When you don't say no out loud, your body says it anyway through tension and resistance, confusing your partner who thinks you're okay with it. Speaking your boundaries clearly lets both of you actually relax into the connection.
He feels your body's no, but without your guidance, he doesn't know why your body's not opening to him at the level that it could. You know, you never want to hurt your partner, but they get hurt by your half-open body anyway. And so sometimes it's so awkward to speak up about something that's in the way. But the thing is, your body's showing him that it's in the way anyway, and it's so generous to give him the info so that he can feel your body completely surrender.
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