Money : A Journey Beyond Illusion - Day 3

Hello, beautiful people of the money master class. Welcome to day three. We are gonna have a beautiful session. Yesterday, we talked about the illusions that keep us from being as strong as we could be. The illusions that stop us from going as far as we could go. We talked about the illusions that keep us small. And there's more. Today, I'm so excited about it. We have a human mind that's so strong and so powerful, yet we lean back on these animalistic, primal safety mechanisms, and they look like the truth and they feel like the truth, but only because we've been programmed that way. They're not the truth. They're a truth, which is what the art of illusion really is. It's showing you a truth that looks like the truth and feels like the truth. So much so that when you see it, it looks real. So much so that when you see, feels real. And then some people break through from that, and they create lives beyond their wildest dreams. And that's what people call magic. But in fact, the magic is the illusion. It just doesn't serve us. It isn't real. Our real right, our birthright, the truth behind it all is what we're truly capable of beyond the illusion. That's what we're talking about. And so we're deepening ourselves into. The magic is not the people who succeed. The magic is the people who end up living a whole life not seeing what they could have had the whole time. It's not a beautiful magic. It's an unfortunate magic. It's the illusionist. How you can somehow believe that your life is less than it was meant to be, somehow. The illusion. So we've already touched some really fun things inside this masterclass. And why I love it so much is because when I work with clients and when I work on myself around money, the craziest part of becoming wealthy is seeing what was so clear always that I just couldn't see. And it's the same thing for all my clients who achieve really exponential wealth. When things start to unfold and they start to be able to access the money, they're like, how on earth did I not see this before? How is it possible that I couldn't see this because it was there all along. Once you're there, you realize it was there all along. Once you see it, you realize it was there all along. So this is why it's such an important thing to have these conversations. Because as we bring awareness to the things you can't see, you start to be able to see them. And then life is Never the same after that. I told my fiance she doesn't have a hat on. What the heck? Yeah, the hat is here, but it just. It does this weird thing where I look like a ghost. Oh, oh, oh. There's a way. Okay, Wear the hat for a minute. So here is another illusion. It's just an illusion. The next illusion is the illusion of being on top. If you take a crab and you put it in a box in a cage on its own, it will just walk in and out of the cage as it pleases. No problem. However, if you put another crab in the box with the crab, the first crab, when it starts to try to get out of the box, the first crab will grab it and pull it back down. Just because it cannot handle the feeling of the other crab being on top, it can't handle the feeling of the crab leaving the box. It doesn't want to be left in the box, and it doesn't want the other crab to succeed. So it pulls the crab down. And if there are multiple crabs, any crab that tries to get out pulls the other crab down. All of them, they will just pull the other crab down. If the crab's alone, it will get out of the box by itself. As soon as you put another crab in, it will not let the other one escape. And the more crabs there are, they will all get to it. They will all try to pull it back down inside the box. Now we do this. So this is one of the things around money that's actually one of our greatest detriments. So we say things about money like, money is the root of all evil. We say things like, rich people are bad. We say things like, they probably did something illegal or wrong or they probably don't care about people. Rich people. You know, the thing about rich people is they don't actually care about people at all. They just care about money, and they're actually not nice people. And then their families break down. And now we say all these things, and inside, we want to be wealthy. How does that add up? The crabs in the bucket, they all want to get out, but they literally trap themselves and the other crabs inside of the bucket by holding each other down. How does that make any sense? We want to leave the old poverty paradigm. We want to leave it, but anytime we see someone start to leave it, we say something terrible about them. We cast a limiting belief. I can't tell you how many people have told me, you used to trigger me like crazy when I first met you. I had a hard time watching you. It was Just like you. You just made me annoyed. You made me mad. It was hard for me to watch you. And I'm like, why? Like, I don't know. There's just something about the way you say things and the way you do things, and you're always like, look at me and my balloons and celebrating and my partner and blah, blah, blah. And I was like, really, though? Because isn't this exactly what you want? Like, isn't this also what you want to have an amazing relationship and an amazing family and a business that works and financial success? Like, wouldn't that be the reason to be like, I love this girl. She has all the things that I want. It's like, yeah, technically, yes, but in the feelings I've had, people tell me I've had to unfollow you. I just couldn't handle it. I had to mute you for a while. I just. It's just hard. And I'm like, but why? That's not what I want. I don't want you to watch and say, I can't have that or it doesn't feel good. So some of you have felt inspired for me from the beginning that makes me so happy. And that's awesome. But just check your mind. Who does trigger you. What we want is the success. What we want is the wealth. What we want is the abundance. What we want is the beauty and the richness and all the things. Yet sometimes certain people have it and we're like, for some reason, I just. It just. I'm mad about it. So the crab mentality is also what happens when you have peers that succeed faster than you. So instead of seeing, like, oh, my gosh, this person, Jennifer, that makes me happy, one person comes into your life and they're at the same time speed as you, they're doing as well as you, and then all of a sudden they're doing better. It's like, well, that's not fair. How are you doing better than me? Like, we were at the same. You're not better than me. We started at the same time. We have the same brand, we do the same things. And now all of a sudden, you're growing faster than me. That's not fair. You may have clients that start being really good really fast. You may have clients that leave you and go with a peer or with another precaution. Like, what is happening? I don't want that. We don't do it on purpose. It is an animal response. Because in your evolved mind, you know that there is enough for everyone. In your evolved Mind, you know, you don't need to please everyone in your evolved mind, you know, but in your animal mind, no, you shall not leave this box without me. No, you can't win. Come back. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Not because you don't want to be this evolved, amazing human being, but because I don't want them to go. And me, I don't go fair. It's the animal child like that comes out. If you could be in your evolved being and say, my desire is limitless wealth over a lifetime. And every human being that comes into my world is evidence of what's possible for me, for you, for us. Every time I watch another person succeed near me, it's evidence that if it exists around me, it exists within me. I am so happy to be surrounded by people who succeed. Thank you, God, the universe, Mother Nature, for more evidence that I am next, that it's coming for me. The more people around me who succeed, the better. I love watching people from me around me climb out of the old paradigm. I'm celebrating that I was here for yet another winner. I'm here to see again that I've watched another person thrive in life. I'm so grateful. I'm so happy. Animal brain, Animal brain. The illusion of being on top. If I pull you down, we're equal. We're equal. What if you stop following a coach who you feel is now out of alignment? There's a trigger there, but also, she just looks so far. Of course, I found myself judging her instead of. I didn't want to keep doing that. I felt I had to leave and not send her those emotions. You're allowed to unfollow people. That doesn't pull them down. What pulls people down is the bickering and the being mean or gossiping or all the things that we do. You know what's out of alignment? If you say I'm feeling, I'm feeling triggered. And this person doesn't really deserve that. I don't know the whole picture, but when I see them, I judge them. So I'm going to disassociate and you do it in a clean way, that's fine. It's the feeling of saying a little mean thing, making a little dig, making a little thing. Just, Just need to say. I just want to say. I just want to put myself out there and make a thing and a comment. Let me just tell someone something. The gossip, it's the little, little crab. So we don't want to go to the animal brain. We want to go to the evolved version of us. But the trigger is the animal brain. The trigger is this self preservation fear. Fear that I'm gonna lose something. Fear that I'm gonna be left behind. Fear that I'm not gonna be on top. Fear that I'm not good enough. If I pull you down, then we're back to the same again. If I pull you down, we're both here. So that's the thing we don't want to be doing. If you're out of alignment, you're out of alignment. But this is the biggest thing. Like, emotional intelligence means being able to coexist with other human beings on the planet without them needing to be exactly what you or terrible people. Like, this is the split that the wound creates. The animal wound of like, I've got to do something about this. As if you're not perfect for me, you're not right. There's something wrong with you. I'm a strong believer that we are able to coexist with human beings that do not share the same opinion as us. We're capable of doing that. We can say, oh, this person's not exactly for me, but she's so inspiring because she's done this, this, this, this, this. But that's not the way I want to do it. But good for her. This is crazy. Instead of like, if that's what success looks like, I am not interested. She is this and this and this and this. Ew. Do you like this person? She's awful. You don't need to do that. You don't need to do that. So we don't want to be pulling the people down. We want to be either allowing them to climb out without touching them. Like, just let the. Just let the crab exit the box. I'm not asking you to help the crab out. You don't need to give it a little butt push. You know, a little crabby crab, little butt push. Get out of the little cage of cage. A little butt push. Crabby crab. Let me help you. Like, you don't need to give them a boost. Just don't touch them. Oh, look, the crab is exiting the box. Let me refocus on my soul alignment. You don't need to pull the crab down is the only thing. This is the only lesson. You just don't. Don't go out of your way to pull the crab back in. Don't go out of your way to pull the successful woman down. Don't go out of your way to throw. To throw a little jab or do something mean you Just don't need to do that. Let the crab exit the box. You will be okay. I have to admit that I've been a krabby crabby many times before. We have it's animal brain. We all do this at some point in our lives. Yes. Because fear of all the other crabs pulling me down. So this is the other part of that, and this is such a good point. Like sometimes you will want to go and you will want to exit your crab box and you will be like, I am so excited. I imagine, I believe it's going to be so amazing to be free. And then you see all these crabs being teared apart every time they try to leave the box. And you're like, mmm, I'm terrified that if I try to leave this box, everybody's going to pull me back in. I think I'm going to stay in the box. If you want to trap crabs, you put a crab in a bucket and you put it to the bottom of the water and you wait. Next thing, there will be tons of crabs in there. None of them will let each other leave. And you'll have a box full of crabs. You put food and one crab in the bottom of a bucket and you will fill the bucket because the other crabs will come in for the food and will not allow anyone to leave. So there's a two parts to this analogy. The first one is stop pulling people down. The second one is don't fear that you can't exit because you've seen so many people get torn down before you can exit the box. Especially the more these conversations start to circulate in the world because we are standing for a different paradigm. There's so many people here for this message. There's so many people in the world that are open to being better people. There's more and more space for us to be the examples of people who climb out of the box. And it isn't always easy. And sometimes it does hurt her feelings. It has hurt my feelings to hear like that Melanie Handler girl or I had to mute her. She drove me crazy. Or I couldn't like that. That actually did hurt my feelings. It made me feel really sad for a long time. Like I'm a good person inside. Why don't people. Why? Why. It doesn't matter. It's not their evolved mind that's. That's seeing me. This. It's the fear. It's the whatever it is because they don't even know me enough to know they don't like me. So what does it Even mean so in your life, if you've been put down plenty, if every time you've tried to get out, someone's pulled you down, just try again. And if you start to be the kind of person who lets people thrive and lets people get out in the world around you, you will attract people who also allow you to thrive. We attract who we are. So watch yourself. When you notice the little pincers come out, you're better than that, you're stronger than that. So I don't want the illusion of being on top. I would prefer to be a part of something big and beautiful with a lot of people with me and not be on top, but more be a part of something than to be alone on top because I've pushed everyone down. That doesn't feel good. And I know that it's the same for you. It's just when the animal brain kicks in, it feels crazy, it feels hard. So sometimes there is no one that's going to pull you down. You just imagine someone will, because you're so used to that behavior. What about your own inner crab that pulls you down? Your inner crab doesn't pull you down. You just imagine the other crabs will pull you down, because that's a different illusion. But the whole thing with the crabs, you want to escape, but you imagine that other people will get you down, people who still. Who have the crab still. Because we have the inner crab, we have it. But the evolved version of us can see it as, this isn't my higher self. When we haven't yet done the personal development, we feel the trigger, but we don't see that we are being triggered. And it's not us. Like, it's not the person, it's us. So as you evolve, you can then at least see it like, oh, I'm being Krabby crabs. Whoops. Harmony between everyone. There can be a beautiful exchange of everyone's gifts and unique talents, and everyone thrives. Truly so beautiful. And we get to do that. We just need to be stronger than the animal brain. So there's another illusion that I think is so pertinent to this masterclass, and it's the illusion of being stuck. The illusion of being stuck is one that I probably hear these words more than any other words in my coaching. Clients will say, I feel stuck. I'm stuck. I feel stuck. Have you ever said that? I feel stuck. I'm stuck. I feel stuck. So the illusion of being stuck is the illusion of the monkey. So how they figured out how to trap a monkey, this is Actually, very, very interesting is they put like a little plantain banana inside of a coconut. Like a coconut with a hole in it. And they attached it to a tree. And the monkey comes, smells a banana, smells coconut, gets really excited, puts its hand inside the coconut, grabs banana, cannot leave the hand. Doesn't fit this way with the banana. It just gets stuck. So it's stuck because it cannot keep the banana in its hand. So it stays there. Mind, mind. And the monkey stays there until it gets caught. Let go of the banana. No. Monkey, let go of the banana. No. Let go of the banana. I can't. You're gonna get caught. I know I'm stuck. You're not stuck. You're just. You gotta let go of the banana. No, you've got. Put the banana down. No, it's mine. Put the banana down. No, the banana is your self righteousness in life. One of my favorite quotes in my femme fatale program is, is this moment of self righteousness worth compromising my energetic vibration over? Is this moment of self righteousness worth me holding on to a banana to my very death? Like, if you let go of the banana, you will survive. No, it's my banana. I understand, I understand. Let it go. No, if you don't let it go, someone's gonna come and get you because you're not gonna be able to exit your hand from the thing. Is my banana. This is not fair. I know. Let go. You either let go of the banana or you're gonna get caught. You're stuck. Can't I have the banana and not be stuck? No, not in this case, because it's a trap. I want a banana. I know. So we have beliefs that we hold on to in our life. And these beliefs, they keep us holding on to crazy things. And we're completely stuck. And it's like. But people won't like me. Let it go. But what if they don't like me? Let it go. But they might not like me. Let it go. But if I become wealthy, my family will ask me for things. Put it down. But what if they ask me for things? Put it down. But what if they ask me for things? Let it go. But you won't be rich if you don't let go of that. But put it down. Put it down. But my friends won't like me. Anytime I do something really big, they're so annoyed. I can feel it. They won't want to be my friend anymore. Put the. Put the banana down. Put the belief down. But I can't. Because what if it's real. Put it down. I can't. Put it down. No. Put it down. It needs to be this client. This client was supposed to be my client. She needs to sign with me. It doesn't matter if it's not this client. It'll be another client. But it needs to be this client. No, it doesn't. It does. It needs to be this client. It doesn't need to be this client. There are millions of other clients. No, it's this one. I can feel it. Put her down. No. Put her down. I just need her to say yes. Stop messaging her and put her down. It doesn't need to be this. It does. It doesn't. It needs to be. I need to make money today or else. It doesn't need to be today. It does. Put it down. You're holding on to things that you think you need and you can't get out. Just let it go. Any belief that you've got from now on that you know you could let go of, just see it in your mind. See the imagery. You've got your hand in a coconut holding onto a banana and you're like. And you can't get out. This is the incredible thing about money. Money is just another extension of your behavior. Money is just another illusion that you don't let yourself experience in this lifetime because of whatever illusion you're playing into. They need to be on top, they need to be safe. They need to. Whatever. It is like we do this the way we do one thing is the way we do a lot of things in our lives. You probably notice these patterns in many different areas. So there's another illusion which is the illusion of boundaries. And this one in money is so important because, well, it's important in everything in life, but it's very important in money because the illusion of boundaries is when something is intense or scary or impactful, really strong. In a moment, we're jolted, but if it's slow over time, somehow it gets to us. This is the illusion of the frog. You take the frog and you put it in cool water. The frog is bathing in the cool water and it is very comfortable. And you begin to raise the heat of the water. It goes from being in a cool tub to a lukewarm tub, to a very warm tub, to a boiling hot tub. And before you know it, voila, you have frogs legs. Delicious. The frog has no clue that you are in fact preparing it to its death. It just feels like, ooh, this is nice. The water's getting warmer. How pleasant. I love being In Zebes, it is so comfortable. You take that same frog and you put it in hot water and it goes ah. And it jumps out. Are you crazy? You tried to kill me. You have no compassion, you animal killer. But you put it in warm water and increase the temperature and it's like, thank you for this beautiful spa experience. You are so kind. Oops. So we do this to ourselves. We say, ah, you know, not really. Not really rich. And it's okay, you know, I won't take care of my money stuff. I won't really learn. It's not a really big deal. I'll just keep buying things I don't need and not really learning. I have less and less money. It's a little stressful. It's all right. It'll be fine. Um, yeah, of course. About learning about money. Meh. Don't really need that. It's getting hot in here. Huh? I can handle it. Oh, look, all those people. So cozy over there. I can handle this heat. Oh, look, my payment defaulted. Huh. Maybe I could invest in learning about money. Meh. Eh, this is alright. Oh, look, two payments faulted. Um. Oh, great. I'm going bankrupt. How did that happen? This is exactly what happened in my world. I was like, I'll figure it out. This will figure it out. I'll figure it out. Oh, great. I'm sleeping in my car and I'm bankrupt. How the heck did this happen? If you would have put me facing bankruptcy from the beginning, I probably would have done something. Why? Because human beings wait until something big and awful is coming before they move. And this is the craziest thing. This is why. And it's so sad and it makes me so frustrated. People believe they need rock bottom. They believe they need rock bottom because rock bottom is the equivalent of putting a frog in hot water. It will jump right out. What we're not good at is the universe telling us we're turning the heat up because we're about to cook you. We're like, ah, the spa experience. This is so comfortable. No, this is us turning the water up so that you realize that you got to do something with your life. Ah, so nice. I love the spa. This is not a spa. It's a hot pot. You're about to be cooked. Exit the water. Similar. I love this place is so comfortable. The heat. Anyone have bubbles or essential oils? You're going to be cooked alive. This is. This is the universe raising the temperature. It is a friendly reminder that we are putting up the heat. It is not manifest. You need to Exit the water now. Then all of a sudden, it's like it's boiling hot. Rock bottom. You're in a relationship. This is the wrong relationship. Here's a little snippet of the fact that this is not a good relationship. Huh? It's getting warm in here. This is nice. No, it isn't nice. This is the universe showing you turning up the heat in the pot. Turning up the heat. Get out of the relationship. So nice. It is not nice. It is getting warmer because it's getting hotter because you need to exit. And it is until it's broken. So what we want to do is look at our lives and say, okay, what. What am I really doing? We don't want to hurt ourselves. We don't want to wait till we hit rock bottom yet. We just keep making decisions with our animal brain, and it doesn't work. I keep making thousands of dollars, and I can't hold onto it. And I'm like, I'll just make more, but I'm not learning the lesson. And then I'm like, I want to be wealthy like Melanie. Not with this behavior. What am I actually doing to change my animal behavior? What am I actually doing when I realize, wow, I don't take the little signs very well? So I keep hitting rock bottom before I make a move. Maybe I need to learn how to not do that. And this is something that I have done in my life way too much in my life. I waited till things got really bad every time. I waited till things were irreparable in a relationship beyond repair to the point where it had damaged my soul. I waited till my health was so bad I needed to be hospitalized. I waited until it was so bad. I waited till the money was so bad that I was bankrupt. Sleeping in my car in February in the snowstorm. I waited until it was so bad. Why I had the power of choice if I wanted it. I just never used it. And people who did do the brave thing bothered me. Who she thinks she is. Oh, it's easy for her. The temperature kept building in my hot pot. I just pulling crabs down left and right with the one hand that was free while the other one was trapped holding the banana. I just. Animal brain, animal brain, animal brain, animal brain, animal brain. No evolution whatsoever. No power, no using my power of choice, my power of as a woman, as a human. None of it being used, none of it just sitting in a boiling pot of hell holding a banana stuck to a tree while I pulled crabs down with the other hand. Like, this is a great Experience wasted potential. Because all of that energy could have just been used to create beautiful things in my life. And I'm seeing it now like this same amount of energy, it requires energy to be alive. And it requires the same amount of energy to be an extraordinary human as it does to be a mediocre human. Because it's difficult to be a mediocre human because it comes with stress and pain and sadness and self beating yourself up. It comes with all kinds of bad things. It comes with a lot of energy exertion and exhaustion. It takes as much energy to waste your potential as it does to ignite it. Because the beautiful thing about being extraordinary is it feeds your soul, it feeds you back up. So the energy that you put out, it comes back in. It's like when you're giving, when there's nothing left. You're just emptying and draining the tub, there's nothing coming in. So how do you figure the difference between not living in scarcity and not putting energy towards the life you desire versus missing the temperature being turned up? Well, what are you doing about the fact that the temperature is being turned up? How, how, how much of your life is about your, your life if you're living your life and you're ignoring all the things that are not working. So I'm gonna give you the last. This is actually gonna make a lot of sense because I'm gonna give you the last animal analogy for today. And I'm so happy that you guys are enjoying this and seeing. All your words are so empowering. Thank you for communicating this. Use your gifts, encourage others in their gifts. Like there's so many amazing comments. So this is the last one for today, the last animal that we're gonna talk about today. And this is the illusion safety. And the illusion of safety is the ostrich. When the ostrich senses impending doom, it puts its head in the ground. Wow. We can't see you, ostrich. You're so smart, like a three year old. Hide and go seek. You go hide, I'll find you. Okay. One, two, three, go. You can't see me, but I can still see you. I have a brilliant idea. Danger is approaching. I can still see all of your body. Ostrich, your arse is sticking out. I see you. No, you can't. I can't see you, you can't see me. It doesn't work that way. You do realize there's a whole other body attached to this head of yours that is now underground. What? I can't hear you. I Can't hear you. I can't see you. You do not exist. Well, so we do the ostrich thing whenever we think. Okay. Impending doom approaches. I. So I'm in this terrible thing around money. I am going to not look at my money. Ah, brilliant. The stress is gone. There's about 600 envelopes of unopened mail in my top drawer. It's amazing. I just won't look at it. Oh, look, my relationship is breaking down. Let's not look at it. I can breathe. What a great idea. So when you look at am I hitting. I'm hitting rock bottom because I'm not looking. I know that there's something I need to look at, but I am literally hiding my head in the sand. I can't. I don't have the money to learn about money and I don't really want to because, I mean, I would have to look at money. However, look at my new purse. I got a new phone. The other one was cracked. I dropped it. So I bought this new one. Did you know that this camera actually takes four 3D high definition pictures? Weren't you wanting to buy a program? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Don't talk about that. As I said, this camera and I got this case in case I drop it because I was. Wasn't there a case on the other one? Yeah, but I took it off because, you know, it's nicer without the case. You have a new iPhone, new purse, new shoes, new winter coat. You're going on vacation, you're going on holiday, you're going all these places, but you're trying to manifest the money to learn how to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, whatever it is that you need to do next. Your relationship's going down the toilet. There's so many different things you can do to learn about your relationship. Yes, but I don't have time. You're right. Netflix is really important. And if you're going to spend time, you should probably watch this season of this is Usually because you know it's an opportunity you just can't miss. No time. No time, no money. While you're watching Netflix on your iPhone or your brand new computer head in the sand, people are not paying their phone bills, but they have the new iPhone. Money doesn't go where it is needed. It goes where it is desired. This is the problem. When we are feeling stressed about something, we don't desire to look at it. This is why the spiral happens. The spiral happens because when I don't desire to look at it, I don't there's got to be a desire. And that's difficult because it's. You've got to go from good to good to desire. If not, it's need. And we don't buy what we need. We don't spend on what we need. We don't do what we need. We do what we want. We do what we want. So our biggest issue is that we wait till we're beyond need. We wait till we're at rock bottom. It's not even need anymore. It's like if you don't jump out of the boiling water now, you're frog's legs. There is no more time. There is no more time. There is no more money. There is nothing. You've got to move now. There's no other choice. We wait that long, not because we're not capable of moving sooner, but because it's not fun. When I was living in my car, when I was sleeping in my car, I literally chose personal development over meals, over a hotel. I slept in my car and ate nothing. And I bought what I could buy for programs and books and all the things. I don't know why. I didn't have anybody telling me to do it. I just felt it in my soul. It's what I wanted. Only when there was no more choice. But then there was still some choice, but basically no choice. I was at rock bottom. And then I said, okay, now I'll sacrifice. Oh great, we don't want to sacrifice our comfort. So the hardest thing in life that I found is to grow from good to great. That's the hardest thing. I have been completely poor. Completely poor. No money. Like no food for days, not enough money to drive anywhere. Just enough to keep the car to sleep in. No money. I have been no money. Broke, bankrupt, there's nothing left. I have been that level of broke. And I will tell you that it was easier to push myself to do the things then than it is in the middle of a half a million dollar month. Because I don't need it. There's got to be a reason to want it. You've got to be able to desire it. Wake up calls are loudest at rock bottom. So do you need it to be loud in order to listen to yourself? Or could you learn to pay attention to the whispers of your soul? Could you learn to pay attention to the whispers that say, hey, this is good for you. Hey, I know you're scared, but do it anyway. Hey, that dream you've got, that desire you want, do it. Can you learn to Listen to the whispers or do you need to wait until there's a scream? So the hardest thing is good to great, but you've got to make a choice that causes a little bit of a discomfort. And we don't want to do that. We don't want to be uncomfortable. We've got the banana. We don't want to let it go, but it's keeping us stuck. Let it go. The water isn't bad now. It's actually really cozy, like I'm in the bath. It's gonna get hotter, though. Can you jump out now before your skin starts to burn while you're comfortable? Maybe a few more minutes. You're not safe just because you can't see it and you can't hear. This is how we create illusions in our lives. It's the illusion that there's only what I can see, like the iceberg. So if I can't see, if I. If I can't see it, it isn't there. And I use that to my disadvantage. It's not possible that there's more money because I can't see it. It isn't possible that there's more opportunity for me because I can't see it. It's not possible that my dream man is still around the corner because I can't see him. It's not possible because I can't see. And who. Who's going to be my next client? Where's the money going to come from? I don't know. It's not possible. I don't know how. And that same energy we take and we put our head in the sand and we say, I can't see it, it isn't there. That debt I have, I can't see it, so it isn't there. How can we not see that we're using the same illusions in different contexts to suit whatever belief system we're trying to support. Animal mind. Animal mind. If I can't see it, it isn't there. So in your evolved being, what you know is your human comprehends at the very maximum, 10% of its own brain. You're really going to. To rely on the 10, maximum. If you are like a superhuman, you're gonna rely on 10% of a human brain over the truth and limitlessness of the entire universe. You're gonna tell me, if I can't see it with the 5% of my brain that I can control, it doesn't exist. That's crazy. So when we start to see, whoa, I am in a limitless world, and the Reality I see is 5% of what I'm capable of, even. Maybe there's a lot I haven't seen. Maybe there's a lot I haven't been conditioned to see. Maybe there's so much that's there, but, like the flea, I stopped leaping because of the people around me. Maybe there's so much there, but because of the elephant. A couple of times I made a mistake and I stopped looking outside of what I can see. Maybe there's a whole freaking world outside of what I think is true. Maybe this experience of life that I have is only mine because I created it this way. Not with the evolved mind that's available to me, but the conditioned mind that I was born into, coded into over and over again. What if. What if it's actually true that wealth is my birthright? That without all the illusions, I could see it so clearly that it's there for me right there? What if. What kind of a world would I live in if I believed that? So in order to really dive deep into money and wealth, there's conversations that we need to have. Like, having a talk like this is so freeing because it takes your mind just on a different angle where you get to look and be like, huh, I never looked at it like that before. Wealth is my birthright. The way I see it, until I am as wealthy as air. Breathing in air, breathing out. Until I'm as wealthy as money is not even a thought. It's just something that I have. Like, air is my birthright, and love is my birthright. Money is my birthright. Wealth is my birthright. If that becomes the truth for me, then I can actually decide who I am. Because when my life is just an adapted version based on how much money I have, I'm not even me. If I dress the way I can afford, if I see as much of the world as I can afford, if I choose the partner I think I'm worthy of because of how much money we both make, if I choose the education that I'm available for in my lifetime and what I am able to learn based on money, like, oh, there's all this information in the world, but it would cost money to learn it. So, no, I'm just gonna limit my knowledge of life in this lifetime. I'm gonna limit my travel. I'm. I'm going to limit my style, how I dress, what I love, who I love, based on what my wallet tells me is a go. Then you live your entire life never actually knowing who the heck you are. You're an adapted version of yourself. Until money is as free to you. Until money is as available to you as air. And you make your choices based on who you are, not what you can afford. Yeah, this line on my forehead is not cute. Sticking with the hat. How do we fix the. Maybe we bring the. Ooh, isn't that lovely? Bonjour. So if you decide that you want to be everything that you've ever wanted to be in your life, then you've got to go for it. You've got to decide that you're worth it, because no one else can give you that. No one else can say to you, you're worth it, you're worthy. No one else can say to you. No one else can do it for you. You've got to claim it. If you want to know who you really are, then find out who you are without needing to ask money for permission. Find out who you really are when you don't need to ask anything. You don't have to ask money for permission. So today was day three of the MONEY masterclass. And what I would love for you to do today is to just look at where in your life are you these animals again? Where does this animalistic behavior show up? Where have you pulled other people down that have exactly what you desire? Whether you were right or wrong about it, whether the person was good or bad, whatever it is, you just didn't. You didn't just detach and let them succeed. There was something about them succeeding that triggered the animal thing in you to want to say, how come she's successful? She's not even. Blah, blah, blah. You said it, you've thought it. Just look. Where in your life have you waited till the water was boiling, until you jumped, when you could have come out way before, but you waited? Where in your life have you held on to something and not wanted to let go just because. Just because. And where in your life? You just put your head right in the sand because it's easier that way. And what would the enlightened version of you do in these situations if you were to allow yourself to be truly empowered? How would you do those situations if you were to act with your human power and your human brain instead of your animal brain, how would you handle every single one of those situations? Just look. So on that note, I am so excited. I love, love, love talking about these conversations with you, love talking about money, because when we really dive deep into it, we realize it's an extension of us. So we work on us, we work with our connection to wealth, our understanding of wealth, the way we see it, the way we experience it, the way we show up in our higher, more evolved mind instead of the animal mind. The way that we make decisions based on our choices instead of our feelings, fears, and we start to rewire everything in our lives. The money became good for me in my life, but my gosh, my friendships turned around. My relationship with my family is better than it's ever been. My relationship to my fiance is like a freaking fairy tale. The money works, the clients, the business. Like it's not just about the money. And the biggest mistake we make is to try to isolate money. Like it's this one thing we're not worthy of or we're not good enough at. It's like when we make it an all inclusive life experience where money is just one of the things that we master in this lifetime and that it's as important as everything else. Everything up levels. And that's the experience I want to give you. Like, you are worthy, you are wealthy, you are powerful, you are loved, you are wise, you are connected, you are able, you are strong. Wealthy is part of the things that you are. It's not something you've got to fight for. It's just something you've got to let in and decide that you're worthy of. And this is such a beautiful journey there. And it's so fun and it feels good in the soul. It feels good to be in this kind of conversation. Be like, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. For once. To talk about money and not be like, no, no, no, no. To be like, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. Oh my God, yes, yes, yes. Like, that feels so good. You were born worthy and nothing has changed. Wealth is your birthright. Anything that isn't that is just an illusion. So I'm excited for tomorrow for day four. Thank you for being here. I love you. You're beautiful. You smell nice. And I will see you tomorrow on day four. By.