, I want to give you just a little real life moment of coaching right now. And I also want to say it's Emmanuel or Emma Alpha team's birthday today. So we gotta say happy birthday Emma. I'm so grateful for this woman. This company is not the same without her. So happy birthday Emma. Thank you for everything you do, everything you are. We love you. Okay, so this is something that we encounter in life and it wasn't part of the program. So I think it's going to be. It's kind of an of course that shows up. But what happens when we have conflicting values, Two things we value both at once and we've got to choose which one we value them most. I'll give you an example. I value being on time. I also value being in the right energy when I show up. What's more valuable? Showing up on time or showing up clear headed? And when I do live programs, that is a very real question. Sometimes if something pops up in my world five minutes before a live stream, that's life. It's not pre recorded. And because everything I do is energetic based, I don't know that being on time matters as much as the entire training being powerful. And so there's going to be times in your life where you may have to contemplate what, what in this moment is more valuable? Because I don't even think that it's always just across the board. You know, energy is more valuable than being on time. I don't know that that's always the truth. But you might have to think in this moment what's more valuable. Am I going to give a better coaching, a better experience here if I show up on time but there's turmoil in my body or am I going to, am I going to deliver something better if I just take the time to drop everything, clear myself and show up in the right energy? Taking the time was the right answer because 10 minutes ago I was on the same energy as I am now. So it's just so important that we recognize especially more and more people are valuing artificial intelligence and emotional intelligence as two different currencies. Which is actually amazing because there was a time where people expected humans to have the same kind of intelligence as artificial intelligence. Leave your pro. Leave your problems at the door as if you're. Siri. Yes. Would you also like the weather? Like how do you want me to do that? The pro. The problem is in my, in my body. The problem is in my heart. The problem is behind my Eyes. Which door would you like me to leave it at? Like, what are we, how do we even ask people to do that? But there was a time where that's the way you did it. You just leave your problems at the door and you power through. And that's not really what we, what we value now more as, as humankind is mental health. What we value more is, you know, that we've changed our value system and that's good for the world. And when you want to be a professional business person, you're going to find that there's important decisions that you need to make because sometimes it's not just as easy as I needed 10 minutes when you guys are waiting for me. So I wanted to say first of all, thank you for waiting until I was prepared to come on. I really appreciate that and I hope this can give you some insight at the same time, when you're looking at your life and what matters to you, what are you valuing the most in this one moment? And you do get to change it. It doesn't need to be like I always value this, it gets to be today in this moment. This is what I value. And as long as it's what you really value, usually it will, it will land properly. I value you, I value your time. I value the fact that you're here and that you waited for me. I also value my energy for you more than the 10 minutes. And I feel like that's, that's how I've built. This is with my energy first and I am okay. Everything is good. Everything is good. Sometimes it's just logistics of moving around and doing different things. Everything's needing to, to land perfectly and I want to be able to be fully focused and it doesn't always land perfectly that way. And so getting the energy right so important. So one of those real time moments of training that doesn't really occur if everything's pre recorded. You know, this is some, this is more added value of real time stuff because you get to see like it happens to all of us. Okay, so let's have a look. There's quite a lot of people on camera today. This is awesome. Safiya in the house. Ricky is here. Monique, Hello. Hello. Kyrie. Hi. Marnaz is here. Lisa, Emma. Hi. Liana, Shilamita, Chloe, Cat. Attend. Hello. Danielle, Elizabeth, Rosalie. I love that you guys are here on camera. Like I'm, I'm now knowing your faces so well from this, this is fun. Agneska, Paola, Lotte, Nama. Hello. Maris, Beata, Maria, Shelley, Homaya, Anya, Carla, Sandra, Odessa, Dominique, Chloe. Hi. Wendy, Anna, Laura, Megan, Holly. Hello. Hello. Jamie, Vanessa, Linda, Kai. Hi. Wellness. Cindy, Cindy, Isabel, Lynn, Cassandra. Claire is here. Maria and Rita. Hi. Nicola.

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Kimberly, Lynn, Cheryl, Michelle, Heather. Hello. Nadia, Emily, Liying.

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Ira, Brittany.

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Mirella, Dr. Cassia.

Hello. Jennifer, Sonia, Mete, Natalie, Nicole, Luella, Yali, Michelle, Kimberly, Marion, April, Lindsay. Oh, my gosh, this is awesome. Ibonino, Leila, Elzon, Adana, Cheryl, Andrea. And I want to say Olga. Hello. Juliana, Renee, Rose. Everybody's on camera. Sue, Nicole, Nadia. This is great. Simona. And if I'm missing anyone, I'm so sorry, but. Hello. Hello. I want to say if I ever don't pronounce your name correctly, I value saying your name correctly. Yesterday, well, when I said Liying's name, I was like, don't actually know that I'm pronouncing this properly. And then later on, because we're friends on Facebook, by the way, if we're not friends on Facebook, make sure we connect on Facebook. But I saw a status of hers, like, explaining how to pronounce her name, and I was like, ah, crap, that is not how I said it. So, like, I do care. So if there's. Oh, good. If there's ever any time I don't pronounce your name and you want to say in the group, here's how I pronounce my name, I'll. It will be my pleasure to say your name properly, because it does matter to me. Okay, deep breath. Today's module is really important, first of all, because a lot of the questions are the same, and that is a good sign. Like, on 70 questions, there really are like 10 questions with all different iterations of the same question. And why this happens is because we're all on the same page. It's like we're all. We're all locked and loaded on the same thing. We're all looking at the same thing. We're all thinking of the same thing. We're there. Like we're. We have landed. We're arriving at the next level of conversation. And what I love about this, and yes, there's sometimes can be some little like, oh, I'm just not sure about this. I'm not sure about this. But mostly what happens when we're in a discussion like this is that we're moving. And that's the beauty of a program like currency, is it gets you not just thinking, but it gets you moving. And when you move, your thoughts change. When you move, it's not Just about the same thought over and over again. Your thoughts change because you're changing with every single day. As you're learning new things and you're taking new action, you're changing, your thoughts are changing. So what's so powerful about this currency program right now as it stands, is that you're actually changing as the program goes. And so there will be so many opportunities to go back and listen to this stuff and to say, okay, let me listen to it all over again, if that's what you want to do. But I really suggest that this is the way that I've, I've really led my life, is that you don't spend too much time re listening after the program is over. If you've watched the whole thing, you watch the whole thing and then you move, give yourself space before you go back so that you're a different person. And when you listen, you literally hear everything differently from a different lens. There is such a thing as over utilizing the same material. Just because you know you didn't get everything, there's a reason you didn't get everything, there's a reason not everything landed. You can watch this a bunch of times. That's what feels valuable to you. But I think the greatest thing to pay attention to now is where, where are you automatically feeling like, okay, I get it, I'm on the, I'm here, I'm locked and loaded, I'm in the machine, I'm there. Where do we move? Where do we go? What's next? What's the next conversation? And the reason I share this this way is because this is how I've done it for myself and this is how I've done it with my clients that have really stayed with me. The distance is, it's always been, there's always going to be so much I'm saying, but get what you were here to get and keep moving instead of wait, I think I missed a module, I think I missed a piece. I think, I mean, let me go back. Life doesn't work like, like going back. That's not how life works. And somet we miss a moment and sometimes we make a mistake and sometimes we miss a piece. But what's more important is that we say, now what? With everything I have, now what? Where do I move now what? And so I've created this incredible journey for you where if you want to continue working with me, you can continue to work with me if it's not with me, as long as you continue to move, move. But the way I do it is I make sure there's always a progression so that people don't enter my world, do something, and then be like, well, that was great. It's a shame there's none of that left. Like, I want it to feel like, that was great. And now what? And so the goal and how I've created this currency program is that it literally moves right into the next conversation, and then the next conversation after that will be created in a way where it leads into the next conversation. This has been a lot of work in progress to make it be this efficient and this. This powerful. And it's taken me a lot of time. And so one of the big questions that I've often seen in the 70 questions that are there is like, how. How do you do it? And how did you get here? And if I'm comparing myself and I'm thinking, I'll never get there, I got here a lot faster than I thought I would. All things considered. If I think of my journey of, like, 10 years ago to now, it feels long. 10 years. But really, I didn't bring Alpha femme to the marketplace until 2017, and it feels like that's when I started showing myself, really. And so from 2017 to now is six years. Can you imagine if in six, six years you speak like you never thought you could speak? You've got an online presence that rivals any big brand. Even big brands want you to collaborate with them or contribute to their businesses. You're being sought out wherever you want to be sought out. You're recognized in your field for what matters. You're earning beyond what you ever thought possible, and you found a balance in your life where everything fits in six years, would that not be the most incredible thing? So I think sometimes we just want so much for it to work now, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow. I need evidence now because I'm stressed, and I'm stressed scared. But that's how the whole world is. The whole world works energetically. Paycheck to paycheck, and then they get paid paycheck to paycheck. But their whole mindset is like that. It's only just about get paid for the work I've done. Now show me proof and evidence that what I've done is going to be paid now. Their ability to hold fear in the void is very, very small. There's not a lot of space to hold fear in the void, so there can't be void. There's got to be a pay every Friday, and it's got to be a consistent paycheck. That is what regulates the nervous system the most. So people who are stressed, nervous, all the things, they go into the most easy, comfortable jobs that mean you're gonna get paid every Friday, there's going to be an amount you can rely on and that's it. If you want something different, you've got to have courage. I've seen one of the questions on the Q and A was something to do with consistency and income. And I want to tell you as an entrepreneur, your first goal is not consistency and income. Your first goal is regulating your nervous system around lower months or lower weeks or lower days. Because consistency would actually be upsetting. It would be, it would be not good. Because what happens and what I've really found in this journey is that when there's high days or high months that are not consistent, they show you what's possible. And when we have, if you have like, okay, usually you make 10k a month, but all of a sudden you have this like $25,000 month. You just stretched your belief system that I would rather you have five 10k months and one 25k month than a bunch of 13k months. Because I want you to be able to believe that out of nowhere, for no reason, no good reason, something crazy can happen and your money can like skyrocket out of nowhere for no reason. I want you to feel that, I want you to experience that. Because that's where we start to believe in the miracle fields or in the. This is beyond my wildest dreams, beyond my expectations, not what I thought would happen. We've got to have evidence of that. And in the same token, I know this is not pleasant, but if we don't have low months and we start taking for granted the high months, we become completely detached from reality. And that costs us in every relationship. You can't be really grounded with your friends, your family, even your clients. You can't be grounded with people when in your mind the reality is it's easy. It should be easy for everybody. And anybody who doesn't get it is just silly. It's not, it's not, it's not correct. That's not correct. The field of miracles is the field of miracles. We want to normalize it to some extent, but we don't want to desensitize it. And if you were to only have easy months that never make you, oh gosh, I remember what this feels like. If you didn't have that, you would desensitize the entire experience of being free. So we actually need both. It's way More important that you learn to navigate ebbs and flows and that you navigate those little voids that feel like. Like that. Like you, you becoming good at that is going to make you more successful than you figuring out how to have a very clear, you know, amount of money. What I will say is you can pay yourself a salary from your business that's consistent, but your business income doesn't need to be consistent. And that's the difference. You can have a business that makes a million dollars one month and $380,000 another month, and $2,000,000 another month, and $500,000 another month, but you pay yourself consistently 50k a month, every month, because you've got money in the bank and you're managing your money properly. And that's where your nervous system gets regulated, that your paycheck is regular, but your business has the opportunity for huge spikes that work with trends. The industry, Christmas, you know, you think about hotel industry, they talk about the high season, that, you know, the fashion. They talk about high season. There's always a season for things. It's okay if your business goes through highs and lows, but your income and what you take as a salary could be more consistent. You want, if you want to look at that. So that's very important to look at. Now, the other part of this is the question about what about if it's not meant for me, what if, what if I find out later, like, I wasn't supposed to do this, and I want to give you my real truth about this. I don't know that it's possible. If you work with the right energetics to get to the end of your life and wish you hadn't tried, I don't think that's possible. If, however, you go against yourself, you do things that are not correct for your family, not correct for your marriage, you end up losing yourself in the process, then I think it's possible to regret. But if you say, like, I love this, I love this work, I love this career, I love the idea of becoming financially free. I want to live within the context of this, within my life, and I'm not compromising any of the important things to get there. In what world would you get to the end of your life and say, I really wish I hadn't tried, like, that's just not possible. I don't think so. It really just is. Are you really connected to your way or are you trying to prove it for somebody else? And you lose yourself in, in the process, in which case it's not having tried to build a business that you'll regret. It's having lost yourself for something that wasn't yours to value in the first place. Because if you value this and you dedicate a part of your life to achieving it, how could you possibly regret that? You'll become greater in the process, more skilled in the process, more grateful in the process. You'll have extraordinary highs that take your breath away, and you'll have lows that make you realize how valuable life is. You'll live, you'll be alive, and you'll bring value to the planet. On the, on the way there, it's like, how could you possibly regret that? It's if you do it in your ego for the wrong reasons, that you might turn around and go, gosh, I wasted so much of my life for that. But if you stay conscious and aware, that's not going to happen. There was another question in the Q A thread that had to do with what if, like, I've. I've been so aware, like, I've been trying so much to be present and to really be grateful for things, but they just. I break them, I lose them. I don't know what's wrong with me. Like, people even tell me you don't value things because I break things, I lose things. Like, I don't do it on purpose. And I've tried to be more organized, I've tried to make lists, I've tried to make plans. And I just, I like, is it because. And it's not because I don't value things. So a lot of the times when emotions are high intelligence is low. The guilt that you feel sometimes for not nailing what you want to nail, it creates emotions that make your logical mind difficult to focus. And so a lot of the times, if you have any kind of attention deficit, any kind. When your emotions are at the highest, sometimes it's going to be difficult to just stay focused on what you're doing. What I have found is that connecting, absolute gratitude attached to the value of each thing you're doing one moment at a time, without chaos, without hurrying, without a huge deadline that needs to happen tomorrow or else we failed. We calm the emotions. Most of us are in constant fight or flight state. We're always worried about what, what are we supposed to do? What's going to happen if we don't succeed, if we don't do it, if we don't respond to that friend, if we don't call that person back, if we don't pick up our laundry from the dry cleaning, if we don't leave before traffic hour if we don't start the dinner on time, if we don't go to the store before Labor Day, if we don't, Everything is running out. Time is always running out. And in that when emotions are high, intelligence is low. I'm so stressed, I've forgotten what I was doing. I walk into the kitchen and I'm like, there was a reason I opened this cupboard. Nope, wanted to charge my phone, no idea why I'm here. Like, these things happen to us. So what's important for us on this journey is to recognize if you're feeling really stressed emotionally. That's a currency you need to take care of. Even when we're looking at conversations that occur in the way people often teach self care. I feel like the big point of it is missing where it's like, you've got to have self care because you've got to love yourself. It's like it's even more than that, that if you don't actually know how to navigate the human being that you are, how are you supposed to make it do what you want it to do? Like, there is no other creature on the planet that you would expect you could keep awake, not feed properly, constantly say bad things to, and expect it to be happy and confident. Like, you would never ever expect that from any living thing except for yourself. It doesn't make sense. And so again, it's bringing that logic back, it's bringing that realism back and saying, I have one person to be in charge of. This is the one. Have I taken care of this person today? Like, what does this person need? Underslept, not fed properly, stressed to, constantly being bashed from the inside because I'm the one telling it the worst things. And then I wanted to go perform like some sort of machine. Hello. Like, we've got to have some kind of respect for this, this person that we are. Or else it just doesn't work. And so, you know, people ask me what my morning routines are, how, what should I do now? Like, what, what do you value? What are your morning routines? I value different things every morning, don't you? And I think the beautiful thing about freedom is that you get to value things every morning. You don't say, look, let me just do this one schedule to make sure I get to work on time. You say, what do I value this morning? To be in the right energy by the time I've got to get to where I've got to go. For some of you, having a schedule is what, what you value, and that's perfect for others. What you value is the freedom to make different choices at different times. So I feel like what's very important for you as you go along is that there is no one else that's going to tell you what the recipe is for you to value your own human. Because what you value as a human is entirely different from what everybody else values. If for you, watching the sunrise makes you feel like you've started your morning properly, then wake up. Up and watch the sunrise. If for you, sleeping in and waking up when your body isn't tired anymore is the vibe, do that. If for you, having a coffee machine next to your bed, where you open your eyes, press the machine and the coffee comes out, do that. If you want to long walk across the beach with hot lemon water before you ever have a coffee, do that. If you like to jump on the call, your coaching calls, your business first thing in the morning, because that's when you're the most productive, do that. If you like to step until 4am because that's when all your ideas come up, do that. It doesn't matter as long as you are utilizing your power, your potential, your mind as best as possible, your body, your health, your. Your emotions. And the only person that knows how to do that is you. And it's a trial and error thing, but if you value it, you'll find it. But if you want it to be perfect, you want to nail it, and you need it to happen now. You're going to devalue yourself thinking there's something wrong with you while on the journey to be kinder to yourself. Then we go in circles. We've got to just choose what we want, give it a shot, decide to keep it or not. Choose what we want, give it a shot, decide whether to keep it or not. And you might change what you want. With time. Your body will need different things as it changes, as it ages, as it grows up. You're going to need different things. Honor that. It's fine, it's perfect. You're. You're your one greatest asset in this world. How are you going to value yourself in every single area that matters to you and to not shame yourself? If something doesn't matter right now, it just doesn't go. Do what matters. And then when something else matters, you'll do that. Times change. So that's another very important thing I saw as a trend in the questions. So one more thing I want to share with you because I do think this is a very important piece of the puzzle we talked about the before, the during, and the after. And the big overwhelming thing is the before, everybody's like, okay, I'm realizing my issue is the before. And I knew that that would happen. That's why Impact Academy is coming next. So I want to explain to you what, what really changed for me, because there's a lot of questions about how, how to move forward now. So obviously, if you want to do. If you want to do the next conversation with me, which is all about this, which is how I literally help you feel like you can just take everything we've done in currency and now bring it to the next level with your online business, with your presence. This would be the next program for that. And if you've done Impact Academy before, this will be entirely different than any other Impact Academy. It will be entirely different because I've completely wired it to be the progression of this program. So it, it builds on this. It's not just another run of Impact Academy. Like, I'm. I'm taking you somewhere completely different with this one. So why is this program so important is because we're going to go step by step with every single piece of social media that's required, how to untangle all the value stuff and what to do. You're going to get homework every single day to do every single module. So you're going to take action the way you took action in currency. This is going to be. By the end of this program, you will have a different social media, you will have a different relationship with it, and you will feel different about it. It will look different, it will feel different, the whole thing will be different. But if it's not possible for you to do Impact Academy, I still want to give you something to focus on as you move into that, because the step one is basically marketing and advertising. Like branding, marketing, advertising. And the conversation of value is so important in this discussion. Because when you think about it, what I value, if I value myself and I value my company, then I create a brand that shows that I value myself and I value my company. Where a lot of people fall flat is they create a brand so that you value. I make a brand so you value my company instead of I make a brand to show you how much I value my company. Every single thing I make in Alpha Femme, the graphics, this and that, I don't make those so that you say, oh, wow, Alpha fan must be valuable. I do those because I'm like, I value every transmission, every program, and I want to have something that really represents this this is how much I value my company. My brand represents how much I value my company. Not my brand represents what I want you to value my company to be. And you'll find if you're, if you're branding that way, if you put that in your mind, this is not about just having other people see me. It's about me fully embracing myself. So other people can see one feels very external and trying to get something, the other one is very self. And there's a creation process involved in that. So really helping you figure out what your brand is, it's easier to say what do I value most about my business and what. And how do I want to represent that for me? Because if I do that accurately, other people will see it. When it comes to advertising and marketing, it's very similar. I want people to get what this is that's very different than I'm creating this so that it's very clear, it's a representation of what it is and then people will get it. It's different than I'm doing this so that people get it. That feels, that feels entirely different. Same for marketing. Like, I want people to understand the value of what I'm doing versus what I'm doing is valuable. And when I show it properly, people get that. Can you see the difference? It's like a fine. It's a hair of a difference, but the energetics are entirely different. The. The energetics are just. It's two universes apart because one of them is I do it so that you and the other one is I do it and then you dot that.

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So as you're working on this next phase of your work and you're wanting to bring this value that you have inside out into the world, that's the biggest shift I would focus on. And if you're ready to do Impact Academy with me, what I want to do for you that have done currency is make it $1,888 instead of 3, 3, 3, 3. So I want it to be something that you can really do. I know a lot of you came in to this never having done work with. And if you've done Impact Academy before, I want you to be able to do it again because this is totally different than what you would expect. And for the people that are in the Alpha femme experience, there's going to be a whole experience for you that's, that's special, that's not just in the program. So there's going to be like this invaluable piece for the AFES and the Impact Academy program is going to become accessible to you. It's a lot of private coaching and stuff like that. A segment inside of the Alpha Femme experience. So I want to make sure that this is what I want. This is what I want. I want you to succeed. That's it. So whatever it is that. How many hours I need to think and contemplate? Yes, we will do a payment plan. If you reach out to the Alpha Femme team, they will help you with that. Whatever, whatever I need to contemplate, whatever I need to create, however much personal work I need to do, however many hours I need to invest, however much I've got to figure out, that's what I'm going to do. Because what I want is that you succeed. That's what I want. So my most important thing for you at this point in your life is that you get to a place where, if you're going to be in business, that's. That's what you feel capable of doing for your people, whatever that looks like. Sometimes it's a money thing, sometimes it's a deliverable thing. At the end of the day, what matters the most is that you succeed, because that's what my company is about. So I want, I want you to make moves. I know these are big moves, they're bold moves, they're scary moves. But if you're able to say yes to Impact Academy, you're going to feel one step closer to saying yes to Alpha Femme experience. Because Alpha Femme experience is 1888amonth. And my big dream, my big hope is that you come into the Alpha Femme experience so I can do a year with you. If you can calibrate to one program at 1888 and it works, you're going to do it again and again and again. We're going to. We're going to get you moving. I just want this to. If you could go through the process I've been through, your life's just going to change, but it's got to be soft and it's got to be strong at the same time. Alpha Femme, soft and strong at the same time. You've got to be so brave and you've got to also be so kind to yourself at the same time. All the things, everything at the same time. And this is how we succeed. Because people are either super tough on themselves and they destroy everything on the way to building one thing, or they're super soft and they don't get the thing that they want and everybody else gets what they want. I Want both. I want you to have everything you've ever wanted and the people around you to always have everything they've ever wanted on the journey here. That's the most important thing. Impact Academy for me is one of the most iconic programs. It's one that I. It's actually my first ever program that I created as part of the Alpha Femme brand. I had sold it the first time. It was a year long program. I had so much I wanted to teach, but I, my clients were not advanced enough to continue their payment plan. I think in the whole thing the amount of people who stayed in alignment with their program was like a third of the program made their payments to the finish line and I was like, I'm never doing this again. But the program was so good I decided to revamp it and put it on a different timeline. And then it became one of the most successful programs. Even in my Unity Mastermind, I have clients like, when's Impact Academy coming? That's my favorite. It gets you moving and you get to actually do what you've got to do in this program. So I'd love to see you in there if it's possible. It literally will be the continuation of this. How do we now go from currency and understanding that social media is not your value, Money is not your value, you are valuable, period. And let's make sure we understand the energetics of money before, during and after. So we start on September 14th and this one has 11 modules. I think 10 or 11 modules, but they're, they're not one and one deepening. One on one deepening, one on one deepening. They're done a little bit different. It's very much more about your moving. It's not because we've done a lot of the legwork here in currency. We won't need all the psychological part. You'll be able to come back here if you need a refresh. We'll be able to just go. Which is amazing because in the past rounds of Impact Academy I needed to stop and go in every module to make sure people aren't thinking that. What I'm telling them is if they're not successful with their social media, they're not valuable as a person. And that, that is. It takes a long time to get through the program. But if I've got all of you in that program, it's going to be so easy because I'll just be like, please revisit currency. If you're having any self doubt about your worthiness in these modules, which will be out of this world. Extraordinary. I haven't offered impact Academy at 1988 since 2019. So this is a huge deal. I just really, I really want you to do, I really want you to do this. I think this is going to make a big difference for you, for your business, for your career. And I know a lot of you are like, need to have something on social media for this to work. So I'd love to be able to support you with that. Okay, now we're going to bring in a few people up for some coaching here. There's a couple of questions that I want to. I'm going to see you specifically. Oh my gosh. Like, has the call started? No, Melanie was late. Okay. Okay. Is Jessica Lee here? And it's a one year access to the material. So if you're not there live, you can watch the replays. Jessica Lee in the house. Jessica asked. I have a question about value and receiving from clients. I feel uncomfortable and scared of clients expectation of me that I might not be enough when a client purchases. In the past, people giving to me would have unspoken. Would have had unspoken expectations of me of making me feel like I owe them when I refuse to give them what they ask. I desire to make a difference in people's life through my business, but I can't do that if I can't receive from them. How can I feel at ease receiving from clients? So there's two things I want to say about this. And if, if Jessica is here, I would bring her up, but I don't think she is. So what I want to say about this currency is lifetime access. It's Impact Academy. That's just one year access. So when you're talking about receiving value from clients, when you're talking about having this feeling inside where as soon as you've made an offer and someone has paid you for something, you now have this obligation or you owe them or something like this. This is a very woman thing. It's a very like guilt. I feel like I should give you because I have it. And in the area of money, what we've gotta detach from is understand like money is a currency. If you had potatoes and I had carrots and you wanted carrots and I asked you for potato in exchange, I would not feel bad about that. I would not feel like I need to exchange the potato for the carrot and then also go make your bed every Tuesday to make up for the exchange because you're just so nice to me. Like that's that it wouldn't feel that way, but because money, there's something about money and women still that hasn't been fully untangled. And some men also deal with this, but it is primarily a woman thing. Just because we're so behind in our times of being able to access money in the way that we do now, we're like, behind in the experience of. Feels like if you've given me this and you don't have any, my expectation is you don't have any either. This is. This is. I think one of my biggest breakthroughs with money is like, we think so low of our. Of each other. My. Our expectation is like, women struggle with money. Even though that's not what we want, we think women struggle with money. So I don't want to sell to them because what if they don't have the money? And I don't want to offer them this because what if they don't have the money? What if they give me this money, but then they can't take care of themselves or their family? And what if they say yes to me for this, but then they struggle with this? A lot of the guilt around money comes from the expectation that women aren't capable, which sucks so bad because the biggest. The biggest breakthrough that changed my whole life in business was when I started to see us like the most powerful people. But we see she's going to need me to do everything for her. She's not going to be able to do it. She's not going to take the course. She's not going to work at this. She's not going to do it. She's going to. She's gonna get overwhelmed with family and her partner, and she won't prioritize a business, and that'll be my fault. She won't get the results and she'll be mad with me. She won't like me anymore, she won't love me anymore. She'll want her money back because she doesn't value contracts. She's going to do this, you're going to do that. This is a. This is a woman thing. And on the day that that stops being there, we're going to be in a totally different world. But as long as the expectation of us is that women go back on their words, don't honor business commitments, are scared about money, aren't capable of making things happen, don't finish their work, don't get the results, are kind of manipulative, are going to make you responsible for their everything. We're terrified of each other. When really the key to our ascension is Together. So what I would say the biggest thing here is the unspoken expectation is not even necessarily real, although it could be. The biggest issue is that we expect the expectation. I expect that you expect more of me than what we've agreed upon. And I expect that no matter how much I give you, you'll always be upset. And I expect that whenever I do my best, I'll still fail you somehow, and you'll also fail, and then I'll feel guilty. That's our expectation of women. And I feel like that's one of my biggest missions to change that. What we expect is when she says she's gonna. She's gonna. And not only is she gonna. She's gonna nail it. She's gonna be amazing at it, and she's going to do it, and it's going to be amazing. And then we're going to celebrate that she did it together, and we're going to walk shoulder to shoulder together, and we're going to tell more people that it's possible for us to be free. And we'll be examples together, shoulder to shoulder. And we'll continue to shine light on each other even after our time is done and we walk in different directions or we'll actually walk side by side forever, because there's no competition. And it works that those are the paradigms that I'm most excited about. So I would say that the healing that's required here is all the beliefs about women, and that is in Femme fatale. So if you do Femme fatale with me, we are going to completely rewire the. The understanding of the relationships in our lives with women. And the next round of Femme Fatal. I have something so big planned. My journey this last eight months was a femme fatale journey. The material that comes in the next round of this is. I have no words. I'm honestly just very excited to teach all of these things for you. I feel like people ask, like, why? How did you do this? How did you do this? I dedicated my life to this. How did your clients do this? The ones that succeeded, how do they do it? They valued that. I dedicated my life to this, and they stuck by me and they walked with me until they had a journey of their own that was just as mind blowing. And then they led with theirs. Like, that's. There's no secret sauce. It's just. You just do it. You do it when it's tough. You do. It's hard. You do it when you don't think it's going to work. And then one day it Just all does. And then you're like, holy crap, Melanie layers on me. She told me it would, and then it did, and, like, I can't believe it. Okay, let me see. Okay, There was one question I wanted to ask Sonia. Is Sonia here? I think I saw her. Martinovic. Martinovic. Yes, you are. Okay, let me bring you up. Hello. Let me see. Alpha team as to unmute. You're there now. How are you? I'm good.

A little bit sweaty and hot, but for the rest, I'm fine.

Sounds fabulous.

Yeah.

I wanted to talk to you about the question that you put in the group and about how there's been programs in the past where you. You were one that didn't get the breakthroughs, and it felt bad. And in this one, you had breakthroughs, but you're thinking of the other participants. Is that correct? You're, like, wanting. Exactly. Share your thoughts.

Like, what's the point?

Yeah.

So I. I attended so much events, like Tony Robbins, and I've been in masterminds, and I've been in groups, and sometimes I wanted to break through for myself. Something that I really, really wanted to break through, and I didn't succeed.

Right.

And I saw some other people breaking through, and it was very confro for me to see. So why, if I'm working so hard, if I'm giving it my all, if I use all the modalities, why doesn't it work for me?

So.

And I know how that feels. It's a real struggle if you really want your business or your life to succeed or your relationship.

So.

And since you answered my question last time, I just felt that there might be women here that would love to hear that answer who aren't speaking up, which I didn't do. And since I had this great experience right now, I just wanted to kind of give back and share.

So let me ask you this. Do you think that if you would have. If we were to take away everything you learned with Tony Robbins, everything you took away, you learned from everybody else, do you think that you would have gotten what I said as deeply?

I think what. It was all part of the journey. I think it had to be that way. So I don't think that I would have gotten it deeply because I learned so many things on so many dimensions and learning about myself, too.

So, yeah. So what I want to shine light on and why I love this question so much is that we sometimes think, like, okay, in this moment, I'm not receiving the breakthrough that I want. It must mean that what I'm currently doing isn't working. Instead of, there are things that are milestones and there are things that are just building blocks. Like when you, when you build a house and you're putting down one little brick at a time, you don't have a wall yet. So every time you put a brick down, you could say, I don't know what the point is of putting these bricks down. I don't have a wall. And then all of a sudden you put the last brick down and you have a wall. This program could have just been the last brick.

Yeah, exactly.

This is so important for you with your clients as well as you go through stuff, it's like they might come in and they may have all the breakthroughs in the world in your programs, and that would be an amazing thing. Perfect. But they might also come into your world and just gain a few bricks along the way. But later on, when the breakthrough comes, if you didn't exist, those breakthroughs don't come through, come true. I know for myself during programs with Tony and things like that, they were too advanced sometimes and I was just like, I don't think I'm in the right room. But when I look back in hindsight now, I'm like, I had to be in the room. It was all part of the. Part of the thing. So if you are experiencing what we're talking about here, what Sonia is bringing forward here, I think the biggest distinction is to say there are going to be places that really land for you and they. They supercharge your growth. But even when that does happen, you probably wouldn't get it the way you got it if you hadn't been stretching your mind everywhere else before. There's nothing in personal development that doesn't work. Nothing. If you take radical self responsibility for yourself. Even the worst teacher or trainer or coach that is just not even good at what they do could give you a breakthrough about what not to do. It doesn't matter.

That's true.

Yeah. So I want to really thank you for this question because what I love about and why I wanted to bring you forward about it is this is not your experience, but you're still considering other people. And I find that very valuable. And I want to thank you for bringing that forward for the group.

Thank you so much for having me.

Of course. And so this is a beautiful, beautiful example also for those of you watching, like, if you're in a program where you don't get the breakthroughs but you get it in the next one, you're still going to value Everything you did before. Sonia didn't say no. I just wish I hadn't done anything else and I would have just done this. She said no, I probably wouldn't have gotten the whole thing if I hadn't done the other stuff before. Let that be true for you. Let everything be a building block always. If you see it like that, things pop a lot easier also. Okay, let me see. Okay, the next person is. Is it Najin Chagon? Is she here? The question about doing the homework, realizing that in the before stage, she's not marketing herself, not communicating the value she's bringing to the world and doesn't know how to do it. There have been times where she wanted to go live just to celebrate the launch of her website or communicate her offerings. But she's procrastinating, so basically not doing what she needs to do. Constantly cross checking what she has to say and the fears are coming up and coming up and stopping her. In Module 3, she could see her value until there were people in the room. Then all of a sudden the second guessing happened. Are you here in this moment, Odessa? I value the lousy experiences now as it's all part of my journey. Yes. Okay, so if we don't have you here, the one thing I want to share about this that I think is very important. If your experience of that visualization is you valued yourself until you were in the room, this means that this is your perceived value versus your intrinsic value. These are two very different things. Just because you don't feel valuable to other people does not mean that you're not valuable. And why this is so important is because we are the most easy to manipulate when we need other people to tell us we're valuable. One of the things that's so important for me with Alpha femme is to help women really become free from all the things financially free, but also free from the need to perform for love, validation, attention, being liked, being respected. We're not circus monkeys. I don't care if half the room thinks you're not qualified. I don't care if the whole room thinks you're not qualified. That doesn't change your value as a person. It just doesn't. I can't tell you how many rooms I've walked in where I've been ignored. This is why this work matters so much to me. When I went bankrupt, I remember walking into rooms and feeling like I was a worthless piece of crap. Like I at the bank, they looked at me like I was nothing. Even when I wanted to buy my first house. I had made at this point Some almost $10 million in my career, but because I still wasn't pardoned from my bankruptcy, the woman at the bank said, tear up her application. Tear up her application. Who speaks to people like that? Tear it up. Like, I don't understand how you talk to people like that. I remember going into the inbox of potential coaches and mentors asking for certain support and extended payment plans and just getting the rudest responses back like, obviously this person maybe didn't have a team and felt insulted by my ask, but felt like the worst for asking. Like, I value all of us because I know what it feels like to walk into a room and feel like, oh my gosh, I like I'm completely worthless. I remember going to personal development events and being the least successful person. I'm going to go sleep in my car at the end of this and other people are going to go into their fancy hotel rooms and go for dinner and I'm not going to eat, I'm going to sleep in my car. Like, I remember those days. But I worked on my value as a person and I'm here anyway. So. The biggest thing in all of this, the most important part of this entire journey for you is if your value drops when you walk into the room. It's not your journey, it's not your value that dropped, it's your perceived value that dropped. And it's actually good for you to notice that because if the only value you have is perceived value, you're working on the wrong thing. I want you to feel like the most valuable person when you're in your room by yourself and no one's watching. And I want you to be able to feel that same thing when you walk into any room. Because it's not about how they perceive you, it's about what it really is. What I would love for you to imagine is that they don't know, right? They don't know this, but you're a diamond, like an internally flawless diamond that you are worth the entire universe. Perceived value versus intrinsic value, your actual value versus what it looks like. One of my most mind boggling things that happened to me, I got invited to the Tiffany's opening. They opened their brand new store and they had this master jeweler there showing us all these diamonds. And they asked me, would you like to see a raw diamond, like a diamond that's just not polished? I was like, sure. Do you have an expectation in your mind if I say a raw diamond, not polished, what that might look like? Okay, I'LL post in the group what this looked like. When I held it in my hand, I was like, I would not even pick this up if it was on the ground, I would not know too. I would think it's a pretty stone. This is the difference between perceived value and value. The value of that unpolished diamond is priceless, but the perceived value is nothing. Sometimes that's us. We're a diamond in the rough. It does not look like we are as valuable as we are, but that doesn't mean anything. And here's how I'm really starting to see it. For people who need the perceived value to be high in order to see value, they're not a connoisseur, they're not a. They're not a person who knows. They're not. They're not really educated on what value truly is. If they need it to be. If they need the price of the wine to be on the bottle to know that it's a good wine, if they need the diamond to be polished in a casing in order to know that it's valuable, if they need someone to tell them it's the most expensive car ever made, then they don't know the industry. They don't know they're not educated on the topic. So if someone needs me to be dressed a certain way, polished a certain way, doing a certain way in a certain setup to see my value, they're not educated on who I am. And a person being uneducated on who I am cannot have anything to do with my actual value. Or else I'll spend the entire of my. My entire life feeling like I need to educate the world before I'm allowed to step into my worth. And that would be a very long journey. You decide. First, you know you're a rough diamond, unpolished. And that you're going to eventually be mounted on the most beautiful piece of jewelry. And then everyone will want it. But you'll remember who knew and who let you be when you were diamond in the rough. That's the most important thing. And if you know that you only gave yourself a shot once you were polished, you'll have a weird relationship with yourself. Don't be one of those people who's uneducated about you. Be clear on how amazing you are, how valuable you are always. It's okay that they don't see it, but it's not okay that you don't see it. If you don't know that underneath all of that, you've got something no one can understand. That's where everything starts.

Oh, there's another one that was important.

I wanted to bring up. Okay. Alan. Alan G D who said, I've just finished module four. There's so much value. I posted a few days ago. It was about kids. My excuses. I have two small children. I can't work evenings and weekends. The difficulty seems to me be making our dreams and the life we imagine for ourselves compatible with the constraints of everyday life. Is there. Is Alin here that I could bring up? I just want to have this conversation about constraints because I think that is very important when it comes to entrepreneurship. Is Alin in the house? And if she isn't, is there someone that says, oh my gosh, Melanie, I have that exact issue. So I can see. And Safi nodding her head. So I'm going to bring an Sophie up.

Hello. How are you?

I'm super fine. What about you? I am so good. I'm so happy to see you.

I'm happy to see you.

So tell me how this pertains to you. Tell me how this happens for you. So I have a little baby which is two years old and I have the feeling he's just taking all the space and that for me to make what I love in terms of work, I should have a second life and a second house, basically. Okay, that makes sense. So what is your work? What are the things that take up the most of your time? So I help children to feel efficient at school. It's what I do and I think it's the things which nourish me the most. It's to see them smiling when they understand what they have to do and.

How to achieve it.

So I'm basically skyping with children. Okay, and how old are they usually, these children that you're helping? It can be in between three years old and university children if they are very little, we work with the parents or the nannies, and if they are bigger, I Skype with them. Okay, perfect. And so what are the hours that you usually need to be doing this? Now? I do it 12 hours per week and that's enough to feed my family. But I want to do it way more. Do you know that if you. Or have you ever tried doing it with two students at a time or three students at a time? No, because it's children, they have difficulties. So you really have to focus on them individually. And it's what make my magic. I think I'm open to see something else, but I think it's what make my magic is really to be able to really deeply focus on each child. So there's two things that come to mind for me when we're doing one on one work. What becomes difficult is that all our attention is in the one on the one person that we're helping in the moment. And so if you've got a small child that needs your attention and then you've got clients that need your attention. Everybody needs this one on one attention. You can't be doing something else at the same time. You need to be hyper focused. So the one on one is actually the toughest thing to, to scale because one to one can't be scaled. It has to be one to many. Now I understand that it's one person at a time and there has to be one on one, but there's a few ways that this can happen. So when I was 12 years old, I started my first business. And what my business was is I helped kids after school finish their homework and start to learn English. And at first I only did it on Tuesday I worked with one, and on Wednesday I worked with one, and on Thursday I worked with one. I had three days and I had three different kids. Then I realized that if I put the three kids together every night, it did work. Then I realized if I brought a friend with me, we could help six kids. Then eventually I had even more people helping me and we were able to help a lot of kids. What I found is that there are some people who have similar needs and similar issues, which would be that you can do something with someone that says, okay, we're going to do three sessions individually and then we're going to do three sessions in a pair and then we're going to do three sessions in a group of three, for example. And so you want, you don't just say, okay, we're putting everybody together and we're figuring it out. But as soon as you start to try to find trends, these three people have very similar things. Then you can have them answer, they have a group experience. They also have one on one moments where they mute themselves and you give them a task to do. And then there's moments where they share and there's group high fives and there's group moments, there's personalized attention. But if you can scale two or three people at a time, you actually will have something magical happen. Beyond that, when you start to see patterns on a bigger scale, and this is where life really starts to be extraordinary, you'll be surprised. You could create a platform where every single call it's hosted in a Very private thing. But every person who has a child under the age of three has access to this bank of very specific coursework that you did one on one with another kid, and they get to watch it as if it's them. And anybody with a child that's this way and that way, you can create a bank of information where you say, if your child is this way or that way, this could be very valuable for you to listen to with your child. And they can watch replays on their own time. Because it can also be very valuable for parents with their own. With their kids or nannies or their kids to not have to have this exactly planned at a certain time. If they can. If one of the kids has a cold, they don't go to school one day, and they can watch this on the day that they're not there. That could be super helpful for them. So there are ways to scale it, but we've got to do first is find the patterns. So if we're first of all just trying to do it for us, like, how do I make more? Is by putting more people in a room. That will never feel like a good idea. But if we see that, it's for me, for you, for us. I do one session with you, and then I find another kid that I'm like, you two would do great together. And I pair you. And then I find another, and I say, I'm gonna pair you. You're gonna have the time of your life. They will make friends. They won't feel alone. It won't feel like they're. They'll feel special, but not isolated. And I think you might actually create a body of work that you'll be very proud of. In six years from now. You could have hours and hours and hours and hours of personalized training for people of all age groups to find extracurricular work. And without you ever needing to turn on your computer. Thank you so much. It just makes sense. Good. I'm so happy. Thank you for coming on. Thank you. My pleasure. So why this is so important and why it's good to have these discussions is like, when we care deeply about something and when we value something, it'll sometimes give us this. Like, I can't do this because I value this. Like, I can't scale because I value personalization. But you personalizing the group experience is still personalization. If I said to you I have an off, I. What I do is I really study you guys and what you're doing. And when I find three of you that I feel would do so well in a group. I offer you a group experience for the three of you, but I've studied all three of you and I know I'm going to be able to help you better. The three of you together, that would feel very valuable. But if I'm just like, okay, it's a group of three, you don't know who you end up with. You might need to think about that. But if it's actually done with care and I value who the people are going to be in your small group, that is very valuable. So it's just noticing, what do I value? And how else can I showcase that value while still being in alignment with this other thing that I value? So you're also going to look at, for those of you where it's not that simple. If it's something like, you know, at night and on the weekends, I can't, I can't do it. And it's during the day. What is your story about the daytime? Because what I've also often found is people will say things like, everybody's at work during the day, but they're not. They get two days off a weekend. It's an honor and a privilege to be off on a weekend. Most people are off two days a week during the week. Think. We're not thinking open, we're not thinking big. The other thing is you want to have a global business. Time zones don't matter anymore. I have people showing up here at 4 o' clock in the morning to do their stuff. They're showing up. I could do something at noon and it's 6pm for someone else. There is no universal time zone when you're speaking global. People who want to touch people all over the world, they've got to get out of the time constraint, the time construction. That's why replays are so valuable. It's awesome to be in the live energy. But if you need to catch a replay, catch the replay. It's not a problem at all. Look. Jakarta, 11pm, 113 in the morning. People are showing up when they've got to show up to do what they've got to do. This is us again going, women aren't capable. Women aren't no matter what, women won't do it. Women won't this, women will that. They will. They will. They'll do what matters to them. They'll do what they value. We do what we value. They do what they value. People and their power hour. We've got to trust each other more. So you can't work Nights and weekends. Perfect. You do it during the week. Who's gonna buy this? People Work? No, they mostly take their days off during the week. Oh, yeah, that's true. Well, what time should I do it? Well, depends which time zone you're selling to. I want a global brand. Then stop with the excuses and just do what you got to do. Because people do what they've got to do. Especially your kind of people, the ones you're going to help. They do what they've got to do. That's the most important thing to remember in all this. Okay, Is Sharon Abramov in the house? Sharon Abramov Here? Let me see. Don't think she is. You know what, April, you were on every live. I've seen your face so many times. Let me just see. There was actually a question from yours that I felt I would love for you to come up. April, are you willing to come up with me? Hello? Hello? Can you hear me? Yes. And I saw you raise your hand also in this last question, so I'd love to support you. Would you like a similar question, or is there something else coming to mind for you? Only about 10, but I mean, I can narrow it down for sure. Go for it. So the question about having kids and really valuing my energy and my time as a mom and really cultivating my energy. Correct. Feels like a prison for me for some reason. It's like I really get exhausted and overwhelmed. I feel like easily. And then I have a kid that is bouncing off walls and is, like, always active. And so I feel like when I'm not with her, I need downtime. Yet I also desire to work on my business and to really develop skills and to really grow. And then it. It just feels like this. I completely understand. So when's the last time in your life that you didn't feel like that? Can you remember? Probably before she was born. Really? Like, for any consistent period of time. But can you remember when? Because probably before she was born is not a memory. So you could remember. When did you feel this the last time? No, I can't remember. Okay, so this is a very important, like, kick in the butt piece of knowledge. I'm going to mute you just so there's no background noise. And then I'll unmute you again after. Okay. So we put our past and our future on pedestals. We tell ourselves it was easier before, and we tell ourselves it'll be easier after. And the fact is, it isn't. Whatever we're going through right now is difficult, but what we're going through back then was difficult too. And what we'll be going through in the future is going to be difficult. I actually don't know many people on this plan, on this planet that just say my life. I actually don't know anybody on this planet that just says in private. And I will be very clear about that because no matter what people say in public, they don't always say the same thing in private. There's one thing about being a marketer and there's other thing about being a human. And I, I know that the question is often, why aren't people just honest? I can't answer that question. But I can definitely tell you that the way a lot of people perceive are perceived online and how they struggle in the back is not always the same. I don't know anybody who can say to me, you know what? Life is just so easy. I get everything done without ever being behind on anything. And it just all happens, you know, I never feel guilt or shame. Everything works for me always. It's never hard, it's never tough. It never has been. It's just, you know, it's just great. Like I don't know that this exists. But what I do know is people saying, I'm so grateful for this one little moment of bliss. I, I sat down this morning, I had like 15 minutes of silence and I just basked in it and it just was the greatest feeling. I sat on my front porch and I got sun on my face for like half an hour and I relaxed and then I went and I did everything I needed to do. You know, today was really hectic, but I time to do this for myself and I'm really proud. What really makes the difference is people who are able to take small pockets of time and turn those into moments of gratitude in a day. The pedestal thing is like, I should be able to have hours to work on my business or hours to do this or that I should be able to do. You know, I don't care if you listen to me while you're doing the laundry, if that's what you need to do. I don't care if you listen to me while you're driving somewhere, if that's what you need to do. This is your mind, your body can be doing all kinds of other things.

Things.

You want to listen to me while you go for a walk. You want to listen to me while you go and, and go to the supermarket. You want to listen to me while you do other things. You get to do that. But what's what's so important is that these little pockets of perfection, you actually experience them that way. And what most people will do is they will see them as fleeting time. Oh, I only have 15 minutes. Ah, I only have this. But those minutes, those minutes, they only grow bigger if you value them for all that they are. So what I hear from you is that you are excited about building a business. You want to learn skills, and you've got kids, a child that you love. But when you put everything together, it feels like constriction. You don't know how to do it all at the same time. The goal here is to give yourself space for shorter periods of time and to really notice the space. Noticing the space between things is one of the most valuable things you can do in your life, because you fill the space no matter what. You were so busy before your child came, and you're just so busy now. And if you were to have another child, you would just figure out how to add a whole other baby in there. And if you had another child, you'd also figure that out. And if you had another one, you'd also figure that out. Like, that's the crazy thing about life, is that we stretch our capacity, but not if we're constantly feeling like time is fleeting. We've got to feel like time is little. These little pockets of, like, perfection in our lives, we've got to feel them, honor them, and choose what we want to do with them. So one day it might be in this little tiny pocket of, like, space. What I want to do is nothing. And I feel so grateful that I did nothing on a Monday. And then on Tuesday, when that little pocket of perfection comes up, I want to study for myself. And I don't want to be doing it while I'm doing something else. I want to sit down and I want to do a visualization or meditation, and then there's 15 minutes here. And so what I want to really do with this space is I want to spend time with my kids, not trying to do anything else, where they don't feel like a nuisance at all. This is the only thing I want to do. And let me practice these moments. When you do that, you'll realize a lot of the time that we spend is numb time. You'll notice how much time you spend watching mindless television or scrolling through your phone could add up to another 15 minutes here and there, could add up to another few little pockets here and there. And then eventually you get to put them together and you get half an hour and then you tidy up more space because you value your time. And then all of a sudden, all of a sudden, you get an hour. And this is how it happens. People finding tiny little pockets, learning to value time one pocket at a time, and then it stacks on itself. But if you look at your life as a whole and you see chaos, you are just normal. There's nothing wrong with that. It will make you extraordinary to look at a very normal, chaotic life and find pockets of space where people would just see no time. So I'll unmute, you. Tell me what your thoughts are. It's so. I mean, it's so good. It definitely resonates deeply. And I do have a spiritual practice, and I think I probably do it more than I give myself credit for doing it. It's like I see where I'm already doing it. I think I was just feeling like it isn't enough. I believe you, that that's what you've been feeling, which is so different than it isn't enough. Now we're back to perceived value versus value. The value of 15 minutes versus the perceived value of 15 minutes. When it starts to be enough, when you value the currency, it changes. Everything changes. So this was a little hidden one. I'm so glad we were able to talk about it. Thank you very much. I appreciate you. It's my pleasure. Thank you for your question. So one thing I also want to bring back to the group around this, because I do think it's so important, is when we think something is not enough, it's usually because we imagine someone else has it different, better, or more. And so when we're looking at social media, and I do think this is a big culprit of our expectation of people's lives. A person that takes a picture. Like, if I show you a day in my life, every second of a day in my life, it looks a certain way when you just look at it. Like, oh, right now I'm sitting at this coffee shop, and right now I'm sitting at this jewelry store, and right now I'm in my car, and right now I'm taking a moment by the river. Those look so it makes sense. Do you know how hard it is to fit that many things in one day? Because that's not calculating how long it took to drive there, park the car, get out, go sit, say hi for a minute. See the jewelry, find the jewelry, buy the jewelry, leave. They package it up, you leave. Okay, you're in the car, you're back in the car. You get to the Restaurant. Park the car, go in, go up. They say, hi, the restaurant. Would you like a table? Yes. Table isn't ready. Please wait 10 minutes. Wait for 10 minutes. Get the table, sit down. Waiter takes forever. Waiter comes with water when you're ready to order. Are you ready to order? Yes, we are. Perfect. I'll bring you water. I'll be right back. We already have water. They leave, they come back. Are you ready to order? Yes. We've already told you. Ready to order. Oh, sorry. Yes, of course. What would you like to order then? They leave, they come back. Sorry, I forgot your order. Did you say you wanted with or without? With. Oh, yes. Sorry about that. Okay. Did somebody come and ask you about a beverage? Not yet. Okay, what would you like? We would like this. Okay, perfect. They come back, the food comes, no beverage. Would you like. Okay, now we have everything. Yay. Celebration. One picture of the food. You saw me at the jewelry store. Now me at the restaurant. You didn't see the whole life in the middle, what it looks like to you as I'm moseying on down live. I teleport myself from jewelry store to food in front of me at the finest restaurants. Like some sort of. There is a. There is a middle. But you think it's going to be. Unless I had a whole reality show, I'm not going to show you. Here's Kevin and I searching for parking. Like, what filter should I put on this? How interesting. Like, this is not important, but it's true. And what blows my mind the most is that people forget that this stuff exists. This part. How can you not think? Take. How can you forget that a person that went from one place to another place had to change places? And then it's your life, and you're mad that the parking lot wasn't available or it took longer, there's traffic because everybody else's lives look simple. Look. This person, she tagged herself there and there. Within an hour, she's already left that other place. She's crying in the next parking lot because she can't find parking. She's just not taking a selfie of that moment. Give yourself a freaking break. Social media is about pockets of time that are working for you, capturing those in gratitude, showing moments that work. You've got to acknowledge that for other people, but you cannot imagine that's their entire life. That's their efficiency at capturing the moments that work. This is meant to inspire us. It's not meant to measure our day again against what they're doing. Because there's a reality behind it all, this isn't reality tv, it's social media. When your friend messages you and says, hey, so how was your day? You say, it was really great. We went shopping, we went for lunch. It was great. That's what you do on social media. You say, it was great. We went shopping, we went for lunch. It was great. You don't tell your friend, well, I woke up this morning and then I did my makeup and then I did my hair, and then my clothes were not quite dry, so I put them back in the dryer. And then after that I went and my car was too hot, so I turned on the air conditioning and went back inside for a little bit because, you know, summertime. And then I waited for a while and then eventually the car was cool enough so I went into the car and then I realized there was dead bugs on my windshield, so I decided to stop and clean the dead bugs off my windshield. And then we went for a Starbucks, but there was like 20 people in the lineup, so we decided not to go. So we got back in the car, got back on the highway and started. That's not how you call your friends. It's all how your day was. You say, we went shopping, we went for lunch. You tell social media, I went shopping, I went for lunch. This is not reality television. At reality television, they don't care about lunch. All they care about is that you can't find a parking lot and you're losing your crap in the parking station, getting all mad. All they care about is the scene where you're flipping the bird to the person next to you on the highway that just cut you off. All they care about is the in between stuff. But that's reality tv. You got to choose what you're watching. Reality TV or social media highlights or low lights. And then you've got to find reality in all of that and say, what's my life? Because I'm not showcasing everything that's ridiculous and I'm not showcasing everything. Or I. I'm not choking everything that's ridiculous. I am showcasing a lot of the things that are great. Although I could do a better job at that too. And then there's my entire life that connects all of it. I'm valuable, they're valuable. None of this means anything except for our ability to showcase perceived value. Everyone is showcasing perceived value. We've got to know the difference. Your life busy with a job that you care about or a career that you care about, with little kids that just want your attention and are bouncing off the walls and a partner that wants more time with you. This is the greatest life. Don't discredit that because it doesn't fit perfectly into your grid. This is the greatest life. You've got a profession you care about and people who care about it. You've got people who love you and want more time with you. You're just trying to figure out how to do it all. What an incredible problem to have. You're in a great place. Breathe. I think Sharon came back on. So, Sharon, I think you may have been watching us on Facebook. If Sharon is here, let's bring her on. You guys.

Sharon, Hello. Hello. I'm good. I'm the multitasking mama that's coming to you on Zoom. Finally. I'm usually on Facebook, but I'm happy to be here live with you.

I figured that's what happened when I saw you pop on directly after we.

Yes. I just got. Yeah.

Okay. So there's a couple of things I wanted to bring with my daughter in a hair plane, like. Okay. Okay. So one of the things in your share, you said one of the things I need to work on is my messaging, and my potential to reach out to more people is not good enough at all. So when you say not good enough at all, what does that mean?

So, I mean, I do an amazing job with stories. I'm very just real with my life, and I share, like, also where I am and what I do and always say. Even if there's 30 stories up a day, that could just mean 30 seconds of your entire 24 hours. So people think I have, like, the best perfect fun, this bad life. I do share some, like, none of the fun stuff a little bit, but I do so many great things in a day, and people really get to see that. So I just wanted to touch, like, touch on what you were saying. Thank you.

Oh, where did you go, my lovely? She gone. Okay. She's gonna come back, I trust. And we finished the song. That's amazing. Okay. She will come. There was one very important. I love that song too. Where. There was another one that was very important I wanted to do. Ash is back. Hello.

Sorry, sorry, sorry.

That's okay. I got to do a thing. It was perfect.

Okay. So I think that the thing is that people like to work with me for my energy. They see I have four daughters. They see the work that I do with my clients. They see the lifestyle that they're in inspired by. So they love the energy and they want to work with me. Ask me, how do you do this. How do you do that? And so I have coaching clients from kids like 8, 7, 8 years old up until, you know, a lot of teens, and then women, all sorts of, you know, ages, and people from all different places in the world. But I know I can do much, much more. And so, yes, there's the word of mouth and people that, you know, recommend me, and then there's people that, you know from Instagram, from stories that I post, or Facebook. Facebook. But it's not enough. And I feel like the reason is because my messaging of what, what I offer or the, you know, I think I need more clarity and exactly like, you know, what, what I can offer, how I can help people. Not. It's not clear enough. And I feel like I'll connect to more people when that message is clear. And I've had a problem because I feel like I'm so good at so many different things. And obviously you've done such a tremendous job with being able to touch on so many different aspects of life. And I, and I just feel like I don't know how to, how to do that. I think I just do need to do it better. So my messaging, I just feel like there needs to be a bit more clarity in that.

So why I think this is important is because your messaging doesn't matter as much as your, the value that you see that you bring to people. And why I wanted to bring you forward is because I don't know if everyone else can key off on this, but, like, it doesn't feel like you actually know how beneficial you are to your clients, even though you are, you don't feel it clearly, like you can't say, this is what I do, this is what I did, this is who I am. It's hard to do that. And so the, the thing that's missing is not your messaging. It's the fact that you don't actually know. And so what might be super beneficial for you is, is to have conversations with some of the clients that you've had and ask them, like, can you tell me about your journey with me and what has happened since and why this has been so valuable for you and for you to really sit with these testimonials and make sense of them for yourself. Because I don't think the messaging is the problem. The messaging is the bridge between what you know and them finding out. But if you don't know, how can you create good messaging?

So I, the reaction I get and the feedback from parents after just one session a week, two weeks, three Weeks, like, wow, you know, the feedback is phenomenal. The, the teenagers also like a week later, like I feel like I'm. I'm a different person. My mindset is so different. I'm much happier, I'm less depressed, I'm more motivated. All these things so that I really feel like I know the value. I feel like I, I really feel like I know the value and I know the impact I can have on the people. But how much can I share that? Or. Or I don't want to. You know, I mean, maybe, maybe I kind of just like a little bit not shy because I'm not shy, but like to show it more maybe. I mean, or maybe to ask people to share more or you know, to write testimonials that I should share because I do know. I feel like I do know my value and I feel like, like, you know, it should, it should come out more somehow. Like it should show more. But again, it's not like you always say, it's not what you do, it's who you are. But I picked up on something.

I've just picked up on something actually that I think might be very valuable. A question for you. So when you think about the people that you've helped the most, do you find that a lot of the things you've helped them with are very private and personal? Yes.

And then the people that I, the women like, I have a few coaching clients right now that I'm helping them to with their business and it's really exciting and fun and I'm seeing the results. And that is thing. Those are things I share more in my stories. But a lot of the kids and teens and women that I work with, with personal things is very private, obviously not. So there's a lot more energy and excitement and sharing kind of stuff. And then my energy comes through more. I think when it does come to more of the business coaching or you know, helping them find their purpose and their passion and being able to share that. Yes.

So here's what I'm seeing. One of the reasons a few years back I, one of the reasons I shared a lot of my, my clients financial wins is because it was the thing that felt the most allowed to share because they shared those things publicly. Like, I can have a breakthrough with you around your sex life. I can have a breakthrough with you around how difficult things are with one of your kids or your ex husband or some traumatic thing that happened in your, in your life. But you're probably not gonna run on social media and say, oh my Gosh, I just broke through years of trauma and I feel like I can have sex with my husband this afternoon. Like that's just not, it's not going to be your social media platform post, but you might. Holy crap. I just had my first 10k month. And so what ended up happening was I was promoting and celebrating a lot more financial results because that's what people felt the most excited to share. Where the other things were more private, what I would say and what I realized and what I would do. Now in hindsight, first of all is definitely asking anyone who has non financial goals, please always share them with the Alpha femme team if you're willing for us to share. Because I want to be sharing more non financial goals. I just can't without your consent. And I can, it's just not possible. But the other thing you can do is tell stories in the third person with characters, especially since you're coaching kids. So you're going to say these, these stories are based on real people. But I'm changing, I'm changing the names and depending on the age group, you know, this is a little bear or you know, if it's a, it's a older person, it's just a story and the names are different and what I want to show you is like what's possible for a person, what they're going through, what they come to me with and what they leave with, with. But they're real stories. But we're changing the names to protect the teenagers and the kids that work with me. That thing could work really well because I think what's, what's blocking you is their privacy, their intimacy. This is stuff about depression or you know, like it's private. But if their names are protected, I think that really works.

Right. And I, and I feel like the times that I do share things that are allowed like at one time shared and I obviously that the mom said it was okay that I wouldn't put the kid's name but like letter from a teacher that came in about, about their child or you know, a text from the daughter to the mother. I had to share that because I was like, wow, look at the result. And like this excites me so much to see the, the transformations. And so yeah, right. When I share those kind of things, people re definitely reach out more. So I guess that's kind of more where I have to, you know, bring the stories out and, and, and maybe just, you know, put it like nobody really has to know who it is or what it is. But true that's true.

And even doing a lot, people know.

That there's hope and, and there's positive stories and good transformations.

And yes, like, let's say you go on your social media and you say, like, I, the work that I do, I find extremely valuable because I, I help young people really bring breakthrough from emotional distress. I do identity work with them, and I really help them work on their emotions and their mindset. And I want to give you examples of some of the work that occurs because sometimes we don't even know our kids are struggling. There's so much on our plates we don't realize. I want to give you some things that show certain signs. This is how this one parent found out there was something with her kid. This is what you know, this is what a teacher found out. So you can kind of ask the teacher the next parent teacher meeting, you know, let me tell you the story. This is where we started. And then now, this is the letter I just received from the parents. Just received from one of the teachers. Let me read this to you. It's more like you sharing it than like, here's a testimonial. Here's a testimonial. Here's a story. And I think that if you do it that way, it'll be softer. Parents will also feel more ease about their kids and about listening about other kids. And I think you'll, you'll remove that barrier of not, of not getting your messaging right, because it won't be about, let's celebrate this testimonial. It'll be like, let me tell you a story. And it'll land where it needs to and it'll be shared where it needs to. And I think that's going be to, to be far more valuable for them.

True. And it, this conversation motivates me to go ahead and do that. There's so much I can share, so much that I wanted to, and I just kind of felt like, how do I. But this is the way and, you know, hopefully will allow me to just open up more about certain things. But I think obviously when you see the results, you're. You attract a lot of people. You're like, wow, you know, it's an inspiring story. There's actually results and that's why people want to work with you also. Mainly they see those results.

It's important to show the stories are the thing. The stories people feel themselves in stories or they feel the people they love through stories. So I really suggest that, I think that will be very powerful for you and for your Clients.

Thank you so much.

I love you.

So good to see you. Good to see you. We have a long history together.

I know.

Amazing. Okay, enjoy the rest. I'm loving every second of this program. Thank you. Bye.

Have a good day with your daughter.

Thank you. Thank you. Bye, everyone.

Okay. And then there was this other one that I wanted to showcase. Okay, is Dana Jacob here by any chance? Dana says by contemplating the last module, I realized I value me and my services that I provide as a coach a lot. The only gap is in valuing my audience and clients, which is a huge breakthrough. I didn't notice it before. I wish to know, in your experience, is the past of being disappointed of clients or in the past of being disappointed of clients, what helped you get back to increase and see their value when you market, sell, and deliver your messages? So I think she's right here. Dana, whenever you're ready. Hello. So when you're asking, you know the value of your clients when you've been disappointed by them, is the question, how do you perceive the value of the very people who disappointed you? Or is the question, how do you perceive the value of any other human after that because you've been hurt? Well, it's.

It's more about how. How I perceive their value when I'm marketing, when I'm selling, after they start. Start working with me, then, like, I.

See them much more valuable.

It's more about. Okay, so the way I see it is that I have all these stories about the. The clients before they become clients. So will understand, will they be able to purchase this course program, whatever, will they make the time for it and the effort and all of that. So when I see all these stories and I know how much my programs are valuable, I am valuable. Then with contemplating everything in the last few modules, I realized that it's me not valuing them as much as I would like to.

I see. So first thing we talked about today is the value that we experience people to have before working with us a lot of times is based on this, this woman problem of we don't believe people can do things. It's a very like, mothering energy. Don't touch that. It's too hot. I'm going to do this for you. Do you want me to help you? Don't do that. Don't do it. You know, and then we perceive that people can't do things. And so there's a lot of healing that needs to happen there. Sometimes it's also angled towards trying to avoid disappointment. If I believe that all of you are just. Just silly and that you don't do what you need to do when you don't do it. I don't feel disappointed. Right. The hardest thing is if I know my value, I know what I bring. I know it beyond a shadow of a doubt what I bring. I know what I can help you do. And I believe in you because I know I was exactly where you were. All you need to do is say yes and come do the thing with me. And you're not doing it. How can I have no feelings about that when I care about what I want to do? Like I've either got to say I'm not good enough, or I've got to say you're good and not good enough enough. Or I've got to say my service isn't good enough. Like, what is the reason that you would not choose to do with me? The thing I know is the right thing and you know is the right thing. Like, why wouldn't you do it? But life is not that simple. It's not that simple because there's a difference between what you value and the courage to see it through. You can value things and still not do the right thing about them. You know, you can Val. You can have. I've seen husbands love their wives so much, and yet they're not willing to do the personal development work. Work they're not willing to. To, you know, change their habits. They're not willing to. To do what it takes to have a different life and the marriage breaks. But it's not because they didn't value their. Their wife. It was because they just didn't. They can't do the thing. They just don't. They can't do it. They don't know how, but they do value it. But they're lacking the courage. And this is why this work does become so difficult, is that all of us are pure potentiality. Like, I look at you, I see pure potentiality. I look at me, I see pure potentiality. Who you were before this work, during this work, work. After this work, they will be three different people. And every round of that, you'll be different people. Every time you would. Do you find something else you want to learn before, during, after. You're changing. If I believe in you and your power, and I believe in me and my power, and still we don't end up working together, I've got to question something in order to make sense of it all, or I just let it go and I keep moving. And this is where it's like when people say you've got to just keep your eye on what you're doing and you can't get. Get distracted. The only way I got here. How many people said no to me on this journey? Like, no matter what I do, I can deliver the greatest currency program in the history of humanity. I can cut the price of Impact Academy to the price it was when I first launched it. And still there will be a fraction of the people in this group that do it. And that's not because I'm not good enough. I'm. I'm the one. Like, I will help everybody that moves with me. And it's not because you're not capable, because if you did it, you'd get something. It's because it's scary and it's terrifying. But who's not valuable enough? Me or you? Nobody. And that's why it's so difficult when it's this question of, like, do you devalue people who say.

No idea. Ah, okay.

Relax.

No sound. We can't hear you.

Does this work better? Yeah, I think I may have lost power or something because everything that has a battery is still working. Everything that was plugged in is not. So I think we're okay. So, okay, what was I saying? What were we saying in this moment? If I know that I'm valuable, and I have no doubt about that, and I know that you're valuable, and I have no doubt about that, the only thing I can do is just keep moving because there will be a day, maybe, that you feel courageous and you'll circle back and I'm becoming more valuable as I go. But I can't make it that I'm not good enough, because I'm on a journey of evolution and growth over a lifetime. I'm constantly getting better, and I can't make it that you're not good enough, because then I cut you off at the legs energetically, and I want you to be better as you go. So the only thing to do is to keep going. And this is why not a lot of people end up succeeding is because they're not willing to keep going when things aren't working. They're not willing to keep going when the evidence is that it's not working. They want someone else to be wrong or them to be wrong, and they'll stop and focus on that and think about that for so long instead of continuing going and finding the people who are willing.

Yeah, I. I get that. But then I have another question. If it's okay. So how do you Keep going. Believing in people when you're disappointed.

So have you ever in your life tried something and failed?

Of course.

Have you ever tried something and failed multiple times?

Yeah.

Have you ever tried something and failed multiple times and eventually succeeded at it?

Of course.

So how would it have served me to stop trusting in you every time you failed? I would have. I would have been allowed to do that because the evidence would have shown me you're not doing it. But then there's a day you did do it it. So I only have two choices. I decide you're gonna do it one day, and that's it. And everything you do between now and the day that you do it is none of my business because I know you could do it. Now. This is the thing. Every person who does work with me, and I'm sure you, you must have heard things that are similar in your life. People say, I just wish I would have done this sooner. I wish I would have had the courage to do this sooner. If only I would have known back then what you've just taught me now. If only I would have known then what I know now. I'd be in such way a different, different place. I wish I would have done this sooner. Once people get it, they get it. But while they're in their process, this is not their value as a person. That's not correct. It's their own perceived value of their own value. And you can't. You can just let it go. Most people on the planet will never do what they want to do. 1% of the population, then 11% of the population, then everyone's basically in the same bucket. It people don't do what they want. They spend their entire life with excuses about what they want to do, about why it's complicated, why it's hard, why it's tough, why it's scary, why they can't, why they'll do it tomorrow, next week, next Monday, the weekend after, they don't do it. So when a person says, I wish I could, but I can't, instead of being disappointed, it's just got to be like, that's normal. The thing is, we want to be extraordinary, but we want to. We act normally. What is normal is to not do the scary thing. What's normal is to not invest in the thing. What's normal is to not do the thing that's normal. Nobody does this. It. It's perfect. It's when we want to be extraordinary, but we want to do normal things, that everything gets all tangled. So I understand the feeling of like, disappointment. Of like a feeling, like, gosh, but that's different than not valuing a person. I can be so disappointed when a person doesn't say yes to themselves. When I know I could help them and I know it would be the next step for them. I can be so disappointed. Disappointed that I maybe didn't do a good enough job, disappointed that I didn't get the message across, disappointed that I didn't get them to a place where they felt strong enough, where they could do it. I could feel disappointed. But I'm not going to feel like I'm not valuable, the course wasn't valuable, or they're not valuable. And it is a very fine line. One of them feels like there's still room for stuff later. The other one feels like they're nothing. You know what I mean?

Yeah.

Yeah.

And now I can see it, that not giving up on them is valuing them no matter what their choice is right now. And, yeah, that was good. Thank you so much.

My pleasure. And you know, a big thing for this program, and this is going to be the last thing of today before I give you your homework, but the big thing with this program is it's so easy in life to just cut people out when they don't do what we think they should be doing. But then when we get cut out for not doing what someone else thinks we should do, we're completely traumatized about that, that we feel hurt, we feel misunderstood, we feel judged, we feel all these things. And so it's like it doesn't match. Either we want grace for our own process, and then we give grace for our own process. You give the compassion you pray for, or you just live this life where you expect nobody thinks you're good enough and you expect everybody else isn't good enough. It just feels like the choice is pretty clear. You. You're gonna do what you've got to do for you. I can't devalue you for doing what's right for you. I can be disappointed that it's not on my timeline, but I go faster now. I've got more courage now. I've got more resources now. Of course, I think it should go faster. I'm on a different pace. I can feel all the feelings I feel. But my job is to make sure that I always believe in you at the peak, no matter what you do next. And that has not always been easy. At the beginning of my journey, it always felt there was the ones who did it and there's the that ones ones who quit. That's not always, it's not always like that. It's the ones who do it and the ones who aren't ready yet. And there's a lot of people who aren't ready yet if they feel respected in your world, that when they're ready will come back. But a person that's not ready, that gets disrespected for that choice in your world will not come back. We've got to just care about people's process. Everyone's at a different growing pace, everybody's on a different page. But you can't give less or do less because you think people aren't capable or people aren't ready. Some people will blow your freaking mind. If it's 1% of the group that moves for a big thing and it's 11 of the group that moves for a medium thing, that's a representation of the world, I wish I could have a better ratio than the world in my, in my containers. But at the end of the day, if my ratio is the world, my ratio is the world. I believe in us and I think we're doing good things. But I don't need evidence of it today to make it worthy of my time. I've already decided and I know that the work I'm doing today, I may not even get to see the benefit of it until after I'm gone. Like, I may never get to see on my, in my life, on this planet the impact of the work I really want to make. But I see little glimpses of it. Sometimes people do the unexpected thing. They, they believe in themselves, they have a huge breakthrough, they do something they didn't expect and, and I get evidence of it often. You know, Stephanie Z messages me, she's like, I just had a, in my fifty thousand dollar month I'm in AFE and I, I remember having to like, like figure stuff out because I was putting my last money on my credit card to make my first AFE payment when I decided to do it. And now I'm celebrating my first 50k month. And that makes me believe like I know that the people who are brave and they're, they're going to do it, they're going to do it. And then at the same time I've got people who say I wasn't ready then, but then I've circled back. I've been in your world for X many years and now I'm doing it and it's all working out and then that makes me believe in that. And if I don't have those pieces of evidence. I have me that knows. I invested in so many things before I broke through. And I also said no about a bunch of things and still broke through. Like, we've just got to trust ourselves. When something is right for us and we're brave enough, we go. When something isn't right for us, we're brave enough and we don't go. We've just got to do what we've got to do in this life, you know what's right for you. There's a difference between being scared and it not being right. There's a difference between disappointed and literally pulling. Okay, well, then you don't matter to me. I don't value you anymore. It's the easiest thing to do. The minute someone doesn't do what you want them to do, you devalue them. Your friend, your ex, you're this, you're that. It's like we get to have life beyond friendship, life beyond partnership, life beyond business, together. When we respect each other and when we value each other. Before, during, and after. Not everyone is on the same time frame and. And your own alignment, it matters more than anything. But your feelings about these things, they're okay. You're allowed to feel sad, disappointed, scared, stressed. You're allowed to feel all the feelings you feel along the way. Just don't devalue yourself, your work, or other people. If you can do that, you'll be 100 steps ahead of most people on the planet. Disappointment, sadness, all that. That's fine. Those are feelings they pass. But devaluing someone is like cutting an energetic cord. It's very hard to build back, especially when the person you just devalued was you. So your coursework before our celebration call, what I would really love you to look at is to make peace with where you are and to really make a decision about whether or not you want to make a move. Like, what kind of move you want to make and what this looks like for you is like, if I don't take a program again, if I don't do anything else with Melanie, what am I actually committed to doing from this program? I want you to commit to that before it's over. Because the best time to do something extraordinary is on the back end of a masterpiece piece. If you wait till the program is over to contemplate what your next move is, you will take a break. What we want to do is while we're in this masterpiece, energy, you're going to decide what your next moves are. So if your next Moves have nothing to do with. With me or continuing with me, that's fine. But what are you going to do? What do you want to study? What do you want to work on? Or what are you going to. What are you going to create? Really make a plan for yourself of what's your next move and make that decision while we're here. The best time to do something extraordinary is on the back end of a masterpiece. So if you can be prepared that when this is over, boom, you make your next move. That's going to be really amazing. If it feels like you do want to make a next move, you say, okay, what, what could I do next? What, what, what do I want to do? What I'm going to suggest is that if you have any questions about what your next thing is, that you ask the Alpha Femme team, just message them in Messenger. If I find a trend in questions, maybe I can add, like a shop with me or something that answers questions about programs I have. If you know you want to do Impact Academy, you can get the. The link for Impact Academy. I'm actually reworking the sales page because we're relaunching the branding. And so when the branding goes up, it's gonna. It needs a new sales page and everything. So the sales page is under construction. But basically it's social media impact and influence. Marketing, advertising, branding. It's the before the money. It's the before the Money program. So if this is something that you want to do, it's again, it's Live with Me. And we're going to be starting on the 14th of September. So if you want to do that, the price for you because you're in currency is actually spectacular. I want you to be able to have the experience of having done this program and go and do the next step. I want it to build for you. And I feel like we've invested so much more than money in this course. Like, your energy, your attention, your presence, there's been nothing like it. I would love to be able to bring you to the next level with me if that's possible. And if it feels like you're just like, like, I want to do afe, like, I'm ready. I want all the programs. I want to do this. Then I want to do the buyer. I want to do exponential wealth. I want to talk about manifestation. I want to do Alpha to Alpha. I want to do Fem Fatal. I want to do all of it. Like, teach me everything. I'm in. You're my person. Message the Alpha Femme team about the link to that. If it feels like you need to have a conversation about it. If you have questions, you can also ask about that. But just get yourself clear before the celebration call so that we can celebrate what you've done and what you're doing next. Next. The best way to move forward in life is to celebrate what you've done and what you're doing next. The best time to launch something extraordinary on the back end of a masterpiece. You just keep the energy moving. Keep the energy moving. It's the most important thing. Okay, so your homework is to make the plan. What are. What is your next move that we can celebrate together? Even if it has nothing to do with another program, Even if it's like, okay, my next move is I'm going to focus on my own social media marketing advertising on my own. That's perfect. But consider it. Don't just take this program and be like, that was a lot. I'll revisit it often. That won't make you move. That's, that's, that's an expected thing. You have it forever. So I hope you do do that. But that must not be your next move. Okay, so the next call is our celebration call. If you want to bring a celebratory vet beverage, if you want to dress in a way that really represents the top of the way you can value yourself right now. Really take a moment, look in your, in your closet. Choose an item of clothing that makes you feel good. Like, let's go all out. I'll be all dolled up. Let's just do it and let's celebrate this incredible masterpiece. Your presence, your participation in this was beyond extraordinary. We could have gone forever. This is the thing. Discussions like this, they can go be. We could talk about this for the rest of time and it would not be a bad thing. It would be a beautiful thing is just this was the length of the program. So I wish I could stay with you forever, but let's celebrate this incredible masterpiece together. I look forward to seeing you. Thank you for this incredible time together. And I will see you on the celebration call. Sam.