The One - Day 4

I am the one. Sam. Hello, gorgeous. Of the one. I am sitting outside, got my big fancy sweater on, big blanket, felt like I needed to be outside today. One the ground myself, put my feet on solid earth and off to the snow and the kind of reasons that happen. And this is going to be a very interesting conversation as well, watching this based on a huge billboard. Morning, girl. It'd be an interesting conversation, but I've had some beautiful, wonderful time to think about before I could show up for you. Thank you for the compliments. Means so much to be. So yesterday we had a conversation. I'm gonna actually pull this up so I can see some of your faces so I can actually, like, look at you while I'm telling you this. Hello. Who am I seeing? Who am I seeing? Kathy's waving at me. I've got Marielle in the house. Hello. Hello. Sonia. Luminous living. Hello. All right. My hat is the one that's funny. Okay. So yesterday I said I didn't want to be famous. That's not my thing that I actually really enjoy being in my own life. And then today, I get tagged a bunch of times on Instagram about being on a billboard in Montreal, and I'm like, ah, that's funny timing. So here's what I process as I sat with this. It's not. I think that the important thing is, in language, it's important. It's not that I don't want to be famous in the sense where I would be not happy if my face was on a billboard. What I mean is, I don't want to create with the people who know me the feeling of fame. What I want to create with the people who know me is the feeling of connection and the feeling of togetherness. So being on a billboard is not something that I would put myself on at this stage in my life. Like, this isn't something that I would, like, pay to put myself on a billboard. It's not something that I would be like, hey, I have an idea. Let's advertise alpha femme on a billboard. I'm not in that place in my life, and I'm not saying that I never will. But right now, that's not something that feels like something I want to do. But being on the COVID of a magazine that advertises their magazine and puts me on the COVID of their magazine on a billboard, the COVID of their magazine, that. That. That's awesome. That's awesome. So I. I was featured in the magazine. The magazine reached out to feature me, and it was the most incredible Opportunity to be featured. And then when they promoted their. Their. Their magazine, the surprise was we booked the billboard and your face going to be on it, which is such a huge, amazing opportunity. Now, I don't want to tell the universe, and I think maybe this is why the timing of this is so funny is it's not about telling the universe. I don't want to be famous. It's about how do I handle myself when things like this happen. So I'm going to give you an example. Today I had a bunch of weird messages, as you might expect after something like that. So one of the things was like, you had a lot of people be like, you should know how people like to do that. You should do a magazine signing in Montreal where we can all come and see. You see, is that an energetic match for what I want, you think? No. So can I be on this billboard and be like, I am going to be walking in the woods with a fur bear on my head. This is not real fur, by the way. This is all not real. But I'm going to be walking down. I'm going to be walking in the woods, like up to my ankles, up to my waist in snow with a big fur hat on my head. And you guys go look at the billboard like, I'm still trying to figure out how I feel about all this. And you're going to have moments in your life where things happen to you before you're ready, before it even makes sense for you. And I think this is the big thing about being the one is you've got to be ready for what life throws at you. Because although I would not have put myself on that billboard, when the billboard comes, then it's like, okay, can I claim this? And how do I claim it in alignment with my spirit? Because this isn't something to be mad about. It's not something to be upset about. It's not something to turn my nose up at. This is actually quite amazing. But I can feel my nervous system be like. And people like, I'm going to drive by it. Where is it? I want to go see it. I want to take a selfie in front of it. I want to go look at it. You should do a magazine signing. You tell me when you're going to go see it. I'd love to be there when you see it. Go and take a picture in front of it. We want to see you in front of it. It's all that energy that feels not in alignment with me. So I get to notice that when it's happening and say, what am I available for? And what feels good for me now as you're watching me navigate through this? I think it's important and it's interesting that we're having this conversation while this is happening in my life, because I think it's a typical reaction. I love you, Sophia. I think it's a typical reaction for a lot of people to think, like, if you're not seeing the behind the scenes. If we hadn't had that conversation together yesterday and this had just happened today, you would have had no reason to expect that. Any other feeling then I'm super freaking out, excited about this whole thing. You'd have no reason to be like, oh, my gosh. Melanie Ann Layer is actually a real person who's actually freaking out about her face being on a billboard right now. She's having an actual experience about that. She's not 100% comfortable with that. It's scary for her. That's so weird. You wouldn't know any of that. And this is why this work is important. And I want to be both feet on the ground with you because you may imagine that you need to be ready for something like this to happen to you, and you don't. You might think you've got to be ready for the big opportunity to come and knock at your door. You don't. It will potentially happen when you're. You're a match for it and your consciousness is still questioning whether or not you're ready. And that's kind of what's happening for me. I'm in this phase of, like, you know, I wouldn't do this. And then it's like, well, the universe would. How am I going to deal with that? And that is the. That's the journey. So I was actually having a conversation about this with one of my private clients today, and she was telling me, like, I feel like I need to figure out what I need to be doing. I need to figure out who I need to be. I need to figure out what the next step is before I can get there. And I said, what if you trusted that the next step is just already calling you whether you're ready for it or not. Once it's a match, it's a match. Ready in your mind versus ready in your soul. And your energy is a totally different thing. So this is an interesting experience. It's an interesting sequence of events, but it's a magical one. It's a magical one because the fact is, I. It doesn't change the energetics of my Truth. Even though. Because what's different than having a profile picture on Facebook that people know or a face on a billboard, really, it doesn't mean anything. I'm available to be seen. That is something that is sure and certain. I'm available to be seen, but I am not trying to be seen. And that's where I don't lose myself. When I'm trying to be seen, I forget that I am. When I'm available to be seen, I notice all the ways that I am. And that's a different frequency in the body. When I'm trying to do something, when I'm pushing to do something, when I'm needing to have something, I show up differently than being available for it. And that leaned back, feminine energy really allows the universe, God, to come in and work some magic on the situation and see and say, look, you may think that you're not ready for this, but let me present you that and see how you feel about it. You may not think you're available for this, but how about I show you this and you tell me how you feel about that? You may not be willing to go do this, but how about I present you this and you grow here? You may not be ready for that, but what if this happens? Then how will you respond? So if I were to believe that things happen to me and they don't make sense and it's bad timing and things are wrong, I might imagine that some. Something went wrong somewhere in my manifestation process. I said, I don't want to be known in every grocery store corner that I go to. And then the next day my face is on a billboard. But is it. Is that really what happened? Or do I get this beautiful opportunity to see, like, my privacy doesn't need to change whatsoever with that happening. What if the universe is showing me you get to have the kind of, let's say, fame that you want, one where your. Your life is not disrupted. What if you navigate this as the leader We've. When I think of this, and I've had to think about it today because I'm like, what are the. Like it's. The timing is quite spectacular of it being this way. After I've said something like that, like, okay, let's look at this for a second. And the crazy thing is I knew that the magazine was going to be on the billboard. I knew the magazine was going to be on the billboard. I didn't know when it was going to go up. I knew their launch was the 22nd of February, so I figured somewhere around the 22nd of February, there was going to be some sort of advertisement for the magazine. I never expected to see that. That is a big Melanie. And layer is a big face on a big billboard, is a big. That is big. That is not. That is not ever what I thought. Like, I ended in the day. After I've said what I've said, it just all feels so. So I think I really had to sit with myself and be like, okay, what is this about? Why in this timing? Why like this? What is this about? Let's look at it. Let's. Let's look at what this means. And what I've realized is this. I have seen fame all my life, is a little bit of a scary thing, because in my little town, if you break free or you break through as someone who's famous, you do get mocked a little bit, a lot. In Quebec, they even have this thing at the end of each year called the Bye Bye. And it's literally like hours of people who make fun of anyone who's ever done anything important this year. So anybody in politics, anybody on tv, anybody that's anybody. Actors portray them, pretend to be them and mock them on tv. And I've watched this ever since I was a little kid. It's been like. Like roasting. But for anybody, like, anybody, anybody that did anything at all. And it's like, everybody, the whole country will watch it. It's so funny. It's the Bye Bye. We're gonna say goodbye to the year by mocking everyone who said anything in the public eye. And that, to me is like, absolutely terrifying. And my experience with the media, as you all know, was not very fun last summer. So that gave me an experience there. I was like, maybe not. But then on top of that, there's also the thing that we see. Like, most of the paparazzi shots I see are of people wearing sunglasses, a baseball cap in their hand in front of their face. Like, back off. That doesn't look fun to me. I heard stories of Lady Di getting into a car crash to avoid paparazzi, and Britney Spears breaking a car to smithereens because she lost it because she couldn't handle being followed like that. I don't like that. But what if there's a new paradigm of fame, One where we respect people, when we respect people and their privacy? I think the other part of fame as we know it is that we put people on a pedestal so much that when we see them in their real lives, we get to tear them apart so we don't have to feel so bad about the fact that we're normal. But they're normal. We rob them from their magic by criticizing their human. They're not supposed to be the big one 24. 7. It's the fact that they can access that power sometimes that makes them magic. Everyone is human. Everyone is normal. But some are able to allow themselves to be the one for moments at a time. And then we take that from them by making them feel like their humanness is not enough. Like the celebrity is all that matters. Like the perfection is all that matters. And that is not a good message that we send out in the world. In my opinion, in my opinion, what we. What we want to be looking at is that we are all extraordinary as human beings. We are all extraordinary as we are. And if we manage in our lifetime to claim, even if it's just momentarily, that feeling of being the one, what a freaking gift is that. What an accomplishment, something to be proud of, that we were able to stand in our power and claim that for however long. But seeing people who've made it and then vilifying them when they're human is so unhealthy. And what it does is it makes the ones who are available to make a huge impact in the world be actually quite afraid of it. And in my thoughts today, and actually thinking about this is what I realized is I would love to be famous. If I thought that famous meant just showing up and helping people and people knowing my work and people saying, wow, it's amazing what you did. We're so proud of you and thanks for paving the way, congratulations. Then I'd love it. But there's a flip side. And the thing is, we always have to be an energetic match for both. I was also having this conversation with a private client today. You can be the energetic match for a thousand clients, but what if every hundred clients gives you A ratio of 1 dissatisfied 1 and 1 dissatisfied 1 makes you want to quit the whole thing? Then you're an energetic match for a thousand clients. Sure. A thousand happy ones. But are you an energetic match for 990 happy ones and 10 who hate you? Oh, I don't know about that. 10. 10 at the same time that are mad. 10 at the same time that aren't happy. 10 at the same time. Oh, I don't know about that. We're an energetic match for what works, are we an energetic match for what doesn't? And that's where we need to grow our strength and our power and being the one. So things we need to clean up Because I asked a few of you. I asked you to take 15 minutes to think, like, what am I afraid of in all this and being the one? And the reason I asked you to do it is because I thought about it. What am I so afraid of? Like, why is it that I say that the next day I'm on the billboard and I really have had a weird experience about this whole thing today. I did not sit and pop champagne. I went into the woods looking for my soul. Like, there has been some weird feelings. Okay, it says, lost me. Has everyone lost me? Am I choppy or am I okay? Okay. So I have these weird feelings about it. Like, and what's the fear? Fear is that I'm going to lose my privacy. The fear is that I'm going to be picked apart for where I'm not perfect. The fear is that I'm going to become one of those people who's objectified for success instead of people being curious about it. It's like, that's all I am. And then if I'm anything less than that, any humanness that comes from me is not enough. It's like you get put in another category where you're not human anymore, you're just expected to perform or you're not worthy of the fame. Well, then I'd rather not be famous if I'm going to be questioned if I'm unworthy of the fame. Every time I'm human, I'd rather be human. That dehumanization is the same thing as what we do on social media is the same thing we do. And there's people fear of being kidnapped, fear of being manipulated, fear of being all kinds of things. You know, my. My parents told me so much, you've got to be careful when you're claiming big things. People come after you for money. People will come after you. They're going to try to sue you. They're going to try to this. And there are people who, as soon as I became successful, were trying to get a piece of something, tried to be dishonest, tried to do things. There's going to be people like that. But am I going to stop serving the world because certain people want a piece of what I've built, Or am I going to stay strong and be the example for all the women who've been modeled that way too often? Be quiet. Don't disrupt, don't bother. But that doesn't mean I don't have fear. That doesn't mean I'm not afraid sometimes. So on your journey to being the one. There's going to be duality. You're going to be a match for the things that you want, but you've got to also be a match to handle what you don't want. And that's an interesting journey to say. There's so much of this that I love. There's so much of this that I want. What about the hard stuff? And when you put yourself in environments where people go for what they want and they do go through hard stuff sometimes, and they're willing to be honest about that, you're going to feel really powerful, you're going to feel really strong because it's going to feel like, we are doing this, we can do this. You've got to become an energetic match for the things that are brilliant and easy and fantastic in your life. You also have to be an energetic match for the flip side. Now, having said that, there's another very important piece of the puzzle. We get to have success without the struggle. Also, it does exist. And when I talk about these things I know a lot of people like. But does it always need to be hard? Does it have to be like, do I have to be okay with the bad stuff? Can't I just manifest that it's easy? Most of the time it might be easy, but what if it's easy and then one day it's hard and you weren't prepared? Are you just gonna be just. Can you just listen to what I'm saying and keep it in your back pocket on the odd chance that for you it's a breeze? If it's a breeze, great. But if one day something happens, just remember that you've got to be a match for the hard thing, too. So if it comes with effortlessness and ease, it's because God of the universe already knows you've got it. If the hard thing comes, you'll be okay. Don't let it break you. You will be okay. Don't let it break you. So this, for me so far has been a mostly really positive thing. I've only had really, really beautiful feedback. A few people ask for me to do things that I don't really feel like doing. And a couple of people asked me how much I paid to put myself on a billboard in a snarky little attitude. Those are the only. Those are the only things. Apart from that, there's been nothing bad, which is cool. I can be grateful for that. And I think that because of my boundaries, I have created a community. I think that because of my boundaries, I have created a community. That really does respect me. And the fear is that the new people that find me don't know the rules. Like these new people that are just coming and finding me. They don't know the rules. They don't know that we're nice over here. What if they don't know the rules? But I've got to trust. I've got to trust. Maybe that question about the price is because some person has had an interest to pay for to be on that. No, it was with little rolling eyes like this after, you know, the ones where you look up like that. It was snarky. Did that snarky comment come from the newspaper? But no, it's cool to be kind. Yes. Sometimes it's easier to be with what? It's easier to be with the hard stuff than with the success. And it's true. Sometimes, like, the success itself is the scary thing. But that's okay if you want it. You'll become an energetic match for it eventually. It's just trusting in the timing of the universe. There have been so many times in my life where I have tried for people to listen to me. And it's only when I started doing this for me, for you, for us, that it landed. I started treating my social media like a diary. I started using the Internet like an extension of me instead of a place I was begging to be seen on. And the entire world flipped on its head because the frequency of I see me is a very unique frequency on the Internet. Look at me. Like me is the running frequency on the Internet. I see me. I am the one is a frequency that we do not find on the Internet. When you step into that, people are like, whoa. This is a person that doesn't need validation. What is she about? This is a person who knows herself. What is she about? This is a person who leads herself. What is she about? She's not looking for the trends that will make her feel seen. She's setting the trends because she sees herself. This is the world I want for us. I want us to be the leaders of our time. And for that, we have to be able to see ourselves. It's the most important thing. When we see ourselves, we're a different frequency. Now, when I say this, sometimes you'll feel like, oh, gosh, I can see it and I hear you, but, like, I just. I don't know how to do it. It's okay, because just being in this kind of conversation changes things. I was also having this conversation with the private client. I have had such good conversations with my Private clients today. Holy pickles. I had a conversation with my. With my client today, and she was saying, like, I want to know what to do. Like, I get it, but then what do I do? And it's like, you actually won't need to do much once you've decided, because things are going to start to change. Like, I talked about something yesterday. My life changed today. Declare things. Be bold enough to say it. Be bold enough. I know it is cold, but it's okay, because I felt I needed to be outside and I'm trusting my intuition. It has to be from our declaration to say, I declare I am the One, and then I make my life about making it. So I declare I am the One. So what I want to talk to you about today, and I'm actually going to put myself back on focus so that you can see me with focused eyes because I've been looking at you all and I really enjoyed that. But I know that it's easier to focus on me when I'm looking straight at the camera. There are some really interesting. I'm all fluffy in my eyeballs. There are some really interesting storylines in our world about being the chosen one. When we look at characters that we have come to love and adore, that were these, like, unassuming underdogs that became the one we think of, like Harry Potter. We think of Frodo from the Lord of the Rings. We think of people like Neo in the Matrix, people who were the chosen one to go and do something, to have a mission that they needed to go and do. And we often think, okay, so the One. This is the one that needs to go deliver the Ring, the one that's going to change the world by, you know, conquering or slaying he who Must Not Be Named. There's. There's the One who is going to change the Matrix. But when you look at it, what it is, is people who were chosen and then chose the mission. What we were taught, however, is that someone outside of us was going to tell us that we were chosen. Something circumstantial was going to come in and say to us, you're the one. Come with me. So we've been waiting for that. But what we've not taken into consideration is the fact that the voice within is the one that tells us we're not all on this masterclass. And you can already see, based on how difficult it is sometimes to get your point across, that isn't everybody on the planet that wants what we want. It is a very different experience for A lot of humans on Earth, they don't want to be the One. They want a quiet life where they can go to work and then come home and relax and go to sleep and not have stress and be with their kids. And they don't have that inside of them. They want peace. They want. They want quiet. They want something else. Another beautiful thing that feels so right for them. And this world, we're changing it, or doing something huge is not a voice in their head. They don't have the voice in their head that says, you were meant for more. You were born for this. They don't have that voice in their head. But we do. So what if we've been waiting all our lives for a Morpheus or a Hagrid or a Dumbledore or a Gandalf? We've been waiting all our lives for someone to come say, you're the Chosen One, when really we've been walking with the Voice who told us that for as long as we can remember. We're waiting for a savior. We're waiting for a person that's going to say, but it's the inner voice that knows now. Every time there is a Chosen One, there's also a very important part to that story unfolding the way we know it. There's the Chosen One, and then there's the moment where the Chosen One has chosen the mission. What happens if Neo takes the other pill? What happens if Harry says, I'm sorry, I just can't go. I'm not allowed. What happens if Frodo gives the Ring away or stops after he's lost at once? The Chosen One must choose. And this is the part that we are not claiming because we're still waiting for it to be a certain way. After so many movies watched, after so many things that happen, we're not claiming that moment because we're waiting for someone else. Someone else to come along and tell us that we're the Chosen One. The fact is, we are the One. And not only are we the One, we're also the one that has to see the mission through. When hard things come. What kind of movie would any of those movies be if there wasn't someone trying to wreck the mission? What kind of movie would it be if there weren't someone coming into Sabotage? Or a plot twist, an opportunity for someone to change their mind, get stronger, be bolder, grow into more. So you got to choose the mission. First of all, you've got to tell yourself you're the One. And you've already done that many Times. So your job now is not to tell yourself you're the chosen one. Your job now is to choose the mission. The moment where the chosen one has chosen, yes, I am the one. If you've been hearing it in your head over and over again than you are. And when you choose the mission, you've got to understand that there are going to be people that are going to come in and create one heck of a story for you. You're going to have the people that do the things that are not good. You're going to have the people who do the things that suck. You're going to have the people who say the things that are mean, who try to sabotage, trip you up, do the things. And it'll be you that comes out on the other side. Because through the Harry Potter movies, Harry is told to be a liar, a cheater. When he. They think they put his. He put his name in that cup when he didn't. People are wearing badges saying mean things about him. He's still Harry Potter. People think that he's lying about the Voldemort being back. He's a liar. Potter's a liar. It's in the newspaper everywhere. People are against him. His friends turn against him. But there's a mission. The ring literally changes Frodo when he holds on to it for too long. The actual mission gets. Goes to his head and he finds the one Sam that he can rely on that'll hold the burden with him. The one. You know, the author that wrote that book, Kevin told me this. The author that wrote that book actually said this is actually a book about Sam, Sam Wise. I think his full name, like this is. This is actually a book about him because he, his mission was to walk with. I think it's R.R. tolkien that wrote Lord of the Rings, but it's him that helps this all happen. Like, without him, the mission doesn't exist. And it's so powerful to say like, they're all the ones. How does, how does Harry survive without Hermione and Ron? There's just no way. How does Neo survive without Trinity and Morpheus? It never happens. It just never happens. So you've got to be the one who can recognize the One and treat people like the One so that you can have the people it takes in your corner to go through your life. Missions. When the difficult things come, when the sad things come. Yeah, it started snowing. So we are having the most extraordinary experience when you think about it. We have a voice in our head, in our soul that says, you're the one. I don't know if these are chills of cold or chills of chills, but the way the snow just hit me there gave me, like, body chills. We have a voice that says, what is happening? This is so dramatic. We have a voice that says, I am the One. We have this voice inside. It says it. Now. Do we claim it? Do we listen to it? Do we say, yes, you're right, I am. Do I choose the mission and will I continue to choose it even when things are difficult? And will I continue to thrive and show up for myself no matter what? Will I do that? It's our job to do that. In every single one of these stories that we learn, that we watch, that empower us, though, there's the One, and then there are the people who help the One be the one. Who are those people in your life? My Shannon, my Kevin, my Emma, my Vanessa. Who are your ones? The ones that are going to help you in this mission and who are going to be the villains that we don't know their backstory in your life, but things happen. You've got to surmount things. You've got to come. You've got to overcome them without losing your heart so that the story is beautiful in hindsight, and you can be proud of what you say and what you do. Now, the other part of this, and I know most of us are women in here, and I'm sure men, you can hold this for us for a moment if you're watching, but there's a little bit of an issue with the way women were presented with storylines when they were little. So notice that all the storylines I'm giving you are the ones that I probably had when I was a teenager, because what I had when I was a little girl was princesses. Now, the issue with princesses, and I've talked about this in different contexts, and I'm going to bring you a whole other different context today, but princesses are in movies where there's only one princess, unless the other princesses are mean or evil. They're either ugly stepsisters or super beautiful, kind mermaid sisters that the dad prefers that don't understand the other mermaid at all. But the other princesses don't have friends. They have animals. Jasmine has a tiger. Cinderella has mice. The Little Mermaid has a crab and a fish. There are no other friends. There are no friends. Cinderella, bless her cotton socks, she sings to the little animals in the forest, and then she lives with the seven dwarves, which I don't even think we can say anymore. But regardless, she doesn't have a female friend that she called that said, I've got you. These are all alone. Every single one of the princesses we've come to love and admire are alone. Hmm. What does that say about sisterhood? What does that say about we've got each other? The only other women are either very old or villains in the movie. Now in the new ones, we've got Elsa, who's got her sister. I love the new narratives. That's not what we grew up with. We grew up with very lonely princesses who fell in love with princes that saved them. And this is the part I've said before. Princes that have saved them or, like, kissed them when they were unconscious or, like, rescued them naked from the beach. They can't even talk. The prince wants to marry her because she's the most beautiful naked fish with a voice he's ever met. He didn't know it at all. She's hot. It's a great reason to marry somebody. Or like, she marries the guy who lied to her and pretended he was a prince. She's been riding on a magic carpet who was actually a monkey or an elephant or something. The whole thing's a lie. And we're happy when they live happily ever after. What is going on over here? How are we proud of these women? You have no friends and you're marrying a liar. Why am I wishing I was you? We have a warped sense of what it means to be the hero of your life, the chosen one. So I want us to write better stories for the next generations. Stories where sometimes it's easy, sometimes. Where sometimes it's hard. Stories where sometimes it's hard, but you make it through like a freaking warrior S. Because you are. And sometimes you're a magic manifester and things happen seamlessly. And those stories are great, too. And you've got people around you. Other women. We rewrite the narrative that other women are bad and jealous and catty and awful. Why is that the truth? There's so many of us in this group and so many of us supporting each other. Can't we rewrite the narrative? Can we be the one? The one that's a part of the world changing for women to support each other. So being the One is a big responsibility. We've talked about that. It is a big responsibility. It's a big responsibility because we're the One. But where we have relief with that is that if I'm the One and you're the One, I don't worry about either one of us. Because if ever anything happens to me, you got me? If anything happens to you, I got you. We're both the one where we make mistakes. And I think a lot of us get very scared is when we become the one. In our family or in our relationship. We fear that we're the only one. All the pressure is on us. I was talking about this in my mastermind today. We've had some good conversations today. There's a difference between being the path of least resistance for wealth and the provider. The provider means no one else can do it. If you don't provide, everyone starves. The path of least resistance means everyone is capable and you make it even better, even easier. You make magic happens and magic and miracle happens in your life for you and for people around you. It's important that we see people in their power. It's so important. Because if not, you become the one while believing no one else is the one. You will become a tyrant dictator. We don't want that. We don't want. I'm the one, and everybody else needs to know that I'm the best one. I'm the only one. I am the one that can lead my life. I take my life seriously. I take my mission seriously. But I honor everyone as the one of their own life. When I do that, my life changes because I treat people differently when I believe they're powerful. I see a lot of women and men become powerful and then imagine that everyone needs them, that they're the one. And people should be grateful like I'm the one, and you should be grateful. I exist. I'm the one. And you should be grateful to be with me in that other side of proud, the side that we're not going into. And the issue with that is I treat people. I would treat people so differently if I thought they needed me versus if I thought they chose me. When I see you as powerful and you choose me, I am honored. When I see me as powerful and not you and you choose me, I see you need me. I treat you so differently. You want to stay kind. You want to stay grounded. You want to stay real, see people and their power. I feel so honored that you choose me. I feel honored when my AFE clients choose me. I feel grateful when my unity clients choose me and my private mentorship clients choose me. It is such an honor because I know your power. I know your power and I know how many choices you had, that I was one of many choices. But I'm the one you chose, and I will be the one. And I will take that seriously, and I will take it to heart. For me, for you, for us. Because I decided I was the one. I accepted the mission. You decided you were the one. You accepted the mission, and now we're both doing great things, and you've chosen to do it with me. And I am the chosen one. For me and for you and for us. Now there's a respect. Now there's a connection. Now we're going to go places. But if I think I'm the one and you need me, I'm going to treat you like you don't matter at all. And this is where we lose it. This is where we create that energy that people shy away from and think, if that's what it looks like to be successful, I don't want it. Let's model something so beautiful when you are chosen, when someone buys your physical product, when someone has. And I saw, when I was looking at you all people with their alpha femme notebooks. Like, you have your alpha femme notebooks. Women buy those from the store. And I see them in Instagram stories. I see them on my timeline, and I'm like, that's the notebook I sent. You chose to write in that notebook. I feel special. Like, I feel honored if you connect to that energy. I feel honored that my work is being received. I feel honored, but also not surprised, but honored, not surprised, because I own it. And I give my life to this work. And I will do the best that I can because I'm. I'm so committed to it, and I'm so grateful. And then I'm so grateful that you choose me, because I believe that you're committed to your work, too. And I believe that you're doing great things, too. And I believe that together we're going to do even more extraordinary things together. But I'm the one, and you are the one. That energy creates magic. So when we watch a movie and we see the narrative of there's a powerful person who goes to see an unassuming person and tells the unassuming person that they're the one. And then the unassuming person becomes the hero. And alongside the hero are these other people that they just magically manifest who are also the one that help them. That seems like a very easy, simple thing that should just happen to us. But we're the voice. We're the one who says, you were meant for more. And when the voice says, yeah, but what if people don't want it? Who's ever had that thought? I have these Great ideas. But then I think to myself, what if nobody buys it? What if people can't afford it? What if people don't do it? Right? So that means I believe in me, but not in you. Why would I choose a person who believes in themselves but not in me? You gotta believe. Yeah, but what if they don't do it? Why would the universe. Why would God plant a seed in your mind if it hadn't first been asked for many times? I actually believe that there's a conscious collective asking for what the world needs at all times. I honestly believe that there are people thinking about what they want all the time, and that creates an energetic channel. And because I've decided I'm the one, and because I have claimed that I'm the one, I receive the idea. I receive the idea because I'm the One. Then I do. I choose the mission. If I think, oh, I could do it, but no one will do it, then I only. I don't believe in anybody's power. What's the point? Move it. Give it to someone else. Then someone else receives a seed. I do it. I do it for me, for you, for us. Because I believe in me and I believe in you. And we're gonna change the world. Go. That person does it. It works. It's not gonna work if you don't believe in them. They want to be respected. They want to be seen like the one. They want to be felt like the one. They don't want to be the person you didn't believe in that just slipped by and happened to purchase your thing. They don't want to be the person who. Who just happened to slip by and fall in love with you when you didn't think anybody would, but, like, whoops, they did. Must be something wrong with them. No one's gonna love me. Why not? I don't have friends. Why not? People won't buy this from me. Why not? And who wants to be the friend of the person who doesn't believe in their friendship? Who wants to be the partner of the person who doesn't believe that they're loved? Who wants to go in business with the person that doesn't believe they can? We perpetuate this cycle. You gotta believe in people and their power. This journey is a journey of I am the One, you are the One, we are the One. But you can only believe people are the one if you believe you are. Because we look at life through a filter. How can I believe you can do something I've never done? And if you wonder why people don't believe in you. Sometimes it is not because they don't believe in you. It's because they're running whatever wild idea you have through the filter of what they believe they're capable of. And if they can't fathom doing it themselves, how can they possibly believe you can? So it's not our job to wait for people to believe in what we're capable or not. It's our job to do what we know what we're capable of. So people can say, she can do that. Maybe I can too. We can't wait for people who haven't self actualized to tell us they believe we can. We're going to wait forever. Model the people that inspire you, but give them credit. Don't steal. Be good in your heart. Treat people the way you want to be treated when you're there. Start it now. Be someone you're going to be proud of later. Create the friends that are going to walk with you. Create the relationships that are going to be with you to go down this beautiful path that you're agreeing to walk in your life. And this information, it's so important because it's important in all things. It's not just in business. It's so important in your relationships. Who here, sort of curiosity, has ever had a relationship where, like, no matter how much you told your partner how much you love them. Kevin, I'm not wearing my Instagram. Have you ever been in a relationship where no matter how many times you tell someone they love you or you love them, they're. They don't believe you. They constantly question it. They think you're cheating, they think you're lying. They don't believe it. They think you're gonna go do something. They think you're gonna go somewhere. They don't believe it. How exhausting is that? And it's so unfair. It's like, don't you believe in my power? Don't you believe in my. In my. In my word? Don't you believe in me? Like, why would we treat anybody like that when we know what it feels like? Have you ever had a friend that you could tell? Just, I know, but I didn't want to bother you. I didn't call you because I didn't want to bother you. I just know you're busy and you're like, are you kidding me? You didn't tell me. You didn't invite me. You didn't tell me you didn't. Well, no, because I know you're very busy or I know I didn't want to bother you or. I know you're going through a lot and you're like, if you love me, will you marry me? Yes, I will marry you. Oh, well, thank you. You're trying to tell your friend, like, I. I'm your friend. I want you to tell me these things. I want to be there for you and these things. No, no, no. So cute. I know it's his thing, but I just saw one thing. I think this might count for your 111 list. What did I see here? Oh, the snow. Yeah. Okay, hang on. How are you? Are you outside? Yes, I'm outside. He always says, will you marry? Yes. Okay. What did I see? I saw something. How are you able to continue amazing friendships with people who work for you? This is so cool. I love this question. So. And Eleanor says I'm a bit like what you described. So this is what I'm. This is actually the point I'm making, Eleanor. That's the whole point. I'm trying to say, if you felt it and it doesn't feel right, then you have insight into how it actually makes people feel when you don't trust in their power. What if you actually believe that your friends loved you so much? Like, your friends love you so much? How much would you love them if you believe that? If you trusted how much they loved you, how much would you let yourself love them if you knew that your partner was so in love with you, so obsessed with you, like, can't get enough of you, how much would you let yourself freaking love your partner if you knew how much. If you believed how much love there was for you, how much would you believe in your clients if you knew how much they believe in this relationship? If they were like, I love doing life with you, and I feel like I'm a stronger human when we do things together. And I love us, like, how much more would you love them if you let them love you? We would be more. We would be more. If we believed in love, we would be more. If we believed in friendship, we would be more. If we believed in trust, we would be more. And here's what I will tell you about having people. This is turning me on. I have my closest, most extraordinary people that work with me. Because they work with me, they are treated equal power, but different. Shoulder to shoulder. I trust in their leadership and their intelligence and their expertise and their power and their ideas. I didn't try to box them in a company where they work for me. I asked them and invited them to work with me to change the world. And they said yes. And it is the honor of my life to work with them. And when I have a business success, now that I've become a multimillionaire, I have a business success, they all cheer with me because we all win. It's the greatest thing that's ever happened to me. Instead of being the one at the table where everyone has their story about their boss, that they annoy them, we're all at the table cheersing and celebrating because a win for one is a win for all. It's the greatest thing I've ever built. My relationship with Kevin is my greatest thing I've ever built. And my alpha femme brand is the second thing greatest thing I've ever built. But it's the most extraordinary thing to be able to say every time one wins, we all win. That is so extraordinary. But that's when you work with people, you work with them. They work with me. Yes, they work for the alpha femme brand, but I work for the alpha femme brand. They work with me. We work together for alpha femme. That's how my friends and my family can work with me. It's all about the energy, how you treat people, how you see people, how you hold people in your heart. Like, what's the feeling? Are you the one and they're nothing? Or are you the one and she's the one? And she's the one and she's the one. So here's what I want you to work on today. I want you to really look at what the parts are where you don't let yourself go full out because you're afraid of being the one. You're afraid of having too many responsibilities. You're afraid your heart's going to get broken. You're afraid you're going to be wrong about something. And then ask yourself if any of those things happened. And I want you to be so honest, like the honest, most honest you've ever been. Would you be okay if you fell in love and you had the greatest love affair of your life for three months and then it broke down? Would you be okay if you fell in love and you had the greatest love affair of your life for two years and it broke down? Would you be okay if you had the greatest friend the world has ever known for five years and that relationship broke? Would you be okay? Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? If there's a chance of you creating the most epic business that has ever lived, and maybe it lasts 10 years was it worth it? If you have the chance of building the greatest business that's ever lived with your people that you love the most and everybody has a time of their lives for four years, is it worth it? Nothing lasts forever. But is it worth not doing it at all really? Look at the things you're afraid of. What are you afraid of? And would you be okay? You're the one. Do you choose this mission? Are you willing to stay the course even when the villains come? Whether those be people, circumstances, global issues? Will you be the one through it all? So that the end of your life? When you're old and gray and you tell the story of your life, you're proud of who you've been. We have this one beautiful life and we forget how much can be done in a lifetime. We put pressure on ourselves for what we should be good enough at right now. And we forget that we have a whole life to develop the story, relieve the pressure of time and instead making about a life well lived. The one that lives this life, that's you. So what, what are you going to do about it? What now? Bring it. And you're going to get to decide what you want when it comes. I'm actually really proud of that billboard. I'm terrified of it. Still haven't decided whether or not I'm actually going to go see it. I'm self processing those thoughts. My parents are going to go see it. They're going to send me a picture and Stephanie Alpha team said she was going to go see it and she wanted to take a selfie. I don't know but I can be really proud of that. But it doesn't need to change the fact that I'm not. I don't want. I still don't want to be. I'm going to tell you a real story. Last year in the summer we went to. We went on a boat on a lake near where I live and I'm going to tell you a real story. I mean a story that really happened. That's kind of weird the way I said that. Like it's not a movie, it's my life. And we went fishing and we spent the whole day on the lake and it was an amazing day and we caught fish and it was all great. I've been on the lake. I'm just. You always tell real stories. No, I know, but I mean a story about me. I've been talking about Neo and Harry Potter and Frodo. This is a story about Melianne Lair. It's real story. Of me and Harry Potter and Frodo. This is a story about Melianne Lair. It's real story of me. This happened to me. And I spent the whole day on the boat. I don't know what I look like. I look like some sort of beach bum, you know, Like, I'm not. I'm not at all in. I've been on the boat with my family all day, so. And I'm. I'm warm and I'm sweaty and we've been fishing, like, you know, the vibe. So I come off the boat and this. And this is during pandemic times. And this girl comes off the boat, another boat, and literally love attacks me. Like, oh, my God, you're Melanie Adler. You're my idol. Oh, my gosh. And, like, hugs me. Like, full invasion of space. Bless her heart. Like, I don't think a part of her at all thought about how I might feel about this. She was just so happy to see me. And my dad was there and Kevin was there, and it was just like, oh, no. And she was telling her friends, like, do you know who this is? Like, I want this girl. She's the real deal. And, oh, no. I really didn't like that. Like, it was like. And I understand that, like, when you're pregnant and people want to touch your. Want to touch your belly. Like, people that you don't even know. But, like, this was. This was like, I love you energy. But, like, you don't know me. She's not in any of my programs. She's a follower on social media. She doesn't know me. Follow her on social media. And I was like, this is the where. This is what I'm afraid of, because I think it would be so different. I once had Mary. Mary Archibald. Who's in here? We. I was at a Starbucks. I was on the phone with Kate, my client, my private client, Kate, at the time. And she heard my voice in the Starbucks. She turned around, it was me. She was like, melody, oh, my God, it's you. I love. I love her. She's my programs. I know her. I love her. It's fine. I saw her. She was like, oh, my gosh. We talked. Talked to Kevin. We took a selfie. Fine. When I bought a crystal from Tara, I went to Niagara Falls and walked into her store. She was there. We're so happy. We spent time together. We love each other. That's different. We've been talking to each other. Like, if you're in this program with me, we know each other. Like, there's a connection, but it's the external feeling of like, you don't know me and you're projecting something onto me. You have no idea who I am. You have never heard me. You have never connect. You don't know me. Like, this is. This is the thing that I'm, like, afraid of. So I'm going to have to do the work. This is going to be my journey because I have been able for very long to keep my privacy. I don't know how much longer I'm going to be able to do that, but with my boundaries, I'm going to be able to decide how I get treated. You're going to get to do that. If there are things that you're really scared of or really worried about, you get to navigate your experience in alignment with that. There's a part of me that doesn't want. I just don't. I want the real connection. I've loved the word of mouth. I've loved that everyone that came into my. My life came in through respect. I love that we've built all this through powerful relationships and good customer experience and good people showing people. And I love how it's been built. And it's scary for me because there's something I don't know how to handle yet. And probably if I'm ever going to have a level of success that's like, you know how I. I remember people saying to me early days, like, you're going to be the female Tony Robbins. Like, if I was ever going to be Oprah status, Tony Robbins status, Gabby, you know, the ones that we know, I would have to be okay with that happening. And right now I'm not. So I'm sure I slow down my opportunities, even. I'm sure at this point I slow things down. And that's okay because I live a life that I love. And it's also okay if I change my mind, if this goes well, and I'm like, okay, I can handle this. Maybe I'll change my mind. This is one of the reasons I didn't like running ads. And I was afraid of running ads because I was afraid of the people who don't know me finding the ad and saying something. So I've got. I still got things to process. And the reason I share all this with you is because. And it could be preference right now, but the reason I share this with you is because I've really built all this success with so much spaciousness. I've built this success on my terms, my rules. And I've Gotten really far this way. And I've stretched and I've changed things and I've changed my mind, and I've changed my. My opinion. And then life threw things at me, and I modified my way of being. And then I realized some things weren't so bad. Thank you for saying that. You know, I learn as I go. Okay. I can handle that. Didn't think I could handle that. Looks like I can handle that. Didn't think I could handle that. Looks like I can handle that. Don't want to live that like I'm okay. We've got to be willing to try. And when. And there's times where it feels like it's not good. Take a. Take a step back. But magic can happen for you before you're ready. If you decide you're the one and that you just want to live it your way. You get to say, I. This is what I desire. And I desire it to happen this way. But then you've got to trust in how long it takes. So if I say I desire to have. Let's just play with this just for fun. And it's okay to be unclear about what you desire, too. You also sometimes learn what you don't desire first, and then you organize. But let's say I declare I want to have $100 million a year. This is bigger than I can even comprehend right now. I have no idea how I would do that. I say that number, and there isn't even a connection in my body. It's so big. So let's say I say I want to have $100 million a year. Why do I want to have $100 million a year? Do I need $100 million? No. Do I want to parade everywhere and, like, say, in all the places that I've made $100 million? No. Do I want people to know me all over the world for having made $100 million? No. So why do I want to make $100 million in this present moment? The reason I would want that is for our community of online entrepreneurs who haven't really seen this kind of growth in our kind of industry done the way I'm doing it. I want to show consistent evolution and growth. I want to be able to show that this is a viable industry where you can do absolutely anything and that you can do it the way that you want without selling yourself out. That's why I want to do it. Okay. Is it possible that by not letting myself be seen massively, it'll take me longer? Yes. Am I okay? With that? Yes. Okay. Is it possible that it may happen super fast? Yep. And I'm okay with that too. Yes. Now, there's no resistance, but I'm clear that I'm not willing to sell myself out for it to happen. I know at this point there are things that wouldn't make me happy. I would not do things that don't make me happy. In order to make it, it needs to happen on my terms. And I'm clear about that. Yes. And I'm okay if it takes longer because of that. Yes. Then let's go. This is where we sometimes sabotage ourselves. We say, I want this, but I want it not like this, not like this, not like this. And I'm not available for that. And I'm not available for that. Okay, so you realize that you are putting blocks in the universe. You're not opening yourself wide open to. I'm in no matter what. You're like, I'm in as long as. As long as. As long as. So when you put those blockers and those modifiers, you change the timeline. Is that okay? Potentially you might change the timeline. No, it needs to happen by Wednesday. Okay, well, this is where we often create the feeling of lack and fear and scarcity. Like if I desire it from pure desire, then I lean back and I wait and it comes. If I want it from pure desire. And there are things that I am not willing to do and I'm not going to compromise, then it'll happen on a different timeline, whatever that is. Or it could be the same one. But I have to be available for the timing because you get to decide some of this, not all of it. It's a co creation. So you can put your your foot down and say, not like this, not like this, not like this. And then the universe will work its magic, God will work his magic. But you've got to trust. You decide what you want and then you trust in the rest. So for me, I am willing for things to take a little longer as long as I don't compromise my heart, my soul, my being in the process. And in the big scheme of things, it has taken me nine years to get here. For the moment, like I slept in a car around this time nine years ago. It was like two weeks from now, my whole life is going to fall apart. Two weeks from now, nine years ago, my life is going to completely fall to pieces. Took me nine years. I have women who come into my life making 400 bucks a month, and within a few years, they're multimillionaires. On the Internet. It's very different journey for them than it was for me. And I think about that sometimes. Like in the big scheme of things, it did take me a while, but it was worth it. And I wouldn't change a thing. I wouldn't change a thing. I wouldn't change the story. I wouldn't change the way I did it. I love the story. I love that I did it this way. This is good. And so I trust that if there's things I'm not ready for, I can, I can work my way around it. So what I wish for you is whatever your heart truly desires. If there's a part of you that wants that fame, I want it for you. If that calls to you, I want it for you. If you want to be in a room filled with raving fans, I want it for you. But if you don't want exactly that and you think you need to like, do things you don't want in the name of something you don't, what do you want? Just go for it. And if you see that it's not what you want, change your mind. If you think you don't want something and it comes along and ends up not being so bad, then great. When do you know that the person who is ready for private coaching with you? I know because they know when a person wants to private coaching with me, they fill out an application and I can feel whether we're an energetic match. Like, do I feel like I am going to be the right mentor for this person? But whether or not they're ready, they know that I will never know. Like I. If they know that they're ready, then my question is just, am I a match for the person? But I'm not a person that's going to say to anybody, are they ready or not? Because the speed and the way things happened in my life, no one could have told me whether I was ready or not. It was falling into pieces that had me able to shape, to fit into a new puzzle. Yes. What do you want? It's not that simple. What do you want? Like in the notebook, what do you want? You got to trust in yourself. What do you want? Now follow it and then you'll see. Do you still want that or do you change your mind and go for it? And if it's great, do it again or do something similar. If it's not great, pivot, but your life will not be a straight line. Go for what you think you want. Then plot twist. Go for what you think you want and Then never mind. Go for what you think you want. And then maybe not. Go for what you think you want. And then celebrate good times. Come on. Like that's what it's gonna be like. Let's go. Oops. Let's go. Yay. Let's go. Oh, no. Like, that will be life. And then there will be good stories at the end of it all. We'll be left with memories and stories and everything else is just a fart in the wind. It won't matter. It won't matter. What matters is what you tell your grandkids you're on a campfire. What will matter is what you think to yourself in your last days. When you smile at your past, that's what will matter. Build that. And if you make a few mistakes now, so be it. You can handle them. You're the one. So enjoy your evening. Take the time. Look at your fears. What are they? Some of them. Respect them. Organize your life around them. Honor yourself. And other ones. Ask yourself, like, would it even be that bad? Maybe I can do this. Question it. Go for it. But the end goal is. Do you accept this mission? I can tell you that even if you can't trust the voice in your head, the voice in your head got you here. The voice in your head made you an energetic match for a program called I am the One. So if you're waiting for your Morpheus, I will be your Morpheus tonight. If you are waiting for your Dumbledore, your Gandalf to tell you, hey, guess what? Actually, you're the chosen One. Then let this be your message. You are the One. You are the One. There is no one else but you for this mission. Do you accept it? It's yours. And if you need help along the way. There are so many of us that got you. And together we change the world. I am the One. You are the One. We are the One. Continue expanding. Being the One. Tomorrow there are visualizations. We're going to anchor this in in a next level way. I have special announcement for you tomorrow as well. I hope you can make it live tomorrow. It's very important. But also if you're able to be in a space where you can really concentrate. Because this will be a very impactful module. Very, very super, super impactful module. So if you can be in a space where you can pay attention, you'll be very grateful that you can be. This ends module 4. I have been receiving. It's yours. And if you need help along the way, there are so many quite a few questions about the credit, I don't want you to panic what I explained any of us that got you and together we change the world. I am the one, you are the one. We are the one. Continue expanding being the one. Tomorrow there are visualizations we're going to anchor this in in a next level way is that there is a credit that can be used during this program for whatever the amount was that you purchased. So some People bought at 111Summit 333Summit 555Summit 777. Whatever the amount was that you purchased this program, you have a credit of that amount that you can spend inside of the Alpha Femme store. And what we do is. I'm going to. If it feels like a shop with me is necessary, what I could do is forward the shop with me from my last event because it really wasn't long ago. And I think it all very much resonates the same kind of vibe. And it's just the information of my programs. You also have the Alpha Femme team that's available for you if you want to just DM them and ask them. But we can definitely share the shop with me. You will have. I have special announcement for you tomorrow as well. I hope you can make it live tomorrow until 22nd February to choose. So there's no panic. It's very important. But also if you're able to be in a space where you can really concentrate because this will be a very impactful module. Very, very super, super impactful module. So if you can be in a space where you can pay attention, you'll be very grateful that you can be. This ends module 4 I have been receiving. If you want to just wait till tomorrow is over, then I'll post the shop with me and you can choose the one thing I hope you do with me. If I can, if I can say one thing that it would be like my dream come true is for you to do Femme Fatale. So Femme Fatale is the program that created this work for me. You want to know what I thought about when I was in that car? You want to know what attracted Kevin, what bridged the gap with my family? What created the relationships I have with my friends who are now my employees. You want to know how I built the six figure business from the front seat of my car? What was I teaching? What was I talking about? What the fundamental work of Alpha Femme is? It's the Femme Fatale program. And women of all ages have taken this program from ages and quite a few questions about the credit, I don't want you to panic what I explained like 19 to 78 years old. And across the board I have had messages like I've had women of all ages say, I just wish I would have known this in my life. I wish I would have known this sooner. This is the greatest thing I've ever heard in my life. This is a rite of passage into womanhood. It's everything I wished I would have known. I wish I would have known this sooner. Like it is. Honestly, the most beautiful is that there is a credit that can be used during this program for whatever the amount was that you purchased. So some people bought at 111Summit333, some at 555, some at 777. Whatever the amount was that you purchased this program, you have a credit of that amount that you can spend inside of the Alpha Femme store. And what we do, a body of work I have ever created. It's a three week journey and on the back end of this, it will be an absolute masterpiece. And there's an early bird price on it right now for 222 that will expire by the end of this masterclass. So it's a good time to jump in right now. And we have a portal. So for those of you who did Lionsgate Portal with me in the summer, it's the closing of the portal on the 22nd and when you buy the Femme Fatal program right now, you get the portal as bonus. So I'd love, I'd love it if you did that one. That's my dream. That's my dream is that you do that one and then we can talk is I'm going to. If it feels like a shop with me is necessary, what I could do is forward the shop with me from my last event because it really wasn't long ago and I think it all very much resonates the same kind of vibe. And it's just the information of my programs. You also have the Alpha Femme team that's available for you if you want to just DM them and ask them. But we can definitely share the shop with me, you will have until the 22nd of February to choose. So there's no panic. Talk about other things after that, but anybody who ever asks me if you could say one thing like, what do you wish? I like, what do you recommend as a first program? The one I wish more than anything is the Femme Fatale program. It's the one Femme Fatale is the one. It's the one that created Alpha Femme is the one that created Melanie and Lair. This program changed my life. It saved my life. It changed my life. It's channeled information, it's knowledge in the way that I applied it. Learn from other places and I'll share the sources with you. But like how I implemented them, it is the most beautiful body of work and it's my most favorite thing to do in the year, is to get back into those vibes. So if there's one program to choose, I wish, I hope that you would do this one. It doesn't matter whether you're an entrepreneur or not. We talk about manifestation, love, receiving. If you want to just wait till tomorrow is over, then I'll post the shop with me and you can choose the one thing I hope you do with me. If I can, if I can say one thing that it would be like my dream come true is for you to do Femme Fatale. So clean up any kind of wounds of belonging. Sisterhood wounds, motherhood wounds. The work we do in there is like reclamation of your life back. Like stepping into womanhood in a way that's so strong and powerful. If you have liked this program, this is, this is like we went together in this program. We went in a hike in the most beautiful forest. We climb Everest in Femme Fatale. It is the most powerful thing. There's breath. Femme Fatale is the. The program that created this work for me. You want to know what I thought about when I was in that car? You want to know what, what attract work? There's real tangible stuff to transmute your energy, how to actually help you hold the power? It's. Everything is beautiful. It's masterpiece. And I, I hope and I wish that that's what you choose to use your credit for. That's my dream for you. But there will be an opportunity to talk about other things. And I will post the shop with me with all the other information in it and will be my pleasure for you to watch that as well. If you have any other questions, you can also reach out to the Alpha Femme team for Kevin. What bridged the gap with my family? What created the relationships I have with my friends who are now my employees? You want to know how I. How I built the six figure business from the front seat of my car? What was I teaching? What was I talking about? What the fundamental work of Alpha Femme is? It's the Femme Fatale program. And women of all ages have taken this program from ages of work. So tomorrow, if you can show up in an environment where you can focus I highly recommend it. There's going to be visualizations. We're bringing this home and I have a really important announcement for you tomorrow as well. So I hope I can see you live either here on Zoom or on the replays on Facebook. Thank you all. And Nadine says if I paid 555, I could get a credit for that amount on Femme Fatal. Yeah. If you paid 555, you get a credit of 555. If you paid 777, you get to do that. Right. I'll be at my PE, my PE like 19 to 78 years old. And across the board I have PJs. Oh, my gosh. I'll see you in your PJs. I love you. Thank you for being here with me on such a pivotal day. You are wonderful. I love you. And we're going to put them. So if you want to register for Femme Fatale, you've got to message the Alpha Femme team because messages like, I, I, I've had women of all ages say, I just wish I would have known this in my life. I was. It's all different links based on your credit. So if you decide you want to do it, just jump in. I would have known this sooner. This is the greatest thing I've ever heard in my life. This is a rite of passage into womanhood. It's everything I wished I would have known. I wish I would have known this sooner. Like, it is honestly the most beautiful body of work I have ever created. It's a three week journey. And on the back end of this, it will be in my personal inbox, either on messenger or in Instagram or message the Alpha Femme team on Facebook and. Or you can email hellophem.com yes, you can change. No problem. No problem at all. As long as it wasn't an automated one that you've already had access to. You can totally change it. But just message the Alpha Femme team. They'll give you the link. And the easier, like the faster you do it, the better. Before the price. Absolute masterpiece. And there's an early bird price on it right now for 2 2, 22 that will expire. Changes. But. And yes, it is live. It's a live program with me. It's over 21 days, 11 live modules. It's incredible. It's really good. All right. I love you. Thank you for being here. I'm freezing my tootsies off. I got by the end of this masterclass, so it's a good time to jump in. Right now go inside now and I will see you. Yes, there are payment plans also, Chelsea and I, and we have a portal. So for those of you who did, Lionsgate portal with me in the summer. We'll see you tomorrow for another incredible module. Thank you for being here. It's the closing of the portal on the 22nd, and when you buy the Femme Fatal program right now, you get the portal as bonus. So, zoom. Bye. I am the one. I'd love. I'd love it if you did that one. That's my dream. That's my dream is that you do that one, and then we can talk about other things after that. But anybody who ever asks me if you could say one thing, like, what do you wish I like. What do you recommend as a first program? The one I wish more than anything is the Femme Fatality Program. It's the one. Femme Fatale is the one. It's the one that created Alpha Femme. It's the one that created Melanie and Lair. This program changed my life. It saved my life. It changed my life. It's channeled in information, it's knowledge, in the way that I applied it. Learn from other places and I'll share the sources with you. But like how I implemented them, it is the most beautiful body of work, and it's my most favorite thing to do in the year, is to get back into those vibes. So if there's one program to choose, I wish, I hope that you would do this one. It doesn't matter whether you're an entrepreneur or not. We talk about manifestation, love, receiving. We clean up any kind of wounds of belonging, sisterhood wounds, motherhood wounds. The work we do in there is like reclamation of your life back. Like stepping into womanhood in a way that's so strong and powerful. If you have liked this program, this is. This is like we went together in this program. We went in a hike in the most beautiful forest. We climb Everest in Femme Fatal. It is the most powerful thing. There's breath, work. There's real, tangible stuff to transmute your energy, how to actually help you hold the power. It's everything. It is beautiful. It's a masterpiece. And I hope and I wish that that's what you choose to use your credit for. That's my dream for you. But there will be an opportunity to talk about other things. And I will post the Shop with me with all the other information in it, and it will be my pleasure for you to watch that as well. If you have any other questions, you can also reach out to the Alpha Femme Team for support. Support. So tomorrow, if you can show up in an environment where you can focus, I highly recommend it. There's going to be visualizations. We're bringing this home. And I have a really important announcement for you tomorrow as well. So I hope I can see you live either here on Zoom or on the replays on Facebook. Thank you all. And Nadine says if I paid 555, I could get a credit for that amount on Femme Fatale. Yeah, if you paid 555, you get a credit of 555. If you paid 777, you get to do that. Right. I'll be at my PE. My PJs. Oh, my gosh. I'll see you in your PJs. I love you. Thank you for being here with me on such a pivotal day. You are wonderful. I love you. And we're gonna put them. So if you want to register for Femme Fatale, you've got to message the Alpha Femme team because it's all different links based on your credit. So if you decide you want to do it, just jump in my personal inbox, either on messenger or in Instagram, or message the Alpha Femme team on Facebook and. Or you can email hellophem.com. yes, you can change. No problem. No problem at all. As long as it wasn't an automated one that you've already had access to. You can totally change it. But just message the Alpha Femme team. They'll give you the link. And the. The easier. Like, the faster you do it, the better. Before the price changes. But. And yes, it is live. It's a live program with me. It's over 21 days, 11 live modules. It's incredible. It's really good. All right. I love you. Thank you for being here. I'm freezing my tootsies off. I gotta go inside now and I will see you. Yes, there are payment plans also, Chelsea. And I will see you tomorrow for another incredible module. Thank you for being here. I'll see you soon. Bye. I am the one, Sam.