Justin Patrick PierceYoga of Intimacy · Relationship Consultant

Relationship Advice | What Kind of Lover Do You Want to Be?

Name: Relationship Advice | What Kind of Lover Do You Want to Be?
Uploaded: 2026-03-09T13:00:06+00:00
Duration: 55 s
Channel: Justin Patrick Pierce
Description: In this reflective monologue, the speaker explores the qualities of an ideal lover, emphasizing emotional availability, the willingness to hold space for…

9 Mar 2026 · 1 min

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In this reflective monologue, the speaker explores the qualities of an ideal lover, emphasizing emotional availability, the willingness to hold space for a partner, and the importance of allowing vulnerability, weakness, and insecurity. They critique the “bulletproof alpha” façade, advocating instead for a partnership where both individuals can feel, grow, and evolve on their own personal growth curves. The speaker stresses inviting deep truth, meeting it without becoming stuck, and continuously moving through emotional moments, encouraging listeners to consider where they want to land in such a relational dynamic.

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So it depends on what kind of lover you want to be. I know for myself, I want to be the kind of lover that isn't afraid to be the seer when my man needs a seer, that isn't afraid to hold space for him. He's holding space for me all the time. I want a man who's awake in his heart, and for a man to be awake in his heart, he needs to be a feeler here and there. He needs to have the opportunity to have feelings, and he needs to have the opportunity to have weakness and insecurity. He needs the opportunity to actually evolve as a human being by being in his own growth curve rather than kind of pretending to be this like bulletproof alpha for you all the time, you know. So I'm always inviting the deepest truth and looking at how I can meet it, but not getting stuck in it, like moving it through. So it's a moment and then there's a new moment. So where would you want to land in that?