Guys, listen up - he just saved you 30 years of arguments:

They did a study with infants and their mothers where they would separate boys and girls from their mothers, and they put an obstacle in between the two of them. And so when they did this with the female infants, they would get to the obstacle, see their mother stop, and start hysterically crying, whereas boys would get to the obstacle and would climb over it, fall down, kick it, roll over it, do whatever they had to do to get through it. The takeaway from it, which is true even at this age, is that when a problem comes up, women just want to be heard. And as men, we just want to fix the problem. And that's true when we go to argue. And that's why I talk. When I talk with Chandra and she comes to me with something, I immediately say, do you want me to give you a solution, or do you just want me to listen? And nine times out of 10, she says, I just want you to listen. But I only know that at 45 years old because I've had 30 years of doing it the wrong way.