This is a YouTube video titled "No one ahead of you is judging you" containing a motivational or self-help talk recorded in July 2024. The speaker discusses overcoming fear of judgment and criticism, encouraging personal responsibility and understanding one's motivations. The content is authoritative and likely part of a series of interviews or talks on personal development.
If you're worried about judgment or criticism from others, which I've heard a lot. A lot of my clients have been up against that lately. One, just don't give them a vote. Anytime you're worrying about their opinions, you're literally giving them a ballot into your life, into your choices. Just don't give them a vote. And secondly, ask yourself one, be in responsibility. Am I projecting or is my fear projecting what I don't want them to think, or I'm afraid of them thinking. And now I've created a story that they're thinking that, and. And now I feel judged. And they're not even judging you. Two, if they are judging you, have they created the results that you want? Are they in the character, the values that you want in your life? Because I'll tell you, no one ahead of you is judging you. And then three, what is your why? Because when you have your why and you know what you're doing really makes it very simple to step into that fear, because it is a human experience. We associate not being liked or loved with, literally, death. We associate it. Our fight or flight will associate it at that level.
