Melissa Dlugolecki and a friend debate whether texting back fast or slow matters in dating. One says quick replies seem desperate, the other says slow replies look uninterested. They're both confused about what actually works.
Potential hot take. But can boys stop responding so fast please? It's such an ick to me.
Okay boys, write this down. It's icky to reply too fast. Are they a slow texter or are they just not that into you? Oh wait, okay no do reply faster or else they'll think you're not into her. My bad.
Here's a PSA for all the single ladies. If a guy texts you back right away or if he's messaging you non stop all day probably seems really flattering, right? But it's not. It means he has nothing else better to do.
Wait, okay don't reply. They hate it. Okay wait do reply as fast as you can.
Girl brain is if you text him and he texts you back right away. Ick.
Maybe don't respond that fast. I don't know anymore. It appears your life is in danger no matter what. I'm so sorry.
